Divorce and Remarraige

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tourist

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she mocked me, 1, then she said i misapplied scripture when i didn't even though what i said was perfectly clear in regards to what she wrote, keep in mind, what she wrote as she mocked me.

how is that being very nice and how is that helping me. she helps out who she wants maybe. i didn't call her phycho, i said i would be wary of someone who calls themselves pschyo, and why would you name yourself that if your'e a christain. it's like christians getting tattoos of demonic stuff like skulls or snakes. it's questionable
I am sure that she did not intend to hurt you in any way. You really need to take the time to get to know the residents here before passing judgment. Please, don't be so defensive.
 
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Revelator7

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I wonder how many people in here who are discussing this debate are divorcees and or have remarried after divorvce in their lives...
 
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JesusIsAll

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I agree God can and will save anyone. One problem I have with this discussion is that, if I am a true believer in Christ, knowing that this is a sin, will I disobey Him and do it. I don't think that he would.
You can't really box all Christians into the same developmental level. Some seek God more than others. Just a realization of the holiness of God and the offensiveness of sin is a deep understanding many Christians haven't fully come to grasp, but this doesn't make them unsaved. About all I'd say is that it may make for some hard lessons ahead.
 

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I wonder how many people in here who are discussing this debate are divorcees and or have remarried after divorvce in their lives...
First marriage - horrible - divorced
Second marriage - beautiful - widowed
Seriously contemplating future marriage - happy - wondrous
 
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Revelator7

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I am sure that she did not intend to hurt you in any way. You really need to take the time to get to know the residents here before passing judgment. Please, don't be so defensive.
I know people by their immediate fruit. I don't tolerate someone who comes in the name of the Lord that scorns/scoffs/mocks another believer. paul talked about not to coarsely joke. coarse means rude/crude/vulgar. in this case she was rude to me. people call it having a sense of humor. but sarcasim is somethign i don't take likely. it's rude. and 1 cor 13 says love isn't rude. i desire to be loved by another beliver, i even expect it. there is a way to go about something you disagree with in a polite way.
 
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You can't really box all Christians into the same developmental level. Some seek God more than others. Just a realization of the holiness of God and the offensiveness of sin is a deep understanding many Christians haven't fully come to grasp, but this doesn't make them unsaved. About all I'd say is that it may make for some hard lessons ahead.
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tourist

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I know people by their immediate fruit. I don't tolerate someone who comes in the name of the Lord that scorns/scoffs/mocks another believer. paul talked about not to coarsely joke. coarse means rude/crude/vulgar. in this case she was rude to me. people call it having a sense of humor. but sarcasim is somethign i don't take likely. it's rude. and 1 cor 13 says love isn't rude. i desire to be loved by another beliver, i even expect it. there is a way to go about something you disagree with in a polite way.
I agree with you and that is the problem - you were not polite.
 
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I wonder how many people in here who are discussing this debate are divorcees and or have remarried after divorvce in their lives...
I'm wondering if you've ever broken the Sabbath and will be cut off for doing so...as the Bible says Sabbath breakers will be.
 
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Revelator7

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I agree with you and that is the problem - you were not polite.
are you meaning to say i wasn't politically correct? i'm not a man pleaser. i will say what is in my heart with honesty. if honesty (without being scornful about anything) is offensive, i'm sorry. but better is open rebuke than hidden love. faithful are the wounds of a friend. i rebuked her. i questioned her name. that's all did.
 

Agricola

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Revelator can you explain why God brought together divorcees and adultereers to marry Christians in my church? We are all adulterers anyway,. Christ raised the bar as to what sin is, I do not think there is anyone who has not looked at another person in a sexual way.

If it is wrong as you claim, then that would make God a hypocrite and a liar.
 

Radius

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8 Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.9 The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not covet,”[a] and whatever other command there may be, are summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”[b]10 Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. Romans 13

if you love your neighbor as yourself which is the second commandment, you won't have to worry about that mess.

if you know it is sin (adultry) against your living ex spouse to remarry, then you wouldn't remarry. it's not just adultery to divorce and remarry against yourself, it's against both man and wife. because the two are one flesh. the two will always be one flesh. you can't cut off the head from a body, it will die.
Deflect, deflect, deflect!
 
