Reasons I am not a good "christian" by CC standards

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Y'all need to calm down and leave the kitchen. Go cool off in the water trough in the barn yard. Whether YIG goes or stays is up to him. Shouldn't we support him either way instead of bickering like a bunch of whiny brats over who took whose coloring pencil or ball of playdough? lol
You obviously have no understanding of the importance of colored pencils or playdough!


(Well, you can have the playdough. Clay works better.)
 
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Who's this Felicia everyone keeps mentioning? Felicia Day? Yeah. She's pretty cool.
 
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p_rehbein, only God knows your motive for defending your sarcasm so vehemently by trying to humiliate others and hiding behind the cloak of "edifying the church." People are the church, p_rehbein. If you want to edify God's people, you need to be humble and honest about your own weakness of the flesh. So long as you contend that your flesh smells better than other people's flesh, you're in the flesh. Ask God for wisdom. He's faithful to give it. :)
I think I do get how Pr meant what he said.
You said,
Because we're all family, Tintin dear. :)

Seriously though, it boggles my mind how anyone could take YIG in a bad light. He was honest and forthright. He added so much to the threads and in so short a time. I mean, humorous sarcasm runs like a river thru-out the forums, doesn't it? And YIG is a master of tongue-in-cheek humor. His posts made me laugh so much! I don't understand why he in particular was discriminated against because of his satirical comments. I honestly don't. :(
So, he responded by telling you what it was about YIG that he didn't see as humorous. And how he didn't think it was a good thing given 1 John. So, yeah, he was responding to you, but by explaining about YIG.

He wasn't complaining about you.

(Kind of thought you two would work through this, but I don't think either one of you caught what the other one was saying.)
 
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Surprise! I am LostSheep, or at least I was before I left the last time. I guess coming back here just shows I am a "slow learner". That tracks though. I was married twice before I learned my lesson.
You're 39. You don't yet know if you really learned your lesson. If you're still not married at 70, I might believe that. lol
 
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You're 39. You don't yet know if you really learned your lesson. If you're still not married at 70, I might believe that. lol
As I've said in the past - if ever I get the notion to get involved in a relationship again, I am going to save myself the trouble, time and heartache and go find a gal I dislike and give her half of my stuff.
 
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Yahweh_is_gracious

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I bolded what you said that I'm responding to. Very few things under heaven or earth, but the one who made heaven and earth has done just that often enough.

As for waiting to hear from leadership on here? Assuming it hasn't happened yet, it never will. You met the site for all the good and bad about it. You're still here. Now what?
Now begin my nefarious plans to take over the world! MUWAHAHAHA. I need a real estate agent that can help me to secure a dormant volcano to make into my evil genius lair. I am also accepting applications for a henchman. You need only be able to fetch microwave burritos with efficiency and answer all of my inquiries to you with "yes, excellent one!"
 
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p_rehbein

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And, okay. You don't get the humor. As a woman who has been told I have to wear dresses to church, keep my house beautiful and my hubby "happy," become a wonderful cook, learn how to can and sew, submit to anyone of the male persuasion, shut up until talked to... (
), I really do get that sense of humor.


At least you understood most of what I have said on this thread, and I give you credit for that. However, to suggest that I "don't get" the humor, I object to. And do so respectfully.

The "manifesto" published in the OP was not humor. The individual assertions were an insult to the Godly, loving people here on CC, as well as the Owners and Admins of CC, and to the Church. The OP as a "whole," was a direct insult to the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and a "slap in the face' of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, as everything in that "manifesto" was directly against everything Christ taught in His Gospel.

Now, some say he wasn't being serious. I disagree. I think he said exactly what he meant, and exactly how he felt. I found no evidence of sarcastic wit, or tongue in cheek humor. I would certainly appreciate anyone here taking one or all of his assertions and pointing out the humor.

I do not find such statements that discredit the Gospel of Christ to be humorous, nor do I find such insulting assertions directed at pretty much the entire Church to simply be "biting humor."

And, reading through the comments that followed my first comment, what struck me was the hypocrisy being displayed. To reveal this hypocrisy, I decided to do EXACTLY what this person did. Post inflammatory, insulting comments, and disguise them behind a veil of "biting humor." All in all, given the comments I received, I'd say my experiment was a huge success.

He received numerous "glowing responses" telling him what a wonderful, loving, and masterful person he is, and begging him not to leave CC. He also revealed he had gone through all of this once before under another screen name, only to return and do it all over again. How many times are we going to have to put up with this kind of stuff?

