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i feel sorry for the kids
Believe it or not she was on a later episode of Wife Swap again, and seemed to have turned over a new leaf. Still a little off, but not as psychotic as she came across before. The ironic thing was she was placed in a home that was even more closed minded than her and she saw what it was like for the first family that had to put up with her. She even said after watching the first episode she was on she felt ashamed for how she behaved.
 
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wolfywolfs

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Believe it or not she was on a later episode of Wife Swap again, and seemed to have turned over a new leaf. Still a little off, but not as psychotic as she came across before. The ironic thing was she was placed in a home that was even more closed minded than her and she saw what it was like for the first family that had to put up with her. She even said after watching the first episode she was on she felt ashamed for how she behaved.
i wonder how she react if she stayed with atheist
 
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i wonder how she react if she stayed with atheist
Judging by how she kept it together with the racist family, surprisingly civil I think, believe it or not. Like I said, she mentioned she felt ashamed of herself when she saw the first episode she did.
 
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i believe homosexuality is a sin. it may not be the greatest but its the same as any other. aswell i believe being gay comes from choice not naturally as many would like you to believe. ill use myself as an example as i was growing up i was sexually molested by an older child and when i reached the age of 12 to 13 i was sexually confused about if i liked girls or boys. eventually i realized why i was confused and started learning what was my confusion all about. i seen i had a choice, i couldve dated dudes and had the support of gay friends and no issues aswell my own mother wouldve been supportive but i could date women and still get all that same support. what made the choice easy for me was realizing what was lust and what was right. I am straight and i no longer have any confusion. i know that the natural order is for us to be man and woman as one. Yes 2 gay people can definately love one another and be inlove but does it make it right because its love? does sleeping with another woman or man while in a committed relationship make it right because theyre happy or satisfied? just because you may feel that something is right doesnt make it right. Youve received your answer from scripture by many others yet you depend on the same man that is a natural born sinner to tell you what is right to them because of how you may feel about a subject. the only one that gives answers of right or righteousness is God.
 
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Fire7

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i feel sorry for the kids
Me too. The little girl almost looks traumatized...but at least the woman has mellowed out some after seeing herself on TV.
 
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Her oldest daughter Ashley died in a car crash... the little girl in the clip (who is the God Warrior's granddaughter), is now under her care.
 
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TheJesusFreak

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This site is starting to get me worried.

I am not gay. Nor do I plan on being gay. I Beleive that being gay is a sin

BUT IN GOD EYES ALL SIN IS EQUAL YOU PEOPLE! WE ARE ALL LIVING IN SIN!

Yes us Christians mess up and sin all of the time. Being gay is an equal sin in gods eyes.

I PERSONALLY beleive that being gay is a sin BUT if the said gay person somehow beleives in their heart it isnt I dont think God will Damn them to Hell if they are trying to live for him even if they are wrong.

I dont see how they can truly beleive it isnt a sin but if they do truly beleive that then I think they arent going to hell.


BUT IDK AND PLEASE DONT JUDGE ME

It is comments on threads like these that always make me question now whether I am going to heaven or not.

I thought that if you tried to follow jesus even TRIED then you were going to heaven :(
 
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The greatest commandment says to love. Jesus said it himself, that we are called to love people as he did. We are also called to show the grace that God has had on us to others, Christian or not. Is it really our position to decided whether or not you can be saved as a homosexual? I think not. We are not called to judge whether a liar, someone who has premarital sex, or a angry person goes to heaven, so how are homosexuals any different. God looks at the heart. He sees the heart of every homosexual person and He loves them. He embraces them and He wants to see them delivered. Is homosexuality a sin? Yes, it is. Do we need to shove it down every homosexuals throat that we meet? No. We need to love them. We need to embrace them as a person that God created.
People often quote scripture to say that homosexuality is an abomination, and I agree that it is. However, how many other sins are listed in those Romans and 1 Corinthians passages that are also considered abominations... and do we ever declare their shame? Almost never. There are certainly all kinds of people, the sexaully immoral, male prostitutes, idolators, homosexuals, theives, greedy people, drunkards, slanderers, swinlers whom are declared unfit for inheriting the Kingdom of God. Do we not all fit into these categories? I've can identify with almost all of them. Read on in Romans and we see that Paul is bringing up these sins to compare them to our new reality in Christ. Do we always walk in our new reality? No, but it's it still who God created us to be.
Homosexuals can pursue God. They can sin and love God, just as we do. They can be Christians. If they couldn't then, neither could we. Praise be to God for His mercy. It is our job to loving call out the true identity in all people, not to put them in a box for their own confused identity.
Are there homosexuals who claim to be Christians who are not? Are there ones who are not pursuing God, but sya they are? Certainly, but again, how many "mainsteam Christians" do the same?
Last night we finished up and Alpha with the Holy Spirit weekend. One of our attendees is a very open homosexual. When he approached us at orientationt to see if he could just our ministry, his first question was, "I'm gay. Will that be a problem?" He was seeking, and God placed him in our path to speak true identity into him and show him love and compassion. Last night, after 9 weeks of being loved and accepted, he accepted the Lord. He was trully seeking. Will the road be hard? Yes. Does he have things to deal with? Yes, as we all do. But God had a purpose for His life and if our answer would have been, "You can join us, but we think your in sin, He would never have found God."
I am not saying to go against truth, but sometimes the truth God wants someone to hear is, "I love you anyway."
 
