How NOT to freak out a woman

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popclickety?

Snap! How do you not block a door if you're not doing it intentionally :D
Well, now that you Do know to watch for you you can make sure to not do it intentionally. (hence the reason for her telling you.. err.. us.. err.. them.) :cool:
 

PopClick

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You can intentionally make sure that you aren't doing it unintentionally. :D
 
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GreenNnice

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Well, now that you Do know to watch for you you can make sure to not do it intentionally. (hence the reason for her telling you.. err.. us.. err.. them.) :cool:
Yep, popclickety. Wow, snap! That just might be the ticket to my gateway to gittin' a girl now :D

And, seriously, pop.click! you giver good advice there, something to pay attention to, because I would never--in a zillion years--have thought of my talking to a girl and blocking an exit to be uncomfortable to her, I don't think, anyway.
 
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rachelsedge

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I make a point of holding eye contact until she looks away, not the other way around...Theres nothing better than holding a burning eye contact with someone and knowing they are thinking and feeling just like I do at that
How do you know she's feeling the same? If a guy I don't know is staring at me intensely, I will either feel pretty creeped out and uncomfortable, OR I will get stubborn and stare back, but not in a "Hey baby" kind of way, but in a "I'm going to glare at you because I am determined to win this contest" way.

People actually do this stuff?
Sadly, yes. The third (and last) date I went on with the guy I met from ChristianMingle, he was saying things that implied we were going to get married. His sister, whom I had met for the first time THAT DAY, also said something about marriage. I was thinking, "...are they for real right now?" He also said he "Had a surprise for me at the mall", and I was legitimately worried that he was going to take me to a ring store. He didn't, thankfully.
 
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How do you know she's feeling the same? If a guy I don't know is staring at me intensely, I will either feel pretty creeped out and uncomfortable, OR I will get stubborn and stare back, but not in a "Hey baby" kind of way, but in a "I'm going to glare at you because I am determined to win this contest" way.



Sadly, yes. The third (and last) date I went on with the guy I met from ChristianMingle, he was saying things that implied we were going to get married. His sister, whom I had met for the first time THAT DAY, also said something about marriage. I was thinking, "...are they for real right now?" He also said he "Had a surprise for me at the mall", and I was legitimately worried that he was going to take me to a ring store. He didn't, thankfully.
Yikes! Sorry to hear that, Rachel!
 
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Hmmm..interesting. I always find that on a first date with a girl I just met,that taking them to a jewelry store to pick out an engagement ring & introducing her to my friends as "The future soon to be Mrs. F",followed by a bit of crooning in the hot mid-day sun whilst sipping some long island ice teas is a sure way NOT to freak out a woman. Am I missing something here? lolz

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Play that funky music white boy!
 
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Hmmm..interesting. I always find that on a first date with a girl I just met,that taking them to a jewelry store to pick out an engagement ring & introducing her to my friends as "The future soon to be Mrs. F",followed by a bit of crooning in the hot mid-day sun whilst sipping some long island ice teas is a sure way NOT to freak out a woman. Am I missing something here? lolz

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Play that funky music white boy!
At least you don't introduce them as 'The future soon to be ex'.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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At least you don't introduce them as 'The future soon to be ex'.
No...that's Jeff Goldblum's job. (and if you got that reference,give yourself a "gold" star) - yes..pun intentional.
 
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No...that's Jeff Goldblum's job. (and if you got that reference,give yourself a "gold" star) - yes..pun intentional.
I don't get old peoples cultural references.
 
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KJV15John11

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No...that's Jeff Goldblum's job. (and if you got that reference,give yourself a "gold" star) - yes..pun intentional.
And where exactly was he planning on finding her amongst all of those dinosaurs?
 
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Attractions are at first glance.
Either it's there, or it's not.
 
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KeeganGentle

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How not to freak out a woman 2.0

Do not give the customary stalker from car smile
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Avoid talking about your single chest hair, or how you live with your parents

Avoid sending links to your serial killer friend page

And don't put this as your facebook profile pic
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With these helpful tips you might successfully avoid scaring of your future special someone;)
 
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BananaPie

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Guys, at a certain age, there are things you should know.
One of them is how NOT to freak out women.
Here is a list of six things you can do to NOT freak out a woman...
1. Don't do porn nor place porn thoughts in somebody else's mind.
2. Don't be cocky, pompous, self-absorbed Nimrod.
3. Don't be obsessed about your ex nor talk about "women" in your past.
4. Don't "admire" (let alone flirt with) women's anatomy.
5. Don't continue to play video games past the age of 30. (You're addicted by then).
6. Avoid poor hygiene.
 

CatHerder

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...And don't put this as your facebook profile pic
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With these helpful tips you might successfully avoid scaring of your future special someone;)
I saw this as a challenge - - I just had to.

1. Don't do porn nor place porn thoughts in somebody else's mind.
OK

2. Don't be cocky, pompous, self-absorbed Nimrod.
we all have our moments with this.

3. Don't be obsessed about your ex nor talk about "women" in your past.
but Bananas....this was going to be "our special song"

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4. Don't "admire" (let alone flirt with) women's anatomy.
I almost always keep my eyes on her face when talking to a woman

5. Don't continue to play video games past the age of 30. (You're addicted by then).
I average about 2 hours of X-Box every three months. I think I'm okay.

6. Avoid poor hygiene.
...hitting the shower.
:)
 
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Kia123

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Do not say that her mother is more attractive then her.
I had a boy on my bus mention that he thought my mum was "one hot chikkie".I moved as far away into my seat and was just shocked tha thats what people say :p

Do not say she has nice elbows cos that sounds creepy

Do not joke about her on her period cos thats just weird

Do not ask her is she wants to see the body hidden in the basement

these are all things that i would view as CCREEPPYY

ps i dont mind guys stalking me :p haha i have a couple now :p lol jokes they only want my bank details