Women who divorce

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Mustbestrong

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Well the worst of all happened to me, my so called christian wife served me with suit for divorce, temporary restraining Order, and some other official document, all at the same time. Now this lady claims to be a christian, who supposedly loves God, but got all this stuff from filling out an affidavit, claiming something? I don't know what happened, all the sudden after 22 years of marriage she just through it all away, she lost a lot of weight, she bought a lot of provocative clothing, it's like she is a total different person now, I never knew this lady, so she stabbed me in the back, she set me up to where she now is in my own rented home, she conned me into believing that she had no where to go, her family is all around here, I didn't snap, she then began with I have nowhere to store my belongings, still I did not see the devil in her, however the only thing I saw was a woman who I still had feelings for, and the mother of my kids, my youngest son is autistic, and I have a 15 year old daughter, who she is I believe is brainwashing her. So I said okay you can stay for a few days only. Now that she moved all her belongings in my rented home and she is not on the lease, we were separated, but according to the police, she established a residence in my home. The the restraining order stated that I could not exclude her from coming into my home, freely. How can the courts decide that? on what grounds, I did not do anything wrong.

I was a wreck, I could not move without her saying, "I'm calling my lawyer!", wow after I felt sorry for her because I believed the lie, she stuck it to me bad. I was walking on eggshells.

What kind of christian woman does this?? she works for a church on Sundays, she works all day at her job at some family service, not sure, she never told me. Wow after 22 years. Now I bet you have a lot of questions, right? like there are two sides to every story, right? so I asked her politely, "Hey why did you want a divorce?", you know what her response was??

Because I accused her of cheating on me." Can you believe that? actually I did not accuse her, I asked her, are you seeing someone? She believes that because I ask her that automatically means I am accusing her. If that were true, she would have never stepped foot in my home, I would have never felt sorry for her regardless.

I need all your prayers my fellow brothers and sisters in the Lord, please this killed me hard inside, it has broken me down, please someone help me?? God help me please!!!

Now I can't seem to get her out of my home, she's not on the lease, she does not live here, so how do I get her out?? please pray for me that GOD will bring me Godly wisdom, and to give me strength where I am weak.Please my kids safety are depending on me, please help with your prayers.

GOD bless you all.
 
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Slepsog4

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You need a gladiator quality lawyer... yesterday!!!
 
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Mustbestrong

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Well I have a good lawyer, but it seems that's not enough, they (landlord) is getting ready to evict my kids and I and her, I need your prayers that everything will be alright.

Now it's about my kids, and I told her that her decision to stay will affect us all, if we get evicted we my kids and I have no where else to go, so she is jeopardizing the comfort of their home, I don't understand why she won't leave?? or why she is doing this?

Please help, prayer is needed!!
 
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glenwood74

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I pray that the mighty Spirit of the living Christ, Jesus, lift you up with strength from above, that He give you a peace that surpasses all understanding, and that He protect you and your children through this entire ordeal. May you walk in the grace and will of our Father in heaven!
 
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lightbliss

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Mustbestrong said:
Well I have a good lawyer, but it seems that's not enough, they (landlord) is getting ready to evict my kids and I and her, I need your prayers that everything will be alright.

Now it's about my kids, and I told her that her decision to stay will affect us all, if we get evicted we my kids and I have no where else to go, so she is jeopardizing the comfort of their home, I don't understand why she won't leave?? or why she is doing this?

Please help, prayer is needed!!
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Perhaps she wants you to pursue a relationship with her (ya know, giving you one more chance)??? IDK.

For the time being, the both of you are still married to each other. That means you both need to honour and respect the other.

I know that you want to protect your children, but you need to talk to your wife (I mean really talk), find out how she truly feels, try to meet her wholly.

Maybe she just wants to revive the relationship.

Sometimes you have to put being a parent on the side and be a husband first.
Happy marriage=Better parents/ Good parents≠Less than stellar marriage.

You'll be in my prayers. God bless.

 
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Mustbestrong

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Lightbliss, it is already to late, I did ask if she wanted to attempted to try to talk, she said, NO!! last night she came in late and she involved my daughter, she told my daughter that she was out buying her a car for her, at like 7pm, she said it was from her friends, but when she got to my house, I ask her, so you are buying my girl a car? and her behavior was quite irrational, like she did not want to talk about it, so I knew that's not what she was doing, I do have a hunch.

We are not married we are legally separated awaiting the final trail for the decree. The last thing she wants is a relationship with me, I can tell, I have know her for 22 years, I can tell. And she does not want this anymore, she did not have a good reason to divorce, according to God's word, however I guess she forgot that. Now I have to accept the consequences for her behavior according to His word. I ask please stand with me and for my kids sake, lets stand as one in prayer, please.
 
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phil36

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glenwood74 said:
I pray that the mighty Spirit of the living Christ, Jesus, lift you up with strength from above, that He give you a peace that surpasses all understanding, and that He protect you and your children through this entire ordeal. May you walk in the grace and will of our Father in heaven!
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amen to that :)
 
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