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I'm working through my issues with my mom and part of that process for me is systematically going back to redefine moments. My mother has narcissistic personality disorder. Currently I am working through one point before my birth. I am blessed to have a validating counselor. Yesterday she told me what my did before I was born is the most disturbing thing she's ever heard in over 10,000 hours of practice. I was sabotaged. My mother knew my fathers perversion. She caught him molesting my sister. But she told me she didn't leave him because se was desperate to have a daughter. 3 years later with a little trickery from my mom I was born.