So back to the fact that (honestly not trying to sound arrogant) I resemble all of these traits...there's obviously more to having a relationship than wit, size, and perception.
Honestly, there are dozens if not a hundred things I think people look for. And some they don't say. For example, I think what you find physically attractive plays more of a role than many admit, but looks also do not a good pair make. So...*shrug*