You know what makes me mad?

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When people in the Bible study room argue over stupid things.
When people are sad because they failed a test.
When a girl is sad because the boy she liked turned her down.
When people complain about gas prices.
When people try to start fights out of nothing.
When people try to start fights with those that are trying to start a fight.
When someone, just because you don't see eye to eye, says that you must not be a true Christian.

The list goes on and on.

Tonight at youth group, where I'm a youth leader, many things came up about doubting God. And after today, I am having trouble with this very thing.

My mom goes in tomorrow to have an ultrasound. She may have cancer.
Two kids in the youth group have a mutual friend that is in a coma and isn't doing well.
Some sisters have a mom that is schizophrenic and not expected to live out the rest of 2011.
I found out that a girl just recently lost her mom a few years back. She's still struggling.
A boy is frightened that his parents might spilt. He thinks it's his fault.
A girl got attacked last week by a few guys she thought were her friends.

The list goes on and on.

Why do we argue over the little things? Life is so short. There are other things to worry about. Pick your battles. Before tonight I thought that things were going alright. I was wrong. There is so much crap out there and it's so difficult to trust that God is in control, but I know He is. He is sovereign. He will help me through this. He will help all of us through everything if we let Him.

So, that's my rant.

Evaluate whether your fights are worth continuing.
If not, shut up. There are other people struggling with real issues.
 
That is a profound rant! :-)

It is so true everything that you said. I feel so bad that I get so upset at the little things, when in fact they are just little. No one in my life is seriously ill, or dying, or whatever... boo hoo I lost my job... I'm still alive, I have a roof over my head, food in the fridge... God is good no matter what. Sometimes He may feel a million miles away but in fact He's right behind us. If we just stopped looking at the canyon in front of us, and look back at the God who is standing there with a way a(cross) our situation will change. Because He is there. With us, where ever we are in whatever is going on. He will never leave us or forsake us.
 
its hard sometimes but dont give up. I dont know what you mean by doubt. I say to anyone who says they are doubting god. Pray to Jesus christ to show me that your real. That you care about me. And that you WILL clean up this horrible mess thats all around me.

I totally understand how you feel my grandma has cancer and after a few years of chemo/radiation the doctor said she shouldnt bother its not helping just making her sicker. We keep praying and trusting god. Some of my family thought she was about to kick the bucket but since then she has gained weight and is doing better. If she passes away i know that she is going to heaven, there is no pain in heaven, nothing but love and sunshine. she will be with many people she hasnt seen for along time! so i dont worry anymore.

So my point is when we get feeling down we need to uplift eachother. God is working on your behalf i promise you!

As my pastor and prophet always says "You pray for me and i'll pray for you.... and god will see us through!"
 
Yeah, you are right, people spend too much time on the things that do not really matter. Arguing over teachings for hours yet not finding a second to comfort or encourage a needy soul. Thanks for the post God bless