i find it really fascinating that we see (over and over) threads for the purpose of asking women what they want in a guy, what is attractive in a guy, or other similar questions intended to solicit women's opinions of what they are seeking in a potential husband.
however, i seldom (if ever) have seen a thread that is essentially asking the guys the opposite.
such as:
+ what do you guys find appealing and attractive in a woman?
+ what qualities are you guys seeking in a potential spouse?
what are your top 5 qualities that you're seeking? if you have more, by all means, list more.
I think about this all the time. I have come up with lists upon lists upon lists, narrowing things down and compromising as I meet women, and deciding there are certain things that I will not compromise on. I think, ultimately, it really depends on the guy, but I'll give you mine (in no particular order):
-Really seeking to walk with God
-Not jaded against men, views relationships from a Biblical perspective
-Feels drawn to a man who is flawed, has had a rough past, but seeking God the best he can
-Kind
-Loving of people (wants to help others)
-Stops and smells the roses (not too busy to just appreciate a sunset or something)
-Always wants to learn & improve herself
-Tall (because I'm 6'2)
-Loves kids and adores my daughter
-Simple & carefree
-Beautiful (a given)
-Romantic
-Adventurous
-Affectionate
-Likes to workout and be active (as this is how I am)
-Likes cuddling, is secure in herself enough to be able to offer something like this
-Full of energy
-Happy & Optimistic
Hope this helps and gives you some insights. I know I've been helped to understand women by reading similar threads about what women want, so I truly hope this can give you insight you need.