Some say that some sheep will, haha.
Exactly LOL! I was like, how can I do this with my husband without contradicting the words sheep/goats?
Yeah, you got what I meant.
Typically I could say, welp, there are only sheep in heaven but sorry for your luck there are no goats (and kidding, but at a more appropriate time) which was not this time.
And because we had a daughter who died at very young he often say to me (when any of them passes) and in tears that it comforts him to know that Em (our daughter) is greeting each one (in heaven).
Now, he is much more sensitive than I am, he becomes attached to animals more than I ever have and you would think (in that moment) that we lost a second child (if we ever had one) because of how emotional he becomes. I'm glad that conversation was over the phone (before he got home from work) because I draw blanks as to what to say to things like that, and I know for sure (as I can feel it written across my face) that I get a sort of stumped look on my face and become speechless with what might be understood to be a simple thing (this being one of them). I feel worse because he is my husband (always highly sensitive and emotional at such a time) whereas I feel emotionally distant with things similar to that, but I become uncomfortable with creating a fiction out of them which some could very easily can feel pressed to do, but at the same time (in not doing so) and in not having a real answer either Im stuck feeling insentive (being ill equipped) when I should have this down by now.
Just because he is sobbing over her loss whereas my demeaner is more like, "Its just potatoes tonight" if you get my drift.
I fumble around with what to say, especially in that area of things, and so I am not a good comforter in those things, that is even obvious to me. Like I wouldnt want me by me if I was actually upset by a loss, and there is only one I can think of my daughters for quite awhile after that I feel more like a stone towards it.
Wow, that was longwinded sorry, but yeah what could I say sheep/goats wise? I was at a loss
(there... there...)
is basically my best shot at the situation.