Free will and God's will

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Great question of which I have dealt with many times. I am not Calvinist or Arminian in view. I would like to believe I am a Biblical thinker. First, God's knows everything. If I can accept this then that is a major step in dealing with the question. Second, I make free choices every day. One clear statement in the Gospels is the direct and interesting use of a counterfactual by Christ. It is my conviction that this counterfactual disqualifies all attempts of Calvinist and Arminians arguments.

Here is the text of the counterfactual I am speaking about. Notice the fact that in this account, FREE WILL drips off the page, it cannot be denied and the counterfactual nails it to the wall when it comes to any argument pro or con against free will of mankind in regards to a God / man relationship.

Luke 10:13-16“Woe to you, Korazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the miracles that were performed in you had been performed in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago, sitting in sackcloth and ashes. But it will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon at the judgment than for you. And you, Capernaum, will you be lifted up to the skies? No, you will go down to the depths.

“He who listens to you listens to me; he who rejects you rejects me; but he who rejects me rejects him who sent me.”


I believe this speaks for itself and if accepted answers your question point blank and once in for all. Jesus is God so why not accept what he says.

A counterfactual is what would have happened if I had turned left instead of right. God knows all counterfactuals, what might have been that was not but should it have been he know our of his nature as God what the outcome would be, He is God, knowing is not a problem for Him. I don't understand that kind of ability, but I accept it. To God Be All Glory.
Blessing your way
Yeah, saying you're neither really didn't answer jsr's question. And you proved multiple time that you don't know what Calvinists or Arminians believe to prove either side wrong or right.
 
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I am with the poster who says man is not born with a will that is free. It is born already in vicious slavery. If it weren't so, small children would not have to be taught to not bite, to not kick, to share.

Mostly what we define as free will is an amalgamation of the teaching of expected manners and societal norms and the inward desire to be accepted rather than shunned.
I think, in this instance, jsr is talking about the ability we really do have to make our own choices. I don't think he's jumping into the "free will" debate that occupies a lot of the Calvinists vs. Arminianists debate on this forum.

(Although, I agree with you completely. lol)
 
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Well, I most often err in this respect by adding a little piece of the leaven of arrogance and superiority, thereby undoing the good I want to do for someone and causing what could could be good to be instead harshly clanging noise by muddying it with my own feet.
Excuse me while my English teacher background gets in my way here, but...

I think you just hit the mother lode for mixed metaphors in one small bit of writing. lol
 
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I don't ever recall you choosing not to be angry.
Can someone explain to me what it is about people who follow fatalism that make them so they feel they have to attack anyone who disagrees with them?
 

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Jeremiah 18:1-11King James Version (KJV)
18 The word which came to Jeremiah from the Lord, saying,
[SUP]2 [/SUP]Arise, and go down to the potter's house, and there I will cause thee to hear my words.
[SUP]3 [/SUP]Then I went down to the potter's house, and, behold, he wrought a work on the wheels.
[SUP]4 [/SUP]And the vessel that he made of clay was marred in the hand of the potter: so he made it again another vessel, as seemed good to the potter to make it.
[SUP]5 [/SUP]Then the word of the Lord came to me, saying,
[SUP]6 [/SUP]O house of Israel, cannot I do with you as this potter? saith the Lord. Behold, as the clay is in the potter's hand, so are ye in mine hand, O house of Israel.
[SUP]7 [/SUP]At what instant I shall speak concerning a nation, and concerning a kingdom, to pluck up, and to pull down, and to destroy it;
[SUP]8 [/SUP]If that nation, against whom I have pronounced, turn from their evil, I will repent of the evil that I thought to do unto them.
[SUP]9 [/SUP]And at what instant I shall speak concerning a nation, and concerning a kingdom, to build and to plant it;
[SUP]10 [/SUP]If it do evil in my sight, that it obey not my voice, then I will repent of the good, wherewith I said I would benefit them.
[SUP]11 [/SUP]Now therefore go to, speak to the men of Judah, and to the inhabitants of Jerusalem, saying, Thus saith the Lord; Behold, I frame evil against you, and devise a device against you: return ye now every one from his evil way, and make your ways and your doings good.

So yeah he is the potter and we are the clay, but he gave instructions that "If" they turn unto him he would mold it into something good...He gave them a choice in the matter...Just my thoughts on it anyhow.
God promises to bless or destroy based upon man's response to His word. And by the way, we also see God changing His mind.:)
 
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ok sis, I will be honest here, please do not take me wrong.

