is homosexuality wrong

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Dec 9, 2013
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But i don't want to change

I have never been in your shoes so I dont know whats its like but I do know that being openly gay and being accepted into a bible-believing church are mutually exclusive....take your pick, but you dont get both.

Don't get me wrong, christians will love you and try to help you just like on this site but you need to understand that churches take their faith seriously and homosexuality is a sin according to God.

Those living in unrepentant sin are usually asked to leave a church. I remember my old church had a associate pastor involved in continuous adultery and was fired and no longer welcome as a member.

Remember, if you repent and get help to change your behavior then you will be accepted. However, as I tend to gather from your posts, that you have no intention of changing your behavior I would seriously consider your beliefs.
You are better off leaving the church so you can love the people you are attracted to without all the guilt.
 
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Tintin

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But i don't want to change
You make it sounds as if heterosexuals don't have struggles with lust or wanting to change, either. We do, but it's necessary to understand that sin is enticing to every boy, girl, man and woman that walks and has ever walked this earth. Struggles are part of everyday life. If sin wasn't tempting, we wouldn't commit any.
 

PennEd

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Listen i don't believe that god made everything i don't but jusy because a so called god says its wrong why should i
Well what the heck are you doing here asking the question in a Christian chat forum then?

You didnt answer my question so i'll ask again. Are you against a brother or sister having sex? How about a man having 20 wives? If not Why? Either you think ANY sex with ANYBODY or EVERYBODY is ok or you just want YOUR moral code to be what people should and shouldn't do.
See if we don't get our morality from Scripture than every man will do what is right in his own eyes.
 
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It is important to have a good foundation which can not be shaken - the Scripture.
In the Bible are many answers to our questions and there also talk about homosexuality


Truly is it wrong to love
 
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allthisstuff

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Hey let's not attack this individual. Even though it does some a little silly in a Christian forum. He is a guest. We might be the only Bible he reads in his lifetime. We don't have to agree with his views. And he doesn't necessarily have to give reasons for what he believes. We are Christ's witnesses. We are not his lawyers!

I just want to tell you that God is real. You might have struggles believing this, but believe me, God will shake your world to convince you if He has to. Once you come to believe in Him, He will convince you of all these details. Right now I just want you to have an open heart. You might not know why "this God" would demand such things that don't make sense or if He's even real. Have an open heart, so that, when He reveals Himself to you, you will be ready to receive him. Don't harden your heart.

Let's pray for him guys.

Dear God.. We know that you are good. We know that you love us all so much and sent Jesus as a ransom for all. Lord we ask in Jesus name that you will reveal yourself to this man. Please soften his heart and let Him receive you. Amen.
 
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Well what the heck are you doing here asking the question in a Christian chat forum then?

You didnt answer my question so i'll ask again. Are you against a brother or sister having sex? How about a man having 20 wives? If not Why? Either you think ANY sex with ANYBODY or EVERYBODY is ok or you just want YOUR moral code to be what people should and shouldn't do.
See if we don't get our morality from Scripture than every man will do what is right in his own eyes.

I think equality to all sexuality because it does not matter if it is ur sis or brother you have many wives but its in the bond of love u feel towards each other
 
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38miles

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But i don't want to change
This is not the issue. Are you attracted to Jesus? He is awesome love and He lived and died to meet your every need. Matthew 19:16 lays out the story of what happens when we walk away with our heads low because of something Jesus confronts us about that we don't want to let go of. Now for the young man in Matthew it was wealth, possessions, family, everything. And the disciples were all, "How is there hope for anyone to be saved?"
Matthew 19:26 -- God alone. So whatever your situation...don't run from God.
 
Sep 10, 2013
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"Live the life you love and love the life you live." You say....

Living the life you love may not always be good for you.

God knows what is right and what is wrong.

The fact that you yourself must ask if homosexuality is wrong just goes to show that some part of you believes that it's wrong.

When you know that what you're doing is good, there is no questioning it.

But if you feel like what you are doing isn't right, but you want to be told otherwise, that's when you start looking for answers that are pleasing to your ears.

It is said that we live hell on earth, God forbid, living the life you love may lead you to live hell twice.

Yes, it is personal choice but remember, whether it be good or bad, each choice has it's own consequence.

Good point!
The most difficult thing is to take an honest look at ourselves, to confront ourselves with that inner voice (our conscience, the voice of God), the same voice that asked Cain: "Where is your brother?". We don´t want to bring ourselves to deep in thinking and in introspection because what might come out can hurt us a lot. But, it´s the only way that we can change and know who we are; for now, we prefer slogans that confort ourselves, like "Be yourself" or "Live the life you love etc." etc., but some part of us (like you pointed out) knows that these are all lies, projections of who we want to be or what we think we are.
 
