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T_Laurich

T_Laurich

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I ask God why he could do this too my family... (Edit: I hate this sentence more then my situation at the moment...)

My sister is never the nicest person... In fact she is one of the meanest people I know... She is the first to fight and last to to stop.... She is always cursing, swearing, and degrading my entire family... Even after everything she has done to me I can't help but cry that my 16 year old sister was kicked onto the street and told not to return to the house, that she no longer lived here....

My father who has't really seen her in 3 years heard she was kicked out of the house.... And he took her in... Right now she is hurt, scared, frightened... and beyond sorry....

She has tried to talk to my mother but, my mothers heart remains hard... And over this whole situation, it has driven a wedge between me and my father...

My whole family seems in shambles... I am trying to glue the pieces back together but every time I glue 2 pieces together 4 more brake... This is why I am typing this, I have given up trying to fix this... I am handing it over to God...

More tears have been shed tonight from me my sisters and my father then the past 5 years.....
 
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Lord I pray for T_Laurich, bless and heal her family. Let it come out of the shambles it is in. Let them grow in your Love. and be knit together in thy Love. Amen
 
T, sometimes one hase to take everything out to clean things up and bring all together better. :)
I have many times seen this happen, and in time, healing does come, along with salvation for all.
Trust in God, for His understanding is so much greater than ours, and He works all things to His good perpose.

Setting you and all your faimily before God in Jesus's name with praise and thanksgiving.

God bless
pickles
 
There is a scripture that says "the Lord holds our tears in a bottle" Our tears are the exact solution as of ocean waters, and one day he will pour out those tears as a huge wave of blessings to a solution to these problems. No pray is to small, for him to act upon, and no problem to great, that he " I am that I am" God, cannot solve, with his love. In Jesus name, let his word be the foundation of your strenght, and let wisdom build your house back together into a home...applying his words, upon your wounds...
 
I don't know what God's plans are but my sister texted my mom and said, "Happy 4th of July". And my mom disowned her in a text, my mom wants to sign over custody of my sister on Monday, and is beyond joyful of giving away her daughter that has apologized and asked for forgiveness...

I don't understand why a mom could disown a daughter so easily and be so happy... And almost disowns me for sticking up for my sister...
 
Praying for you, your sister, father and mother and that you all may heal your emotionally wounds.

Thank god your father was there to take your sister in !
Thank god you are there and helping your sister to cope !

and even for her to change to become a person with a healthy relationship with god.

There will be very difficult time ahaed, while you have to cope with your mothers very wrong attitute.

Trust in god.
 
Keeping you guys in my prayers brother. I truly hope that the relationship between mom and daughter is restored and that the harmony in Christ that you seek for your family be given to you. God Bless !! /hugs to the loved ones.
 
T, I'm so sorry.It sounds like there is alot of hurt people in your family right now. Maybe this will turn out to be a blessing from God. Maybe your mom and sister both need some time and distance from each other. Mothers and daughters sometimes go thru hard times with each other. I have been there with both of my daughters, we are all back on track, but it took some time. I am praying for your family. I pray God keeps hearts opened, and that He will bring peace and healing to your family.
 
I don't think my moms heart will change about this situation until a few years go by...

When I decided to live at my dads for school and come to my moms on the weekend, I was kicked out of my moms life for a year, and even now she is resentful towards it....

But this has driven all my brothers and sisters closer together... For the first day in years, we all hung out and no one fought... We roller skated and played in the river... To be honest God blessed me with on of the happiest days of my life yesterday... So what ever He is planning through this... I know one by product is that the children are growing closer and stronger through this tough time....

Thanks for everyones prayers...
 
God Can change the hardest of hearts. Patient is the answer here. Let God deal with your mother. The Change needs to come from herself, she needs to see the need of change. but until then, just keep her in your own heart. your heart is of your own. like your mother is of her own. Let her change it in her own time, In God's time. Until then. keep praying for her. because one day you are going to be surprised to the max, when God intervene in her life and heart. God bless...........
 
T_Laurich said:
I ask God why he could do this too my family... (Edit: I hate this sentence more then my situation at the moment...)
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I cant imagine what has happened and it must be hard to think of the bright side but I would suggest showing them the joy that comes from God. before you say "I can't" dont, you can dude. God is way bigger than all of your doubts and he's bigger than man's attempts. supernatural... , and I know for a fact that God had nothing to do with what happened to your family.

but anyway the coolest thing to do would be to surround yourself with your family and just be there with them and show them what its like to be in God, being joyful in a trial.

I don't know the whole details but the best way to handle it is with Love, love is always the best way to handle evil.
 
LOL I AM LAUGHING SO HARD NOW! MY MOM TOLD MY SISTER SHE COULD COME BACK AND THEY WOULD GO TO COUNSELLING BUT I HAVE 3 WEEKS TO LEAVE...

So my little sister is taking my big sisters room since she was kicked out, now I am kicked out and my big sister is taking my room... I love irony...

At least my prayers were answered and now I have incentive to move on with my life...
 
God bless you for the peace of Jesus in this. :)
Praying all will be provided and a blessing to you.
You are right about the irony. :)

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
To everyone who prayed, or even read this post...

i want to thank you, the Lord has worked everything out... At least on my end of the stick...

No further replies needed all these prayers of mine being answered are better then any reply.. Just let this topic die so others can take its place...

Thank you...
 
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