Here's the Scriptures and my view of them:
John 5 3 Now there was a man of the Pharisees named [SUP]
(A)[/SUP]Nicodemus, [SUP]
(B)[/SUP]a ruler of the Jews. [SUP]
2 [/SUP]This man came to Jesus[SUP]
[a][/SUP] [SUP]
(C)[/SUP]by night and said to him, [SUP]
(D)[/SUP]“Rabbi, [SUP]
(E)[/SUP]we know that you are a teacher come from God, for no one can do these signs that you do [SUP]
(F)[/SUP]unless God is with him.” [SUP]
3 [/SUP]Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is [SUP]
(G)[/SUP]born [SUP]
(H)[/SUP]again[SUP]
[b][/SUP] he cannot [SUP]
(I)[/SUP]see the kingdom of God.” [SUP]
4 [/SUP]Nicodemus said to him, “How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born?” [SUP]
5 [/SUP]Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born [SUP]
(J)[/SUP]of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.
[SUP]6 [/SUP][SUP](K)[/SUP]That which is born of the flesh is [SUP]
(L)[/SUP]flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.[SUP]
[c][/SUP]
[SUP]7 [/SUP][SUP](M)[/SUP]Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You[SUP]
[d][/SUP] must be born [SUP]
(N)[/SUP]again.’
[SUP]8 [/SUP][SUP](O)[/SUP]The wind[SUP]
[e][/SUP] blows [SUP]
(P)[/SUP]where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
There are 3 different ways to view verse 5 that are consistent with salvation by grace through faith alone, and don't fall into the error of baptismal regeneration teachings.
1) When the Scripture is speaking of being born of water and Spirit, it is talking about the physical birth when speaking of water, and the spiritual birth when speaking of Spirit. How can water be a symbol of physical birth? A phase in late pregnancy is when the "water breaks". Consult a human reproduction textbook for further details.
2) When the Scripture is speaking of being born of water and Spirit, it is talking about being exposed to the Gospel message the word of truth, which is symbolized by water in some verses (James 1:18, I Pet 1:23, Eph 5:26), and the spiritual birth.
3) When the Scripture is speaking of being born of water and Spirit, the phrase in the Greek is actually metaphoric language. The word "and" in Greek is "kai" and can be translated as "even". The resulting phrase is "water even spirit" which simply conveys the meaning of the spiritual birth. In John 7:38, water is viewed as being emblematic of the Spirit.
I personally do not think the first possibility is correct but it is reasonable. I think the second and third possibility have a lot more merit, and I lean a bit more toward the third possibility.
It seems like whenever a Campbellite COCer sees the word water in Scripture, he is drawn to it almost like a moth to a flame, and seeks to convert it into a proof text or sermon on water baptism....
Regarding Acts 2:38 the Greek word that was translated "for" is eis. A legitimate translation of this word is "because of". We are baptized "because of" the remission of sin. It is a public testimony that our sins have been forgiven when we placed our faith in Christ. Baptism is a first act of obedience, but it comes AFTER salvation, not to OBTAIN salvation.
Consider the following Scriptures:
Luke 5:13-14 Luke 5:13-14[SUP]
13 [/SUP]And Jesus[SUP]
[a][/SUP] stretched out his hand and touched him, saying, “I will; be clean.” And immediately the leprosy left him. [SUP]
14 [/SUP]And he charged him [SUP]
(A)[/SUP]to tell no one, but “go and show [SUP]
(B)[/SUP]yourself to the priest, and [SUP]
(C)[/SUP]make an offering for your cleansing, as Moses commanded, [SUP]
(D)[/SUP]for a proof to them.”
Now, the word "for" in "make an offering for your cleansing" is the same word eis as in the phrase "baptized for the remission of sins in Acts 2:38. Was the leper cleansed prior to making the offering, or before it? Verse 13 plainly says that he was cleansed by Jesus before the offering was made. The offering was merely a public acknowledgement of this cleansing. Baptism is exactly the same.
All such Campbellite "proof texts" can be resolved with similar critical thinking. I am not bringing this up to persecute you. I was caught up in similar horrible teaching by another group for many years. Just the fact that you deny the Christianity of other believers who think differently on such things is a very bad sign.