When Paul said "I die daily" he was talking about being persecuted for spreading the gospel and that his life was constantly in danger. It has absolutely nothing to do with "dying to self" - we have been taught that in our religious upbringing.
I encourage you to look at that scripture "in context".
We "pick up our cross and follow Him" by acknowledging that we too went to the cross with Jesus and are now died to the old man and we are joined to Jesus now and we live by His life in us.
We do not crucify ourselves - we have already been crucified with Christ. We need to know these truths to grow up in the Lord.
When you see who you really are in Christ - in your inner man of the heart. You will start to consider ourselves alive to God through the Lord Jesus.
Why would we want to die to ourselves when we are in Christ. It's all in the perspective of where our minds are at. We are to focus on the fact that we are now children of God - born again and with a new nature - just like our Father's ( Eph 4:23 ) We are confusing the flesh ( which has the law of sin in it ) with the new person in Christ.
Your old man has died! Now it is time for the renewing of our minds to this newness of life we have in Christ in our inner man created in righteousness and holiness. We are transformed by the renewing of our mind as we behold the glory of the Lord as in a mirror - this is done by the Holy Spirit in us. We do not put to death again what is already died.
I encourage you to look at that scripture "in context".
We "pick up our cross and follow Him" by acknowledging that we too went to the cross with Jesus and are now died to the old man and we are joined to Jesus now and we live by His life in us.
We do not crucify ourselves - we have already been crucified with Christ. We need to know these truths to grow up in the Lord.
When you see who you really are in Christ - in your inner man of the heart. You will start to consider ourselves alive to God through the Lord Jesus.
Why would we want to die to ourselves when we are in Christ. It's all in the perspective of where our minds are at. We are to focus on the fact that we are now children of God - born again and with a new nature - just like our Father's ( Eph 4:23 ) We are confusing the flesh ( which has the law of sin in it ) with the new person in Christ.
Your old man has died! Now it is time for the renewing of our minds to this newness of life we have in Christ in our inner man created in righteousness and holiness. We are transformed by the renewing of our mind as we behold the glory of the Lord as in a mirror - this is done by the Holy Spirit in us. We do not put to death again what is already died.
And yet he didn't think he had attained to perfection yet.
If we are to crucify our old desires, as an apostle says elsewhere, (if we are putting to death the desires of the old man, by the Spirit, our Helper) and if our quarrels come from those desires within us, then those desires don't just all die the day we meet God and receive His Spirit. Some things are changed immediately. I think we've all experienced that.
Jesus won't force a man to put himself on the cross, it has to be agreed to willingly. It takes time for Him to convince us that the old man has to die (that we have to give up our life to save it.) Heck, it takes Him a long time to get us to see that these desires even ARE still hindering us from what we so badly want. The flesh fights against the Spirit and it won't obey the Spirit. It never will. That's why it has to die. The flesh will still die because of sin.