A Question for the Men

[miknik5]

Ha ha. No I didn’t!

 

[becc]

I dunno. I've done a lot of studying over the years about how kids grow up, (wanted to be a teacher, so took the college courses, and then was writing a novel for grammar school kids, so had to see if they had changed in the last 40 years. lol) The information about how puberty happens has remained the same. Girls really are two years older in maturity than boys. I just don't know if that means boys are immature for their age or girls above mature for their age.

Good news though. You are the normal mature for your age. (Somehow this sounds like you could mistake this for an insult. I can't figure out how to fix that, so just going to say, "you're doing good. I worry about teens who are too mature for their age, or too immature. I'm not worried about you, because you seem about where you should be in your maturity.")

Doesn't sound like an insult to me but I'm confused

 

[becc]

What's the name of the woman cuz i just remembered a woman asking me for help though she didn't ask for my email

 

[Mel85]

I did an accidental social experiment. (Accidental, as in I wasn't planning on doing this. It just happened.)

See my avatar? It's a stuffed animal. I change it every month, yet there are always one or more of my stuffed animals in the picture. I average about three of those PMs a month.

One month I posted a picture of me (when I was in my 40s) and some of my stuffed animals. Four of those PMs that month.

It seems to me women with avatars of them being women, (and you can even be dressed up for a costume party, and looking frightful lol), will raise the levels of those kinds of PMs.

Four in one month or three a year? Meh. In my case I don't really care. I tend to find the typical spammers amusing.

On the other hand, I would love it if for one month most of the people on this site would have a picture of the opposite gender as their avatar. I'd be curious if there was an uptick or downtick in spamming PMs.

I was thinking of changing my pic to my two ferocious boys......

Do you think that’ll make a difference?

Although at the same time, I don’t wanna change fo’nobody *clicks fingers*

 

[Mel85]

Yeah, you guys are the land of Lord of the Rings. AU is the land of Quigley Down Under and Crocodile Dundee. (And to any Aussies. If'n you want more modern movies to describe your land, then get to it. I'm all about the scenery in movies, so would love to see more Oz movies.)

Wow, you are the best person right now!!

 

[zeroturbulence]

I put my pic as my avatar once... and not a single PM.

 

[Mel85]

LOL........

 

[Waggles]

I had to replace my photo avatar as it was getting NO results
I was hoping the vegemite might do better.

 

[seed_time_harvest]

I actually am very very aware of social media danger and i don't plan on having a relationship until i'm 18 or done with university..... for now it's just crushes and more major crushes

You’re 14 but that Is a wise thing you said there.

 

[joefizz]

I put my pic as my avatar once... and not a single PM.

How strange I had multiple pms from both genders and fascinating people when I had my avatar as my actual face(multiple avatars) and I now have an anime avatar and yet I still get pms but not as many hmmm,should I switch my avatar back?(hahaha hahaha hahaha)

 

[Mel85]

I had to replace my photo avatar as it was getting NO results
I was hoping the vegemite might do better.

You know it’s all about the Marmite.....

 

[Mel85]

How strange I had multiple pms from both genders and fascinating people when I had my avatar as my actual face(multiple avatars) and I now have an anime avatar and yet I still get pms but not as many hmmm,should I switch my avatar back?(hahaha hahaha hahaha)

Do what your heart tells you to do....

 

[Didymous]

I prefer nutella, myself.

 

[Didymous]

Or white chocolate raspberry ice cream.

 

[Mel85]

I just said Marmite to challenge Waggles

 

[Mel85]

I prefer white chocolate also....

 

[Didymous]

But what about promite?

 

[Mel85]

But what about promite?

And that is?

 

[Adstar]

I don't really care if anyone answers, so was just wondering if anyone else has had any questionable private messages, requesting emails so a picture can be sent.

Yes i have had them.. Sad to say that people with no conscience will use any type of deception they can to milk people of money..

 

[Didymous]

And that is?

Isn't that also from down under, some type of foodie stuff like Vegemite, or marmite? Don't make me go down there to get some!