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tucksma

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Why do you see the act as being wrong i think its a personal choice and why does a book seem to have the answer this why people ask this should a book just say its bad and go on with life but why should it matter if we have sex with a man thats y we should always
Live the life you love and love the life you live
We look at homosexuality as wrong because it is said in the bible to be wrong. If you don't believe in the bible, then theres a bigger issue at hand.
 

homwardbound

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Truly is it wrong to love
Worlds way of Love is selfish to self and those that we agree with
God's way is different, and sin is sin no matter how big or small, I can't condemn for me personally it is wrong even Hetero-sexually.
So maybe see and understand this type of love from God;
Luke 6:32 For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.
Would the above scripture include Homosexuality? I think so and all sin for God did go to the cross for us all did he not;
Romans 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

So to me this leaves each person to decide for themselves between God and them what is beneficial and what is not between them God and the others
For I know and believe God is the one that teaches us each when we believe what is right and what is wrong or what is beneficial and what is not and we thus decide to abide accordingly as we grow in maturity in God


 

homwardbound

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The problem isnt love, its who you or what you have sex with...if you want to use love, then when stop at same sex. Lets just go with adult child....adult animal...child animal....hey, its about love right?
Love of the flesh is opposite from the Spiritual Love of God
Flesh is selfish \
And God is not at all. If God was selfish God would have never been Merciful in hopes for us to really Love all equally and not tear another down
Only God himself in a relationship from God can show you and you get to decide what is beneficial and what is not. right now you think because of the pleasure in the flesh you are receiving is beneficial. The same to the Hetero-sexual doing the same as in you all know_____________________________ that one is only using sex for pleasure rather than pro-creating another person to live here
As that is all that God said go forth and pro-create, never once said to use it for self pleasure
Just what I see as what has come forth in man seeking his own pleasure and has become reprobate in it, as in Romans reveals this, and that God has allowed this keeping in God's promise to free choice
So choose to whom you believe God or self pleasures.
I know mine and What God has shown me personally
Thanks praying for you and trusting God to be with you in a personal relationship with God through Son Christ
 

homwardbound

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Why just because a book says a man and man cant have sex means it must be that way iys wrong how religion in general hates on the life style i live im 15 im proud of being gay whays wrong with that
Not to be hateful to you, but God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve
Man has /flashlight, man enter cave and life is created. It is what it is

now if no man entered cave to have more life there would be no life here
And so how did you get here, not by Man on Man nor Woman on Woman did you?
Just a little logic to ponder on for you. I mean no offense to you, you have free will choice just as everyone else does too
God does just love you so much that his only one son went to the cross for you to redeem you in the Spirit of God the Father as being made perfect through Son to give you a new life in the Spirit of God not the flesh that is selfish
Love you regardless of your choice in this matter
 

Oak

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bible says to stone gays. obey god!
 
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Not to be hateful to you, but God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve
Man has /flashlight, man enter cave and life is created. It is what it is

now if no man entered cave to have more life there would be no life here
And so how did you get here, not by Man on Man nor Woman on Woman did you?
Just a little logic to ponder on for you. I mean no offense to you, you have free will choice just as everyone else does too
God does just love you so much that his only one son went to the cross for you to redeem you in the Spirit of God the Father as being made perfect through Son to give you a new life in the Spirit of God not the flesh that is selfish
Love you regardless of your choice in this matter
Sir i don't care how god made it its how take these words and say is this fair that a woman and a man who love each can be together but because i like men or women like another girl they are not allowed to be happy with there life and still share the same belief
 
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Tintin

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Hey let's not attack this individual. Even though it does some a little silly in a Christian forum. He is a guest. We might be the only Bible he reads in his lifetime. We don't have to agree with his views. And he doesn't necessarily have to give reasons for what he believes. We are Christ's witnesses. We are not his lawyers!

I just want to tell you that God is real. You might have struggles believing this, but believe me, God will shake your world to convince you if He has to. Once you come to believe in Him, He will convince you of all these details. Right now I just want you to have an open heart. You might not know why "this God" would demand such things that don't make sense or if He's even real. Have an open heart, so that, when He reveals Himself to you, you will be ready to receive him. Don't harden your heart.

Let's pray for him guys.

Dear God.. We know that you are good. We know that you love us all so much and sent Jesus as a ransom for all. Lord we ask in Jesus name that you will reveal yourself to this man. Please soften his heart and let Him receive you. Amen.
I don't see anyone attacking him, just disagreeing with him by offering a biblical perspective.
 
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Dylan98

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Yes homosexuality is wrong! If any one say no, don't listen to them. Read the bible it says "homosexuality will not inherit the kingdom." But they can repent and turn from being "gay" and no one is born gay or is 5%! I've heard people who claim to be christian say this.
 
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Yes homosexuality is wrong! If any one say no, don't listen to them. Read the bible it says "homosexuality will not inherit the kingdom." But they can repent and turn from being "gay" and no one is born gay or is 5%! I've heard people who claim to be christian say this.
Forget it. This gay guy did not asked an honest question.