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SeatBelt

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Thanks for the hand, iTORE.
Maybe we shoulda waited till the hatchet was in the ground, but that was quick, I think we can still get the heavy equip back in time for them to not notice. :D
 
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Chrissy77

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Well,Chrissy blew off our space wedding,so I assume she's free. LOL
And totally unrelated to yer' comment Zao....
*******
My flesh soooooooooooo wants to be a side taker,'cause I so completely agree with someone.
Hey Seatbelt...is there enough equipment & dirt to bury me in that hole as well??? LOL
As sweet as it sounds, Itore, I would appreciate you letting go of suggesting my name to anyone in here. If I was looking for a man I'd find my own and not look for ones I have been pawned off on.
 

Markum1972

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To be blunt... these threads are not usually taken seriously here. This isn't a matchmaking site.
Yeah. This is not a singles forum for people that don't want to be single anymore. It took me awhile to figure that out. lol I get it now though. However, I think that is only the standpoint of some people here that are speaking for everyone else. THAT is what you call blunt, ma'am. LOL :p
 
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arwen83

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AAAh! My authenticity/honest obsession is getting to me... need to clairify, again Zero.

INFPs are actually quite empathetic, they are able to tap into mood and emotions, and pick up on subtle cues which makes them great counselors. However, INFPs can get sensitive when their ideals/values/pain override their empathy and compassion, this gains momentum from the feeling trait and may come off as harsh. INFPs feel deeply on things. We mean well, and it usually comes from a place of frustration that the world/people isn't how we wish it would be. We see the possibility, and are sadly disappointed by reality. That's why INFPs tend to have causes, and seek meaningful action, so they can help the world through their gifts.

I cannot speak for Ugly, since there is a lot that I do not know about him, and it is not my business to go there, so I am speaking mainly on my behalf and my experience being an INFP.

O.K. I think I've done myself justice now.
 
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SeatBelt

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...This is not a singles forum for people that don't want to be single anymore.
Some do, some don't, but either way, HERE we accept our singleness to whatever degree we can and focus on something other than becoming un-single

Props to our brother, Markum.
 
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AAAh! My authenticity/honest obsession is getting to me... need to clairify, again Zero.

INFPs are actually quite empathetic, they are able to tap into mood and emotions, and pick up on subtle cues which makes them great counselors. However, INFPs can get sensitive when their ideals/values/pain override their empathy and compassion, this gains momentum from the feeling trait and may come off as harsh. INFPs feel deeply on things. We mean well, and it usually comes from a place of frustration that the world/people isn't how we wish it would be. We see the possibility, and are sadly disappointed by reality. That's why INFPs tend to have causes, and seek meaningful action, so they can help the world through their gifts.

I cannot speak for Ugly, since there is a lot that I do not know about him, and it is not my business to go there, so I am speaking mainly on my behalf and my experience being an INFP.

O.K. I think I've done myself justice now.
Wow Arwen I thought your original comment was just a joke. I didn't take it seriously.

I understand what you're saying about INFPs but there are others here who agree that Ugly is sometimes unnecessarily harsh. Even the site's owner, RoboOp, called him on it once about a month ago after he made another blunt statement in response to a new member's thread about finding a husband. See post #6 in the following thread:

http://christianchat.com/christian-singles-forum/53696-im-looking-husband.html#post910044
 
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And Arwen, I wouldnt put too much stock into those personality type classifications because you can take the test on different days and end up with a different personality type each time. I tried it and was an INFJ one day and an INFP a few weeks later. I know others who experienced the same thing.
 

CatHerder

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I flip-flop between INFP and INFJ. Ocassionally, I do things out of character for both. I don't let these tests define me, though they do offer insight when in self reflection.
 
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arwen83

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I took MBTI 12 years ago on high school, I was INFP then. 2 years ago, I looked into the enneagram and found out that was a 4 (which most INFPs are) and took the test again at a month or two ago and I'm still an INFP. I identify with it, it helps with self-awareness, understanding others and self-development :)
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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Thanks for the hand, iTORE.
Maybe we shoulda waited till the hatchet was in the ground, but that was quick, I think we can still get the heavy equip back in time for them to not notice. :D
Yer' Welcome Seat..ain't nuffin' but a thang chicken wing! lol
 
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MidniteWelder

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I took MBTI 12 years ago on high school, I was INFP then. 2 years ago, I looked into the enneagram and found out that was a 4 (which most INFPs are) and took the test again at a month or two ago and I'm still an INFP. I identify with it, it helps with self-awareness, understanding others and self-development :)
*Covers one eye

L E P T F

k I'm good, who's next
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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As sweet as it sounds, Itore, I would appreciate you letting go of suggesting my name to anyone in here. If I was looking for a man I'd find my own and not look for ones I have been pawned off on.
I apologize Chrissy. ATTENTION...SINGLE MEN...DUDES LOOKING FOR POLITICAL ASYLUM...MARRIED LOSERS LOOKING TO CHEAT...CHRISSY77 is Queen of her own destiny & I retract any pawning of her good name onto the masses of CC or any other forums.
 
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Powemm

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I remember the days when playing marbles together was easier .. I'm never growing up.. EVER!!
 
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Chrissy77

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I apologize Chrissy. ATTENTION...SINGLE MEN...DUDES LOOKING FOR POLITICAL ASYLUM...MARRIED LOSERS LOOKING TO CHEAT...CHRISSY77 is Queen of her own destiny & I retract any pawning of her good name onto the masses of CC or any other forums.
That was the single worst apology/announcement ever made! Since I am going to take it to be sincere, I will say thank you!
 
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Chrissy77

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I remember the days when playing marbles together was easier .. I'm never growing up.. EVER!!
We can play with our dolls,Powemm. I will share nicely. Just keep that mean boy Itore out of our game. He doesn't play nice.:p
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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We can play with our dolls,Powemm. I will share nicely. Just keep that mean boy Itore out of our game. He doesn't play nice.:p
awww man..I was being sincere. You deserve a nice man. I thought I was helping to keep the beasties at bay. Well,my heart intention was pure.
 
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Chrissy77

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awww man..I was being sincere. You deserve a nice man. I thought I was helping to keep the beasties at bay. Well,my heart intention was pure.
Thanks!:)

I will send all the applicants to you for your review(aka scare tactics). If that don't keep them at bay I don't know what will.
 

maxwel

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I don't usually share my psychological turmoils, but this thread just seems like the right place.

Okay, so I'm at the gym talking to the new physical therapist girl.
I'm talking to her because, well, she's a girl, and she's breathing...
isn't that reason enough for any guy?

Anyway, after a few minutes she says,
"Can I help you with something? Is there a problem you need help with?"
I say, "Yes. Yes I have a problem. I always just feel like nobody understands me."
She stares at me a few moments, silently, and then whispers under her breath,
"I'm not that kind of therapist."

: )
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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Thanks!:)

I will send all the applicants to you for your review(aka scare tactics). If that don't keep them at bay I don't know what will.
U make my ♥ go all pitter patter :eek: