Loving someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex with them. Do you have sex with everyone that you love? Of course not. In God's kingdom, love and holiness go together.
"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.a Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partners with them." -Ephesians 5:3-7.
I know plenty of single celibate Christian people that have not found a suitable mate and they do not disregard God's holiness and use "love" to justify fornicating and/or committing homosexual acts with other people.
"Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have the right to the tree of life and may go through the gates into the city. Outside are the dogs, those who practice magic arts, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood." -Revelations 22:14-15.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11 - Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor those who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
If you really love someone, you don't commit sexual immorality with them. What part of God is holy do you find confusing?
It's not a sin to love someone, regardless of gender. In fact, it's just the opposite. Love is what we live on. Love is where we came from. How can you go to hell for loving someone? To me that sounds ridiculous.
Well, that's what I believe.