As a divorced man, let me be the first to say that I would **Never** have multiple wives. I may have a second wife some day, but one at a time, and if it doesn't work out a second time, I'll buy myself that vehicle salvage yard I've dreamed of owning, a dog with one blue eye, and start wearing a lot of overalls and spitting on the floor. That is to say, the first one wasn't my fault, but if I've not learned enough to make it work a second time, then there is something wrong that I am doing and I should not repeat the process.
serious is O.K. if it is sincere and genuine 
