Females....WHY?!

[wutwldgigido]

So... not to take her side, but rather give you an alternative point of view; I've been that girl. It may be that like me, she's very shy and now that the mutual attraction has been made clear she's nervous and doesn't know where to go from here. I ignored that guy for a month and then dated him for 8 years. Lol.

 

[MidniteWelder]

"Seek FIRST (emphasis mine) the kingdom of God." THEN you get the other stuff added, if He has that in your plan. ^_^

Golden words right there

 

[violakat]

So... not to take her side, but rather give you an alternative point of view; I've been that girl. It may be that like me, she's very shy and now that the mutual attraction has been made clear she's nervous and doesn't know where to go from here. I ignored that guy for a month and then dated him for 8 years. Lol.

So the question is, did you marry him?

 

[jeremyPJ]

I want the book of unwritten laws to dating...

Me too, I'm doing my homework. And taking my time...

 

[jeremyPJ]

For some reason I'm reminded of a verse from a song from the group called "A Ragamuffin Band," the song was called "You did not have a home."

You did not take a wife
There were pretty maids all in a row
Lined up to touch the hem of Your robe
But You had no place to take them so
You did not take a wife
Cause You did not have a home

Sorry, it's my music-nerd brain, it offers up a song to match just about anything anyone says.

Lol! My ex-wife criticized me a lot for that trait! Used to make me mad, but now it makes me laugh.

 

[christian74]

A pet frog? Miss, could I borrow your pet frog? I am hungry and I would like to make a nice stir-fried frog legs with ginger and spring onion.

Believe it or not I bumped into frog legs in frozen section yesterday when I was doing grocery.
I was planning on making chow mein next day, looking for something seafood in the frozen section and thought it was scallop - and on a closer inspection it was actually frog legs (and for a split second pictured chow mein with frog legs and shook my head violently).

On a related note, I told my church life group (a small group meeting on Wednesday at one of members' house) that I will bring chicken feet for people to snack and they really believed it for me being Asian. Following Wednesday, I took out a covered dish and explained to them that we got chickens in the backyard and I personally prepared them so they should be very fresh and the look on their face hahaha... it was actually veggie dumplings and everyone was relieved, including myself.

 

[Angelique]

One time this guy liked me and he would sit outside my door every day I would see him if I left. One day I felt bad for him and had sex with him and then he never waited by my door again. Girls like ice cream.

Say what!!!!!. Sigh

There is nothing Godly about this comment

 

[Roh_Chris]

Believe it or not I bumped into frog legs in frozen section yesterday when I was doing grocery.
I was planning on making chow mein next day, looking for something seafood in the frozen section and thought it was scallop - and on a closer inspection it was actually frog legs (and for a split second pictured chow mein with frog legs and shook my head violently).

On a related note, I told my church life group (a small group meeting on Wednesday at one of members' house) that I will bring chicken feet for people to snack and they really believed it for me being Asian. Following Wednesday, I took out a covered dish and explained to them that we got chickens in the backyard and I personally prepared them so they should be very fresh and the look on their face hahaha... it was actually veggie dumplings and everyone was relieved, including myself.

The look on their faces must have been epic!

 

[ServantStrike]

Yep. I suspected this person was a troll the second i saw the name. Guess i was right.

I'd say there's a good chance of it. Everybody knows you've gotta wait until marriage, right?

 

[Ho11y]

So, there was this girl that admitted to liking me. And I told her I liked her back. We started talking a lot for a few days...but then she just ignores me. I give her some space by not talking to her for 3-4 days. I send her a short, lighthearted message, she views it, but then doesn't respond.

Just....why? Nothing was said to offend her, as the conversations were all pretty humorous and lighthearted. If she's playing hard to get, she knows that I hate when people "play games" with the opposite sex. But yet she still does it. It makes me not want to talk to her again.

So, any advice from the ladies? Why would a girl do this? It seems to happen in any situation where a girl admits to liking me and I start talking to her more.

She's obviously changed her mind about you. Something might of been said during your conversations she didn't like, or she might have just realized she doesn't really like you.

I'd just leave her alone. And if she tries talking to you again, i wouldn't respond. I think it's really cowardly to just stop talking to a person without even giving a reason as to why. Plus, if she played hot and cold once, she'll probably do it again.