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wow a few people are actually condoning her taking off and cheating on you.. Take it from me who has been cheated on several times.. I forgave and stood by my husband and I will let you know I do not have any trust in people anymore especially him. Our trust was broken and that is very hard to repair. I just want you to know that things will never ever be the same if she were to come back and try to be with you you will be forever wondering why you were not good enough. What is she dong while she is supposed to be at the store etc.... There is a reason why Moses had a cheating couple stoned to death.. It destroys a marriage to no end... Sorry once again I am not giving you what you want to hear probably but you need to think about your hurt as well. You need to seriously think if you can just get over what she has done if she were to come back... etc,, So I have told you only a few of many things that will creep up on you if it were to happen you getting back together.
Well Jenniferand2, if that's the thought you had bcuz of your husband's infidelity "why you weren't good enough." That's a lie, and please don't ever feel that way.. because you were more than good enough if you chose to stick by his side through his mistakes, it was him, he's the one who didn't realize your worth..
And back to the OP,he obviously sees something in his wife that keeps him holding on, and God does restore marriages just look a hosea and gomer.. I believe through gods love and forgiveness marriages can be saved n restored all glory to god of course..
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Update: My wife and I talked. We are not getting back together. She is pregnant with this other man's child. It can't be mine because we haven't been together in over 6 months. I am okay. I am slowly accepting it. I do not want her back anymore. In her talk she told me that she had cheated on me 4 times. None of those guys are the one she is with now. I am glad that she has left me because I wouldn't have been able to handle all those affairs. Plus, she owes it to her baby to try and make a family with this other man.
I am taking things slowly. She has filed for divorce. We did stop fighting and I don't call her anymore. I am okay. Not great but I am better than I was a few weeks ago. Thank you guys for everything! I really appreciate it. Please pray I can move on.
I think what hurts the most was that I always wanted to start a family with her. Now she got pregnant with this other guy...it sucks.
I am taking things slowly. She has filed for divorce. We did stop fighting and I don't call her anymore. I am okay. Not great but I am better than I was a few weeks ago. Thank you guys for everything! I really appreciate it. Please pray I can move on.
I think what hurts the most was that I always wanted to start a family with her. Now she got pregnant with this other guy...it sucks.
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Let her go.. The more you try to engage her the longer the pain will last.. The sooner you let go the sooner you can recover and be open to a new relationship.. Your only 30.. For a man that is still plenty of time left.. Thats the advantage we have the clock is not ticking on us..
My you be comforted by His Holy Spirit and may you find a partner worthy of you..
I am sorry about your situation. I am glad you both got things out in the open. I pray for your healing. Take your time to heal properly and don't worry you will find a special some one I would look maybe at church or a Christian site when your ready. Better chance of finding some one with your values. Some one mentioned courage for me standing by my husband But it is not really courage it is more then that but I need not go into detail my heart knows why I am where I am right now and hoping my situation changes soon as well.
marriage is the highest institution, hence the tempter will attack it and lead the weak willed away, we know Jesus didn't instruct her to leave, that leaves the adversary as the source of your pain.
Very seldom is it all one persons fault, most often both have played a part.
Very seldom is it all one persons fault, most often both have played a part.
She cheated on you 4 times, probably more, and now she's pregnant by another guy? Pardon me, but good riddance to her because you'll be much better off without her. You'd never be able to trust her fully again, and without trust, there is no marriage..
sorry, i missed the part about the 4 times she cheated.
It may very well be a blessing she is away.
So often we "find" someone to marry and then ask G-d to bless the union when we have
not asked for His direction in the first place. Could He be allowing you to be
free of on ongoing problem so that you might seek His direction for you?
blessings
It may very well be a blessing she is away.
So often we "find" someone to marry and then ask G-d to bless the union when we have
not asked for His direction in the first place. Could He be allowing you to be
free of on ongoing problem so that you might seek His direction for you?
blessings