WOMENS' SURVEY - Why You Ended the Relationship? After a few dates or many months.

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Lanolin

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#41
well cheating violence and drugs ARE pretty good reasons to stop seeing someone. its actually very common...one because men cant make up their minds, two because some men havent yet learned to resolve stuff without using their fists or having an anger attack, and three because drugs like alcohol, marijuana, cocaine etc are so readily avialable and life is SOO stressful already.

anything else that is lasting more than six months and then breaking off I dont know. Usually if you have. nothing much in common or its too hard to see that person, say they live miles away or something, it doesnt last that long.

If you found out they are your cousin or something maybe, or lied about their age. I think it will cross womens minds to think about well..do I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy? If the answer is no, then be glad she ends things because nothing worse than pretending you in love when you arent.
 

tourist

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#42
I'm still reeling from the last breakup, so I'm not in the mood for a relationship right now.
After my last break-up I was alone and celibate for 18 years. I needed that time alone to sort a few things inside.
 

Ruby123

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#43
After my last break-up I was alone and celibate for 18 years. I needed that time alone to sort a few things inside.
That would have been hard to accustom to live with someone again. I fear that sometimes. You get used to being alone and then suddenly you have to live with someone o_Oo_Oo_O:eek:
 

tourist

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#44
That would have been hard to accustom to live with someone again. I fear that sometimes. You get used to being alone and then suddenly you have to live with someone o_Oo_Oo_O:eek:
It takes some getting used to that's for sure Ruby.
 

Tinkerbell725

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Jul 19, 2014
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#45
1. No attraction
2. Too much attraction but he is a bad boy
3. With slight attraction but I can't relate to him due to age gap.
4. LDR is frustrating