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Revelator7

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I'm wondering if you've ever broken the Sabbath and will be cut off for doing so...as the Bible says Sabbath breakers will be.
what does what you're saying have to do with what i said?
 
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I know people by their immediate fruit. I don't tolerate someone who comes in the name of the Lord that scorns/scoffs/mocks another believer. paul talked about not to coarsely joke. coarse means rude/crude/vulgar. in this case she was rude to me. people call it having a sense of humor. but sarcasim is somethign i don't take likely. it's rude. and 1 cor 13 says love isn't rude. i desire to be loved by another beliver, i even expect it. there is a way to go about something you disagree with in a polite way.
Oh...you mean like this:

If then ye have judgments of things pertaining to this life, set them to judge who are least esteemed in the church. 1 Cor.6:4

You mean like this:

Thou fool...1 Cor.15:36
 
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what does what you're saying have to do with what i said?
You're a strict law keeper, with no room for further interpretation from scripture. So...have you ever broken the Sabbath, for which you will be eternally damned?
 
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Revelator7

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Revelator can you explain why God brought together divorcees and adultereers to marry Christians in my church? We are all adulterers anyway,. Christ raised the bar as to what sin is, I do not think there is anyone who has not looked at another person in a sexual way.

If it is wrong as you claim, then that would make God a hypocrite and a liar.
sounds like God didn't bring those divorcees together. if they read his word and applied it from mark 10:11-12 and luke 16:18, then they would have obeyed God.

people that look at other people sinfully (lustfully) commit adultery. if you read in Matthew 5 about adultery in that way, hegoes on to say if your Eye which you look at people with causes you to sin gouge it out it is better to lose it than go to hell with it.
 

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she mocked me, 1, then she said i misapplied scripture when i didn't even though what i said was perfectly clear in regards to what she wrote, keep in mind, what she wrote as she mocked me.

how is that being very nice and how is that helping me. she helps out who she wants maybe. i didn't call her phycho, i said i would be wary of someone who calls themselves pschyo, and why would you name yourself that if your'e a christain. it's like christians getting tattoos of demonic stuff like skulls or snakes. it's questionable


1.) She said that was a dreadful misapplication of scripture. How is that mocking you? She made a statement, and there was no humor in it so I dunno where you're seeing that she mocked you in a humorous way.

2.) So what if her username is psychomom? How do you know whether Jesus would approve of it or not? That does'nt mean she's not a christian just because part of her nick has the word "psycho" in it.

3.) Tattoos are not demonic. Neither are skulls or snakes, for that matter. Something can only be demonic if it's used to worship the devil.
 
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Revelator7

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I honestly don't understand why you guys are picking on me. I just bring up clear as day scripture verses and everyone freaks out.
i'm not a strict law keeper, i'm a strict law observer. to know what sin is so we are aware.
 
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I honestly don't understand why you guys are picking on me. I just bring up clear as day scripture verses and everyone freaks out.
i'm not a strict law keeper, i'm a strict law observer. to know what sin is so we are aware.
No ones picking on you bro. Your theology is being examined. It's not sin if an unbeliever leaves a believer and the believer remarries. You say, "not bound in marriage"...but not free to remarry, meaning still bound in marriage. Your interpretation makes no sense here.
 
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Revelator7

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1.) She said that was a dreadful misapplication of scripture. How is that mocking you? She made a statement, and there was no humor in it so I dunno where you're seeing that she mocked you in a humorous way.

2.) So what if her username is psychomom? How do you know whether Jesus would approve of it or not? That does'nt mean she's not a christian just because part of her nick has the word "psycho" in it.

3.) Tattoos are not demonic. Neither are skulls or snakes, for that matter. Something can only be demonic if it's used to worship the devil.
you missed the other thing she said to me in another reply of hers, her first response here. she was being sarcastic.

would you call your daugthers or your sons "psycho' or 'psychoson' no you wouldn't. you wouldn't want them to be known by such a deragatory expresion.

tattoos are demonic. anything earthly sensual (relating to the senses) is demonic (james 3). to scratch and etch your skin is self multiation one. to draw perminate things that symbolize death such as skulls are dmenoic. snakes in general, not demonic, but to put snakes and skulls together, comes from a demonic mindset. no christian's would cut themselves with needles especial if bleed is shed. i question your knowledge here.