I have no idea how this has anything to do with what I asked. I never mentioned what type of murder or anger it may be, I asked if I had a will to chose to follow God and not sin, or follow my flesh and sin (ie, the anger I am talking about is the anger that would be classified as sin, not the type of Anger Jesus had when he turned over the tables in the temple court).

Yeah, but she's talking about what goes on inside of us, as well as outside of us. I truly believe we can all act like we're not angry. But angry is an emotion that hits us, and it doesn't simply pass through like a rock through water, because we've chosen to do God's will. We wouldn't have to make that choice at all, if the anger didn't get netted by us inside first. We ARE already angry/sinning before we even get to the point of choosing not to. That's what she is saying. Sin runs deep and clings.

We can pretend not to be angry, but by the time we're even pretending it, we've already sinned in it.

Do you have blood brothers? Do you have siblings? How good were you at not sinning with the anger bit? Even when I chose to avoid a fight with my brother, I already had him marked as FOOL! The sin was there. At best, I didn't add onto it.

Choose all you want, but you can't choose emotions fast enough to avoid sin, if you can choose your emotions at all.
 
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Dude you better back off with your nonsense, You have me on ignore, then leave me alone. (please note. this is why it gets so heated. some people just can not stand to be told they may be wrong, so they attack and attack.. )

I spoke of God when I spoke of following the spirit. Adstar spoke of fearing the Lord. so he also Gave God credit, So you are proven a LIAR!

And poof! Proof anger grips before controlling it.
 
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And I never said he had achieved the perfection of humility. But he’s not arrogant, either.



We will always be on the Potter’s wheel, being molded more and more into the image of the Christ. It’s called progressive sanctification. Some will need longer than others. But none will reach a state where the heart is perfect.
Ya-hunh!

Sure we will. And that state is called "glorification!"
 
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Our God is the creator of a universe that is at least 93 billion light years wide and is only 13.8 billion years old. This is something I can't understand -- does that mean the Big Bang was 6.7 times faster than light speed?

Well, I don't understand creation because our father is an infinite being, and I don't understand free will vs. predestination for the same reason, but I'm sure we have free will because otherwise we wouldn't be accountable for our sins and God says we are.
You're going to have to keep up with "science" better than this. Most cosmologists don't believe in the Big Bang anymore. (They don't believe in Black Holes anymore either.)
 
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I think you misunderstood me sis, again, DO I not have to chose to get angry or not? Do I not have a will that says I will follow God here (seek after things of the spirit, Love the person who has wronged me in my view), and not my flesh.
I have until whenever I have to go back and fetch my mother, hoping for an hour! :)

Not sure but think this is where I left off.

I see what appears to be a fracture.

I think we are all born blind and that we would remain that way unless He gave us sight. A blind man can't choose what he can't see. He cant see in order to choose it. There should be as many people believing in fairies as in God if we go that direction. Why would one believe God exists but not fairies? Why does a man suddenly see God exists but he still does not believe fairies exist when previously he believed neither of them to exist? It is because he was given the sight to see Gods existence by God Himself. He did not simply choose with his own will to believe God exists and to also choose with that same will to believe fairies don't exist. He makes his judgements by what he can see. He can't see fairies and he can't see God, so his judgement by his own eyes is neither exist.

So the man was given to see. He did not choose to see. A blind man can wish and will to see and he will never see unless there is an operation by a doctor which causes him to see.

So...does a man say, all I know is that one moment I couldn't see that God existed and the next moment I could suddenly see, or does the man say, I wanted to see so I willed my sight into existence?

Haven't even got to the idea of free will yet and already have to go pick her up! Waaaaahh! Be back tonight sometime.
 

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I have until whenever I have to go back and fetch my mother, hoping for an hour! :)

Not sure but think this is where I left off.

I see what appears to be a fracture.

I think we are all born blind and that we would remain that way unless He gave us sight. A blind man can't choose what he can't see. He cant see in order to choose it. There should be as many people believing in fairies as in God if we go that direction. Why would one believe God exists but not fairies? Why does a man suddenly see God exists but he still does not believe fairies exist when previously he believed neither of them to exist? It is because he was given the sight to see Gods existence by God Himself. He did not simply choose with his own will to believe God exists and to also choose with that same will to believe fairies don't exist. He makes his judgements by what he can see. He can't see fairies and he can't see God, so his judgement by his own eyes is neither exist.

