Two main things to point out here, Zeb. One, you're coming across pushy and desperate and making the assumption that just because you 'say' you'll not leave her, be loyal, etc... well, these are all traits any woman would expect in a man. But just saying it doesn't prove it. Relationship takes time, trust has to be Built and proven, not simply stated that you can be trust. Love has to grow, you don't just announce 'i'm single and looking' and wait for someone else to announce it and assume that's good enough to get married. Basically everything i've seen from you is you just blaring out about getting a woman. You are pretty much ruining it for yourself. Women aren't going to be interested in you for bragging what a great husband you'll be in a forum. They marry men who they know over time, that proves love, respect and those sorts of things.
The other thing i'll point out, the 'largely unspoken truth' is that There are a few countries, Pakistan being on, on this site where the men have pretty much ruined the reputation of other men from these countries. Many Pakistani men come on this site showing little or no respect for the rules, or their approach towards women. If they aren't soliciting money then they are ignoring women's requests to not be PMed. They go down the room list PMing any woman they see as if they're items on a shelf, and they just get to pick and choose which one they want. Before anyone gets on my case about this, it is a very common problem i've heard of from many women, so i'm simply stating a collective thought of all that i've heard. I don't know you Zeb. Maybe you are a sincere guy just going about things poorly. But you need to realize you're taking the same wrong approach many other men in your area take and you are pretty much just appearing like yet another annoying man disregarding peoples wishes. I suggest trying joining into conversations in the main room. Just chat and be friendly and get to know people and let it be natural. Don't push. That will get you a lot farther than sitting in forums declaring what a wonderful husband you will be and expecting women to flock to you for saying it. Hope this helped.
