This is where the parents come in. Parents are not only to provide for and help raise their children, they are to protect them from physical and spiritual predators/dangers as well.
The parent(s), that are not walking in sin, do(es) this through prayers of faith, before and after the child is born. You don't quit. Even as the child grows up, you cover them.
This should be done by the father/husband as he is the head and strong man of the house/family. He is the family covering/protector, even as Christ is to the church.
Many problems in the family are a direct result of the failures of the fathers. Generally, it is the mothers that pray for their children.
Mar_3:27 No man can enter into a strong man's house, and spoil his goods, except he will first bind the strong man; and then he will spoil his house.
I'm not my father so I can not tell you if he prays for me or not, but I'm going assume him and my mother pray for me. I may be wrong, but other than God who knows what or who my father prays for unless he prays aloud. I do hope you're not implying my father hasn't prayed enough for me and I hope you're not saying my father is to blame for my being gay. That is one of the reasons I am frightened to tell them. Nothing they did or did not do made me gay and I don't want them to believe it is the fault of either one of them. The absolute truth is that it was beyond there control. You say we all deal with sin, well if that is the case, if homosexuality was to be the sin I deal with then there was no protecting me from it. It is something i have to overcome on my own, with the help of God of course. There is no living a sin free life. No one, but Jesus has accomplished that.
Sometimes, knowledge is power. And it this case, knowing the truth is what makes one free, as it is a shield as well as a sword to them that use it.
Children are particularly susceptible to self condemnation as they want to fit in with the others, yet know that they are different. Being fragile and weak, along with their own hearts condemning them, they succumb to depression and the like.
Pro_29:18 Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.
When you strip a person of hope, you've given them cause to seek death. For when they see that there is no way out for them, they quit in life.
At the same time, don't try to justify the way you are. For it is temporal and changeable, it is not permanent, if you do something about it. Because all thing are possible with God to them that believe.
Fitting in as you say may be the cause for some children to go through depression, but for me it was never about fitting in. Aside from God, the only other opinions I care about are my parents. They are the ones I don't want to disappoint. You say "don't try to justify the way your are," but for some that justification is the way to escape the depression. I know all things are possible with God, but are you saying I don't believe and that's why I haven't changed. I may not have been a perfect Christian, but one thing is for sure I have never doubted God's existence or that Jesus died for me. I have doubted myself though.
As the dominate spirit is in you, so are you. When the spirit is gone, you will not be able to say the above statement. Take hope in God, there is a way to get free. Though it is in,through, and by Jesus, it will do you no good for me to say this to you. Until you put action to the knowledge and understanding of how it is done through and by Jesus, you will remain the same.
Look I am not trying to be rude or anything, but everyone keeps telling me what you have said above. Granted, not the exact same way, but still the same. What am I doing in wrong? Why have I not changed?The only answer I can come to is God does not want me to change. I don't what that means. I'm not sure if it means being gay is okay, which I know 99.99% of the people here would disagree, or if it means I am suppose to go to Hell.
As for being hell bound, would you answer a question or two for me please?...After you read the scripture below.
Joh 1:12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:
Can this scripture, which is a promise of God, stand alone and still be the truth? Or, does it need a little help from other verses in the bible, such as the need to be baptized or to repent, in order for it to be the truth?
I think it can stand alone(if I'm understanding what you mean by stand alone) depending on who is reading, who it is being read to, and/or who is asking how it stands. Although when talking with someone in Christ or out of Christ it never hurts to have additional Scripture to further explain. As for it being truth, the whole Bible is truth.
Is this scripture enough for one to become a child of God, or is it a half or partial truth from God, who cannot lie? If you cannot become a child of God after acting on this scripture, then it is a lie?
First, I already said the whole Bible is truth so it cannot be half truth unless you deliberately leave something out. In which case it is on you and not God. Believing is only part of being a child of God. One has to act the part too, but what do you mean by child of God? Do you mean one who is saved or one who just believes?
Is deliverance from sins or bad habits a requirement or proof of one's salvation?
Proof? To whom do I need to prove I am saved? As for requirement I believe yes and maybe no. I believe we need to be saved from our sins and ourselves, but as I have already posed we are not truly free from temptation until death. As for no I have a question for you. Say someone lives there life as a Christian and asks for forgiveness daily. Now say they die one afternoon on there way back to work from lunch. Will they go to Hell if they had not yet asked for forgiveness for the lie they told there boss that morning about why they were late for work ?
Then what is the purpose of repentance from each specific sin? Why confess each sin by name?
The purpose of repentance from each sin is to be forgiven for all and not just one or two. You can't be truly forgiven unless you are forgiven for each wrong thing you have done. As for confessing each sin by name I am not sure why other than to own up to what you have done wrong.
It is a prerequisite for deliverance and healing, not salvation.
They have it wrong, the attraction is a sin, because it is coming from the heart.
Mat_5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
So wait, i'm confused. Attraction is a sin? I think you need to read the definitions of lust and attraction. They are all too often referred to as the same. Lust, in what we're talking about, means to have an intense sexual desire. Attraction on the other hand is something that appeals to ones interests and desires. Now clearly lust is born from attraction, but by itself to say attraction is to lust is ludicrous. Are you going to really tell me that if I see a guy at the mall that I think is hot, cute, or any other word I want to describe him as that I am lusting for him? That is simply not the case. It becomes lust if I want to have sex with him. How do you tell the difference between lust and love?
If it didn't come from the heart, it wouldn't be sin.
Every thing that comes from the heart can't be sin though.