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godschild777

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Is there anyone out there that has recently lost a spouse?
 
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Harley_Angel

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Not I, but my husband is in Iraq...so sometimes it sort of feels like he's gone.
 
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Harley_Angel

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can't magine how much tougher it is for someone who HAS lost their spouse. At least I can talk to my husband, and there is a good chance he'll be coming home.
 
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Harley_Angel

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Glory, I'm so sorry. *Hugs* If you ever need someone to vent to or just want to write out your feelings, you can always PM me. My prayers are with you, and God is there, holding you and your husband in the palm of His hands.
 
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mcubed

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My husband moved home to heaven 14 years ago, December 03, 1995, he was shot in an armed robbery. No, it is not recent but I still understand. This will sound like a hard answer but my please understand this truly helped me to not be angry with G-d. The Bible says that there is a day witch a man shall die, but it does not say which day nor at what age, just a day that we will. But the most wonderful truth is Yashua (Jesus) did take the sting out of death and Alex (my husband) is more alive today then he was while he was here on Earth. I have and will continue to pray for your comfort. Yes, I miss him the big things all the way to the stupid. For the first few years I would blame life, when it didn’t go my way on him for dyeing, then Jesus gave me the grace to see that was my way of avoiding life on life’s terms and not dealing with situations at hand. I will still talk to Alex at times although I deep down do not think he can hear me because he is in heaven where there is no pain or sorrow… so why would G-d allow him to hear my pain… I simply like talking to him… it mentally somehow makes me feel better. This is sooooo much, this issue, is like an onion, there is sooooo many layers. As time passes there will be so many more layers to work through than the initial loss. This I can say with certainty, beyond any showed of a doubt, time does not heal all wounds only G-d does! Run to Him not away. I have healed, I am healing, and I am whole again. What sucks (for lack of a better term) is I had to feel the loss, the pain. But just like how the disciples were with Yashua, in the boat, and He said lets go to the other side and the storm came in spite of their great fear He calmed the storm and they made it safely, I can tell you there is the other side and Yashua, Jesus only Jesus, will get you there… you will not feel this way forever!!!
 
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greatkraw

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when we feel loss it is a taste of what God the father fealt for 3 days
 
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Glory777

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Harley_Angel said:
Glory, I'm so sorry. *Hugs* If you ever need someone to vent to or just want to write out your feelings, you can always PM me. My prayers are with you, and God is there, holding you and your husband in the palm of His hands.
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Hi Angel,

Thank you for the "hugs" and thanks also for the prayers. I know without God, I will not be able get through each day. So much pain....it's hard even to put it into words. My husband was my best friend, we spent a lot time together, we always did everything together. God given us 6 wonderful years together. My husband brought me here to USA, I am blessed because I have his parents that love me and I thanks God for them. I have my dog Toby, he was my Birthday present from my beloved husband 3 years ago. I am new at here, I sign up in Christian chat so I'll always have someone talk to me at anytime I need it. I really appriciated your kindness, Thank you!.
 
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Glory777

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mcubed said:
My husband moved home to heaven 14 years ago, December 03, 1995, he was shot in an armed robbery. No, it is not recent but I still understand. This will sound like a hard answer but my please understand this truly helped me to not be angry with G-d. The Bible says that there is a day witch a man shall die, but it does not say which day nor at what age, just a day that we will. But the most wonderful truth is Yashua (Jesus) did take the sting out of death and Alex (my husband) is more alive today then he was while he was here on Earth. I have and will continue to pray for your comfort. Yes, I miss him the big things all the way to the stupid. For the first few years I would blame life, when it didn’t go my way on him for dyeing, then Jesus gave me the grace to see that was my way of avoiding life on life’s terms and not dealing with situations at hand. I will still talk to Alex at times although I deep down do not think he can hear me because he is in heaven where there is no pain or sorrow… so why would G-d allow him to hear my pain… I simply like talking to him… it mentally somehow makes me feel better. This is sooooo much, this issue, is like an onion, there is sooooo many layers. As time passes there will be so many more layers to work through than the initial loss. This I can say with certainty, beyond any showed of a doubt, time does not heal all wounds only G-d does! Run to Him not away. I have healed, I am healing, and I am whole again. What sucks (for lack of a better term) is I had to feel the loss, the pain. But just like how the disciples were with Yashua, in the boat, and He said lets go to the other side and the storm came in spite of their great fear He calmed the storm and they made it safely, I can tell you there is the other side and Yashua, Jesus only Jesus, will get you there… you will not feel this way forever!!!
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MCUBED,
Thanks, thats very nice note. It was very touching my heart....tears coming down while I reading your note. I am agree with you, I will heal not by time but by the Lord Jesus. My husband didn't had to be suffer anymore and knowing that he is now with the Lord is my big Comfort but I miss him so much........
 
loveschild

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Mt Dad lost his wife last year and I know he misses her. I'm here to be with him so he isn't alone. But I know that isn't filling the loss in him. He doesn't have much joy at all .
 
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