what the qualities that GUYS looking for in a woman?

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ServantStrike

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I don't know some of them are kinda cute.....
That image isn't helping.

It's like lego cannibals collected a lifetime of trophies and displayed them.
 
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This is a poll that may serve to do some mind research but, as I have learned, evil people and evil spirits can read certain things that are better to be kept in the secrecy a person has with God.

I hope this book may "elaborate" on those things I bypassed.

He Came to Set the Captive Free
 
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I would say a woman that understands the role that God has given her, a woman that is a doer of God's word and not just a hearer only, a woman that will respect him, a woman that can pray with him and for him, a woman that is humble, a woman that is slow to speak and quick to listen, a woman that brings peace to the relationship, a woman that supports him even when he makes mistakes, a woman that gives him affirmation, a woman that gives him encouragement.
At least that's what my dad wanted...
 

IBDesmond

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But you have provided lots of fodder for tangent discussions, thus exceeding newbie expectations for thread derailing.
I don't know what you mean by this haha. I can't pick up what tense you're speaking in.
 

Calmador

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1. She's Godly - That means that she places God first in her life. She's politically conservative. That means, as a Christian she's against same-sex marriage and abortion. She's modest. She understands a wife's role in marriage which is to be under the leadership of her husband. Coming off from that, as it is from God's word, she would understand as wife/mother that the well-being of the home is a great focus in her life when married.

The rest is more for me personally:

2. She's easy-going... which means she wouldn't fuss about things such as where we are going to eat or how long a drive may be.

3. She should be smart. For the sake of conversational topics I like to talk about.

4. She can be silly... not 24/7... but as we get closer, we'd be more open to each other and goof off together. :3

5. She's a lady. She has some class... which means good manners, no burping, no farting, clean, and polite. Also, really awesome if she dresses up all nicely... formal-ish.

6. She loves children. It's just nice.

7. She's a little shy. There's a gentleness to a girl who is quiet and careful.
 

Calmador

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She'd probably be introverted too.
 

Calmador

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And she'd be really kind/affectionate/warm personality-wise over-all.


You know we list all these things and I'd probably be okay with just a few of em :p
 
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VioletReigns

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Years back I asked my then-single brother what he was looking for in a woman.
He answered, "A pulse." I still laugh each time I remember that. ROFL!!! :D
 

CatHerder

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Years back I asked my then-single brother what he was looking for in a woman.
He answered, "A pulse." I still laugh each time I remember that. ROFL!!! :D
**sigh**


back to the drawing board...
 

Lynx

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I believe Hal didn't have a pulse, and some of the ladies here would have wanted to go out with him...
 

seoulsearch

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I believe Hal didn't have a pulse, and some of the ladies here would have wanted to go out with him...
Hal would have sat and listened to all my problems (or at least, he would have acted like he was listening.)

Which is an excellent quality in a man.
 
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VioletReigns

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I believe Hal didn't have a pulse, and some of the ladies here would have wanted to go out with him...
No. I don't like Hal. He's a stoic, self-righteous, self-serving, sociopathic jerk. Plus he's a total bore.
 
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ServantStrike

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Hal would have sat and listened to all my problems (or at least, he would have acted like he was listening.)

Which is an excellent quality in a man.

Is it?

*taps fingers together*


Excellent. Listening is easy to do, anyone can do it (though some of us sometimes might interject on occasion we do still listen.


I mean, yeah listening is easy. Heck, some of us might even go... gasp... shoe shopping or something. It could be fun, maybe. I'd at least be willing to try it once.
 

melita916

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i hate clothes shopping. but i looooooooove shoe shopping. lol
 
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ServantStrike

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i hate clothes shopping. but i looooooooove shoe shopping. lol
I have noticed that some women tend to be most at ease when shoe shopping. So it's actually an ideal place for a man to be. She might start spilling the beans about how she feels if she finds that perfect pair of shoes.

Either that or she'll grab the heaviest, most dangerous pair of shoes off the rack and beat you with them if she can't find a pair she likes.

It's a calculated risk.

I am much amused. Hahahaa. Stoic too, huh? Man...
No no, HAL wasn't really a man either.

I think violet just doesn't like computers, especially ones that talk back.
 

nate7829

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i find it really fascinating that we see (over and over) threads for the purpose of asking women what they want in a guy, what is attractive in a guy, or other similar questions intended to solicit women's opinions of what they are seeking in a potential husband.

however, i seldom (if ever) have seen a thread that is essentially asking the guys the opposite.

such as:

+ what do you guys find appealing and attractive in a woman?

+ what qualities are you guys seeking in a potential spouse?


what are your top 5 qualities that you're seeking? if you have more, by all means, list more.
I think about this all the time. I have come up with lists upon lists upon lists, narrowing things down and compromising as I meet women, and deciding there are certain things that I will not compromise on. I think, ultimately, it really depends on the guy, but I'll give you mine (in no particular order):

-Really seeking to walk with God
-Not jaded against men, views relationships from a Biblical perspective
-Feels drawn to a man who is flawed, has had a rough past, but seeking God the best he can
-Kind
-Loving of people (wants to help others)
-Stops and smells the roses (not too busy to just appreciate a sunset or something)
-Always wants to learn & improve herself
-Tall (because I'm 6'2)
-Loves kids and adores my daughter
-Simple & carefree
-Beautiful (a given)
-Romantic
-Adventurous
-Affectionate
-Likes to workout and be active (as this is how I am)
-Likes cuddling, is secure in herself enough to be able to offer something like this
-Full of energy
-Happy & Optimistic

Hope this helps and gives you some insights. I know I've been helped to understand women by reading similar threads about what women want, so I truly hope this can give you insight you need.