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next_step

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How do you know God didn't give us people like Freud and other psychologists to help us better understand human nature? They were created by God.
Simply because the underlying premises deny the biblical idea of man. Freud remains unproven.
 
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princessbella

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Jordache i like what you just said , i wholeheartedly agree
 
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TheJesusFreak

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Thank you so much. I am now like scarred. She seemed so possessed!
She wasnt even that pure in my opinion. She said she could hear gods voice all of the time and asked him if she should make cajun? Either she is totally with god a lot and has great discernment or she is possessed with a spiritual demon.

The other people are just bad and duh lol.

(I looked more into the episode)
 
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Simply because the underlying premises deny the biblical idea of man. Freud remains unproven.
As the "doubter" you have to provide the evidence that he's wrong, not the other way around.
 
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Reikon

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I am trisexual so I've felt deep feelings for the same sex. I've actually dated the same sex as well. I am also confused about GOD not being ok with same sex marriage or same sex relationships. I too believe that gay love was not what it was like in the past and I truly believe that GOD accepts people for who they are, even if they sin. As for being gay is a sin...I am not sure if it is or not but I don't think you'll perish in hell just for having sex or loving someone of the same sex, if you tell GOD about what you've done. I believe that GOD wants you happy and if someone who is gay or not straight wants to be with the same sex at times, such as myself, then it shouldn't be considered a sin, at least to me. Because some people are not happy with the opposite sex. I don't think GOD would want you in a relationship that you're not happy with.
 
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AV_Techy_Dude

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Okay...That's keep this REAL!!
People who try and tell you that Homosexuality is something that you are born with or born as are DECEIVED!!
God created Man in his own image and gave him Woman as a companion for life.
When you try and minimize this fact and argue it differently, you are simply DECEIVED!!
Homosexuality is a Practice, a Sinful Practice, not a definition of who you are!!
The practice of Homosexuality is Sinful and anyone who chooses this is Sinning!
However, We as Christians, unfortunately tend to throw "Sinners" under the bus, rather than doing what we are called to do
by Jesus himself, and that is, to LOVE your neighbour as yourself!! Judge Not, for thou shalt be Judged!!
As a Christian you are to show the Love of God to everyone you meet!! Simply put, Love the Sinner, not the Sin!!
For someone like yourself, who may be struggling with thoughts and feelings of whether or not they are Homosexual or not,
I simply advise this...
Truly Seek the Lord about your Feelings!! Talk to him about them!! Don't Hold anything back!! God Loves You and wants to have
an intimate relationship with you through his son, Jesus, and implemented through the Holy Spirit. If you do this, I believe that
you will realize that Homosexuality is NOT God's plan for our lives. However, if you do not come to the same conclusion as I,
Do not let anyone's "Judgement" deter you from your relationship with the Heavenly Father!! He and He Alone, will be your
sole Judge!!
God Bless!
 
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Okay...That's keep this REAL!!
People who try and tell you that Homosexuality is something that you are born with or born as are DECEIVED!!
God created Man in his own image and gave him Woman as a companion for life.
When you try and minimize this fact and argue it differently, you are simply DECEIVED!!
Homosexuality is a Practice, a Sinful Practice, not a definition of who you are!!
Saying someone CHOSE to be attracted to girls or boys is like saying someone chooses to dislike chocolate. You can't help what you do or don't like.
 
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Maddog

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Saying someone CHOSE to be attracted to girls or boys is like saying someone chooses to dislike chocolate. You can't help what you do or don't like.
I don't know exactly what angle he's coming from, but I think he's using 'homosexual' to refer to the practice, rather than the orientation itself so, using his definition, it is right to say we have a choice.
 
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Fire7

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Okay...That's keep this REAL!!
People who try and tell you that Homosexuality is something that you are born with or born as are DECEIVED!!
God created Man in his own image and gave him Woman as a companion for life.
When you try and minimize this fact and argue it differently, you are simply DECEIVED!!
Homosexuality is a Practice, a Sinful Practice, not a definition of who you are!!
The practice of Homosexuality is Sinful and anyone who chooses this is Sinning!
However, We as Christians, unfortunately tend to throw "Sinners" under the bus, rather than doing what we are called to do
by Jesus himself, and that is, to LOVE your neighbour as yourself!! Judge Not, for thou shalt be Judged!!
As a Christian you are to show the Love of God to everyone you meet!! Simply put, Love the Sinner, not the Sin!!
For someone like yourself, who may be struggling with thoughts and feelings of whether or not they are Homosexual or not,
I simply advise this...
Truly Seek the Lord about your Feelings!! Talk to him about them!! Don't Hold anything back!! God Loves You and wants to have
an intimate relationship with you through his son, Jesus, and implemented through the Holy Spirit. If you do this, I believe that
you will realize that Homosexuality is NOT God's plan for our lives. However, if you do not come to the same conclusion as I,
Do not let anyone's "Judgement" deter you from your relationship with the Heavenly Father!! He and He Alone, will be your
sole Judge!!
God Bless!

I'm sorry, but after reading your second sentence, I couldn't read the rest, because you obviously don't know what you're talking about. Call it "deception" or whatever religious term you like to put on it to drive home your point. But the fact is, people can be born homosexual, just as people can be born male, female, or both sexes (hermophrodite).
 
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Fire7

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Saying someone CHOSE to be attracted to girls or boys is like saying someone chooses to dislike chocolate. You can't help what you do or don't like.

BINGO!..........