In that vein, Yeraza_Bats, if someone steals your car, do not file a report with police, but give to the thief your house also. And if a man at your place of employment knocks you out of the way and takes your work utensils, your computer or your tools of craft, give to him your credit card also so he can buy some more stuff on your dime. And if you happen to have a girlfriend who begins pulling your hair out by the roots and smacks you hard in the face because you "make her mad", then turn to her your other cheek so she can smack you hard on the other side of your head. And when you get married, you can teach your children the same so they can be taken advantage of all their lives as a testimony.... GOD FORBID! GOD FORBID!
Yeraza_Bats, you are young and I encourage you to get more teaching on creating boundaries in the name of Jesus. Jesus did not live a life of walking around like a weak worm turning His cheek for everyone to abuse. HE FLED THE SCENE! When it was time for Him to die for our sins, yes He submitted then for God's purpose.
Brother, "turn the other cheek" in effect means don't seek revenge and be more understanding toward people's needs rather than focus on your self all the time. THAT'S IT! Jesus gave simple instructions for all of us to learn to live in peace. He doesn't expect us to crawl along in life and be a worm for everyone to walk on. In fact, He said STAND! If all we were called to be is lowly worms for others to squash, NOBDOY would come to Christ. He draws us to Him by offering FREEDOM and PEACE and JOY and GRACE and LOVE.
What you have suggested is off-base, son. Keep seeking God on the matter and let the Holy Spirit give you wisdom on it. Grace to you.
Actually, yeah your sorta right in your first paragraph. If someone hits you, dont hit them back. If someone takes from you, let them take from you, vengeance is for the Lord to take. Christ did flee, but He did not break any laws when He did it, and He didnt actually do any wrong by doing so, He did it because He still had a job to do. But when He had to do right by God, He did.
And the third paragraph, saying He said to "stand", where do you get this? The only thing I can think of He would say to stand on is when doing right by God, but other than that, He did not fight against anyone, but let Himself be beaten, scorned and killed in Gods name. And He also gave us peace, but not in this life, in fact He actually said He did not come to bring us peace. Anywho it is from the holy spirit that Im finding these things, both from the bible and thinking about it myself with faith in God, I have noticed there are alot of Christians who talk about how God will never let anything bad happen to them, watching children on tv saying God wont let ISIS hurt them, even people who believe they will be spared from tribulation, but none of that is biblical, but there are verses in the bible about enduring suffering, not seeking vengeance or rising against those who persecute you, and having faith that God will take care of you, and take vengeance on those who hurt you. And with that, I do believe that God blesses those who endure in His name to do right by Him over those who change things themselves. If I had a wife who hit me, Im not sure what Id do, but to claim that God wouldnt want me to endure suffering, I dont believe that. God will let you suffer in this life for you to grow stronger through endurance. There may be a way a person being tormented by someone to get out of it, but not always, and if they dont then it is Gods will that they endure.
When bringing God into suffering, we are not told that we will be protected from it, but to endure in His name. God can always find you a way out of it if it serves His will, but bringing God into it, saying Hed never let it happen and will save you from it, thats not 100% biblical. Many will endure in His name, and we should know that those who endure in His name are blessed. As for a woman leaving her husband, or a husband leaving his wife because of abuse, the bible does not give us any word on that, but the bible does tell us that by doing so we break a promise to God. It may be totally true that if one became aggressive towards the other in a fight once, leaving the other because of it would be breaking a promise to God. My parents fought, and they hit each other too. Sadly my dad left for unrelated reasons, but my mother never tried to leave him, and is still married to him to this day. I believe it is right not to break a promise to God. I think peoples emotions cause them to misunderstand what I mean, I always use Gods word when relying on morals, and do not try to find loopholes. And the bible does say that we will not find peace in this life, we are not promised safety in this life, and that those who endure in His name are blessed. It could be possible that God guide you away from something, but I do believe in doing right by God, and have found that we are told that we should not marry after we lose our spouse, though it seems everyone does that, and I have been thinking about why they do it if the bible tells us not to. My point is that no one is promised total protection from suffering, but were told that God lets it happen to us, and that those who endure are blessed, and no where in the bible does it say anything different about people married to abusive spouses either. God hates angry, cruel and aggressive people, and He will take vengeance on them, but other than that He never said wed be spared from them in this life, and I still believe that God does bless those who endure.
-TLDR- I did not condemn anyone who has divorced because of abuse, I claimed that I have not seen that God supports divorce or promises that we wont suffer in this world in His word, but have found that we are told we will suffer, that this life will be hard, and that God is pleased by us when we endure with Him. God has put many people through much pain and suffering, but always for their own benefit. Im still learning Gods will, but I also have found alot of people who add in things that arent actually there, and people who change it in weird ways, but I still want to keep to His words. If its hard to imagine that God would let children die or be tormented, keep in mind that the bible tells us that it has happened and will happen again under His watch.
If you know of a verse that I dont know yet, I would like to see it, but I still believe that God does not promise anyone that they will be saved from hardship in this life, but does take care of us in the end for enduring with Him.
I dont believe anyone who divorces because of abuse is doomed to hell, but I have not found that that is actually Gods will either.