Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?

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dothackzero

dothackzero

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Basically I'm just worried that I'll get a girl that's overweight or something that I'd find really unattractive in a girl. Basically, the only reason I'm asking this is because the only girl that I know that's into the stuff that I am in real life isn't that attractive to me.
 
dothackzero said:
Basically I'm just worried that I'll get a girl that's overweight or something that I'd find really unattractive in a girl. Basically, the only reason I'm asking this is because the only girl that I know that's into the stuff that I am in real life isn't that attractive to me.
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I wrote out a huge thing.... but I'm not going to feed this troll post.

I will say that God will give you EXACTLY what you deserve...
 
Whyllow said:
I wrote out a huge thing.... but I'm not going to feed this troll post.

I will say that God will give you EXACTLY what you deserve...
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Shockingly i know it sounds like he is a troll, but he isn't. He has been posting ridiculous questions like this for the past two years.

Anyways to dothackzero


She probably thinks your just as ugly as you think she is.. besides overweight people are hot...
 
Whyllow said:
I wrote out a huge thing.... but I'm not going to feed this troll post.

I will say that God will give you EXACTLY what you deserve...
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Aww dot's not a troll, but I can see how u might get that impression from that post. He's just a guy with some social anxiety issues. ;)
 
I hope I don't sound too mean...but haven't you asked questions like this before?
I understand maybe you're in a hurry to be in a relationship, but you should be patient and also be humble, and prepare yourself to be deserving of the girl God has destined for you.
 
Dothack, cut out this shallow stuff. Is oral sex okay? Will God give me a hot girl? Come on man.

You know what, girls who are not as physically attractive to many people, tend to cheat less, and who knows, maybe your marriage will be based on something other than sex. Like, God forbid actual common interests, and you will gasp, have actual deep conversations with your spouse. That is what I want personally. I'm tired of "hot" girls who go around acting like princesses who the entire world owes something just because they are "pretty". I need an actual intelligent woman. There I said it.
 
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dothackzero said:
Basically I'm just worried that I'll get a girl that's overweight or something that I'd find really unattractive in a girl. Basically, the only reason I'm asking this is because the only girl that I know that's into the stuff that I am in real life isn't that attractive to me.
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Come on, have some faith my friend. God's not going to pair any of us with someone they won't find attractive. I used to think that I could never find an overweight woman attractive but it has happened already a few times. These women were not my girlfriend, just women I knew. At first I wasn't attracted to them but as I got to talking to them and stuff I found them very attractive. It sounds cliche' but its true that a person's personality can really be the defining factor in attractiveness. With that said, I have known attractive women that I lost my attraction for because of their personalities. They were either too pushy or bossy or they were just a little too psycho (scary).
 
I think that looks can change as you get to know someone. When you fall for someone they become more beautiful/handsome because its not the outward appearances that you see, it's their character. People are too quick to write off people based on appearance! Afterall, it is their character that is going to take you through the tough times in a relationship....how hot she is won't figure in the equation at all.

Oh and if we are trying to be more Godly in this - "Man looks at the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart" so look for the heart of people.
 
eugenius said:
Dothack, cut out this shallow stuff. Is oral sex okay? Will God give me a hot girl? Come on man.

You know what, girls who are not as physically attractive to many people, tend to cheat less, and who knows, maybe your marriage will be based on something other than sex. Like, God forbid actual common interests, and you will gasp, have actual deep conversations with your spouse. That is what I want personally. I'm tired of "hot" girls who go around acting like princesses who the entire world owes something just because they are "pretty". I need an actual intelligent woman. There I said it.
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This made me smile. :)
 
eugenius said:
Dothack, cut out this shallow stuff. Is oral sex okay? Will God give me a hot girl? Come on man.

You know what, girls who are not as physically attractive to many people, tend to cheat less, and who knows, maybe your marriage will be based on something other than sex. Like, God forbid actual common interests, and you will gasp, have actual deep conversations with your spouse. That is what I want personally. I'm tired of "hot" girls who go around acting like princesses who the entire world owes something just because they are "pretty". I need an actual intelligent woman. There I said it.
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YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wish I could give a bazillion reps for this. Maybe others will help me. :)
 
Jullianna said:
YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wish I could give a bazillion reps for this. Maybe others will help me. :)
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I really do believe what I said. But just like Dothack I have social anxiety issues. I need to get out there and talk to people. Instead of giving me those rep points, please just pray that I will meet nice people at my Christian club in college this Fall. And that these people will accept me and be my friends.
 
eugenius said:
I really do believe what I said. But just like Dothack I have social anxiety issues. I need to get out there and talk to people. Instead of giving me those rep points, please just pray that I will meet nice people at my Christian club in college this Fall. And that these people will accept me and be my friends.
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If you get out and about and believe fully what you said in this thread? You will do fine my friend. Because people will see the good in your spirit and be attracted to that. Positive attracts positive.
 
AMEN, AFF

I've read a lot of your posts, eugenius. There's something special about you. KNOW that even if other people don't.

I'll pray for friends for you, but will also BE one. :) God bless!
 
eugenius said:
I really do believe what I said. But just like Dothack I have social anxiety issues. I need to get out there and talk to people. Instead of giving me those rep points, please just pray that I will meet nice people at my Christian club in college this Fall. And that these people will accept me and be my friends.
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will do, and i really like what you said
 
eugenius said:
maybe your marriage will be based on something other than sex. Like, God forbid actual common interests, and you will gasp, have actual deep conversations with your spouse.
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Actually, yeah I am looking for that kind of stuff. Let's just say this, A girl being over weight is one the few things I have a hard time looking past. Other than that I find most girls my age cute/hot. Especally the girls that have geeky, nerdy, artist like look them.
 
Shaddaaap!

jk.

Well, heres a tip. Gain some experience points in life. I know what it's like to be shy and scared around people. But that dosen't stop me from trying to make the most out of the situation. If you're looking for a beautiful woman to be with... I suggest that you start off with actually meeting people. You know, people have friends, cousins, sisters, brothers, and those people have other people and so on.

Lets say, meet this one girl, if things don't go well with her, maybe she will notice your characteristics and traits and refer you to someone else who is a lot more like you. *shrugs* That's one possibilty.

Action is needed nontheless.

(And don't take the shaddaaap part seriously. I like to kid around when I'm comfortable enough to do so.)
 
lol gain some experience points in life...nice

though i would agree you want to add a few more points to your charisma stat and you social interaction skill tree. Leveling up is always good too. Maybe start farming some low level quests until you can take on the more epic dating quests
 
Megatron said:
lol gain some experience points in life...nice

though i would agree you want to add a few more points to your charisma stat and you social interaction skill tree. Leveling up is always good too. Maybe start farming some low level quests until you can take on the more epic dating quests
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theres different levels :rolleyes:?
 
eugenius said:
I'm tired of "hot" girls who go around acting like princesses who the entire world owes something just because they are "pretty". I need an actual intelligent woman. There I said it.
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I've known a few 'hot' girls in my life and they weren't like that at all. Two of them were models who were on covers of magazines. I will admit that they were all a bit 'air-heady' because they weren't deep thinkers, but they were very nice, polite and big-hearted people.

The ones you talk of sound like the ones you see in the movies, although I'm sure there are some hot women out there like that (who aren't rich or famous celebrities), but they're not all like that. I don't even think most of the are like that. I think beautiful women get a bad rap actually.
 
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