I wonder how you can compare legalists v. gracers debate into "triggers."
Because Lynn, I never expected to attack and onslaught this group brought and exposed
with just a few words said in the "wrong" way. It was obvious there is deep hurt here
and massive histories.
I said one sentence to a member asking about their partner, and it became a massive insult
and wound, followed by pages of vitriol. That is a trigger, big time.
Another fellow said basically if I did not agree he was walking with ex-nihilo creative authority
I was the enemy and would be servely rebuked by God into a trembling heap.
Another because I was not into security of faith, I must not be saved, all my spiritual experiences
are null and void, I should be pulverised and destroyed, because they love me so much.
These are emotional triggers, with anger, projection, and animosity which has nothing to do with
what I was sharing. I do not hold it against them, I just still stand and wonder how badly they
have been dealt with in the past and how deep the feelings run.