So the man was given to see. He did not choose to see. A blind man can wish and will to see and he will never see unless there is an operation by a doctor which causes him to see.

So...does a man say, all I know is that one moment I couldn't see that God existed and the next moment I could suddenly see, or does the man say, I wanted to see so I willed my sight into existence?

Haven't even got to the idea of free will yet and already have to go pick her up! Waaaaahh! Be back tonight sometime.

John 1
9 That was the true Light, which lighteth every man that cometh into the world.
10 He was in the world, and the world was made by him, and the world knew him not.
11 He came unto his own, and his own received him not.
12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:

God has given everyone light. Some choose to reject that light. Some choose to believe.
 
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Well alrighty then...Still though, whose choice is it?
Once the Lord comes into your life, can you even not-choose him?

I've tried to walk away, and yet, he has me, so I can't. It just makes no sense to walk away. So his choice saved me, and I've got no other choice but to love and follow him.
 
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Can someone explain to me what it is about people who follow fatalism that make them so they feel they have to attack anyone who disagrees with them?
Start with what makes you always assume you're such the martyr always being attacked? (I mad a personal observation, dude.)

And then go on from there to learn enough to stop calling people words that don't describe them just because your playing the victim card and angry.

Once you get that far, you'll find out why you don't need an answer to the non-question.
 
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Can a Born-again Believers free will alone stop oppression from Satan?
 

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Once the Lord comes into your life, can you even not-choose him?

I've tried to walk away, and yet, he has me, so I can't. It just makes no sense to walk away. So his choice saved me, and I've got no other choice but to love and follow him.
Thanks for the reply, and believe me I do get what you are saying here. I myself have walked away or tried to walk away from God, but he never left me alone, and he did guide me back just like the prodigal son.

From the beginning though, I had to make the choice to accept him or not…To be honest, when he first started drawing me…I chose not to accept him, but thank God he had mercy on me and continued to give me a chance to repent, accept His Son, and be saved. But that was something that I had to choose to do…He didn’t make me do it, but he had mercy on me and gave me the chance.
 

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Can a Born-again Believers free will alone stop oppression from Satan?
No, we have to submit to God...Submit yourselves to God resist the devil and he will flee from you...The only thing that can break the bonds or oppression is the Blood of the Lamb.
 
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I have until whenever I have to go back and fetch my mother, hoping for an hour! :)

Not sure but think this is where I left off.

I see what appears to be a fracture.

I think we are all born blind and that we would remain that way unless He gave us sight. A blind man can't choose what he can't see. He cant see in order to choose it. There should be as many people believing in fairies as in God if we go that direction. Why would one believe God exists but not fairies? Why does a man suddenly see God exists but he still does not believe fairies exist when previously he believed neither of them to exist? It is because he was given the sight to see Gods existence by God Himself. He did not simply choose with his own will to believe God exists and to also choose with that same will to believe fairies don't exist. He makes his judgements by what he can see. He can't see fairies and he can't see God, so his judgement by his own eyes is neither exist.

So the man was given to see. He did not choose to see. A blind man can wish and will to see and he will never see unless there is an operation by a doctor which causes him to see.

So...does a man say, all I know is that one moment I couldn't see that God existed and the next moment I could suddenly see, or does the man say, I wanted to see so I willed my sight into existence?

Haven't even got to the idea of free will yet and already have to go pick her up! Waaaaahh! Be back tonight sometime.
again, I am not sure what your talking about.

I asked if I can chose at a particular instant to get angry or not.

I am not trying to argue about calvanism, (I have learned it is a fruitless argument) I just asked a simple question.
 
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Start with what makes you always assume you're such the martyr always being attacked? (I mad a personal observation, dude.)

And then go on from there to learn enough to stop calling people words that don't describe them just because your playing the victim card and angry.

Once you get that far, you'll find out why you don't need an answer to the non-question.
This is what it looks like for people who like to attack but want to blame shift, or excuse their sin.

Just look at the last time I responded to this particular poster. In fact. Look at the last time I responded to a few people here, you will see I have not, I have even stopped liking things they say even if I agree wholeheartedly.

I will just let the fact speak for themselves. And let this particular person go back to where she belongs with her buddies.


 
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No, we have to submit to God...Submit yourselves to God resist the devil and he will flee from you...The only thing that can break the bonds or oppression is the Blood of the Lamb.
How do we submit to God?