I received..............well, folks can read for themselves what I received.

Same "biting humor." Same honest revelation by me of my thoughts and feelings as did he. Yet, two VERY DIFFERENT responses. I have to wonder why?

In order to appreciate humor, humor must be present. Belittling the Gospel of Christ, the Church in general, and the Godly, loving people I have met here on CC is not humor. Again, I would very much appreciate anyone going through the OP and pointing out this supposed "biting humor."


 

p_rehbein

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This is a funny development - let's make a mountain out of a molehill about my statement of "I don't love anything".

Okay.

Two choices available here:

1. Person does some Internet searching and discovers that a large percentage of people with Asperger's Syndrome have extreme difficulty with emotions, both in the categorization of them and in the verbalization or expression of them.

OR

2. Some long-term member goes on a witch hunt. Go get a rock and a duck, and let's all go down to the river and test me for witchcraft and BURN THE WITCH.

Choice #1 is what a rational person does. Choice #2 is more "fun". I get it.

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Well, given what "choice number one" suggests, it shouldn't be any surprise what "choice number two" is.

As well, "not loving" was ONLY ONE SMALL PART of the OP.

If you KNOW you suffer from such as you describe, why on earth do you post such comments as the OP, and THEN expect people to NOT be OFFENDED? You SHOULD KNOW better than anyone your "struggles," and you should know better than to post such stuff..........yet............you did............and now, oh my goodness, if ANYONE disagrees, well........they are just on a "witch hunt."

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p_rehbein

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p_rehbein, only God knows your motive for defending your sarcasm so vehemently by trying to humiliate others and hiding behind the cloak of "edifying the church." People are the church, p_rehbein. If you want to edify God's people, you need to be humble and honest about your own weakness of the flesh. So long as you contend that your flesh smells better than other people's flesh, you're in the flesh. Ask God for wisdom. He's faithful to give it. :)
this is sooooooooooo very funny..........my goodness.......HOW IS IT POSSIBLE you DID NOT post these REMARKS in RESPONSE to the OP?
 
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Yahweh_is_gracious

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Seems like you're making the choice to be offended and you're upset people don't see the situation through your lens. That's fine. Maybe if you say it loud enough and long enough people will come around to your way of thinking. You can do that, or just accept that you don't see this as others do and walk away. If you think I was taking a dig at all of Christianity and every person on CC, that is your right to think that. It's not going to affect my sleep if people think less of me based on their own perceptions or interpretations.
 
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I have to say I support yourself asserting your viewpoints YIG everyone is entitled to them. But I am confused about the "biting humor" part? I didn't laugh and take you for real serious in your posting so am I missing something? :)
 
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I have to say I support yourself asserting your viewpoints YIG everyone is entitled to them. But I am confused about the "biting humor" part? I didn't laugh and take you for real serious in your posting so am I missing something? :)
Maybe you are. If you've been around long enough or have lurked long enough to have read enough threads, you'll find there are certain topic areas that come up frequently that tend to get everyone worked into a frenzy. Whether it be tearing into some denomination of Christianity which a group determines to be a sect or heretical, or to justify homophobia through Bible verses pulled from Leviticus, or to argue minutae of doctrine ad naseum just to get arguments going, to wagging fingers at each other for not being a "good enough" Christian and then proceeding to tell each other how it "should be done".

To people who don't get into the fray of these conversations, they are something to behold. Funny, but in the same way it's funny to watch a guy get hit in the crotch with a golf club on America's Funniest Home Videos. For some people though, those kinds of conversations are just their bread and butter. To those people was the OP posted, and the people who found the humor in it are the ones who just spectate at the mud-fighting that goes on here at CC. I know, i know...iron sharpens iron (which it really doesn't, remind me to teach you about the Moh's Hardness Scale sometime).
 
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Maybe you are. If you've been around long enough or have lurked long enough to have read enough threads, you'll find there are certain topic areas that come up frequently that tend to get everyone worked into a frenzy. Whether it be tearing into some denomination of Christianity which a group determines to be a sect or heretical, or to justify homophobia through Bible verses pulled from Leviticus, or to argue minutae of doctrine ad naseum just to get arguments going, to wagging fingers at each other for not being a "good enough" Christian and then proceeding to tell each other how it "should be done".

To people who don't get into the fray of these conversations, they are something to behold. Funny, but in the same way it's funny to watch a guy get hit in the crotch with a golf club on America's Funniest Home Videos. For some people though, those kinds of conversations are just their bread and butter. To those people was the OP posted, and the people who found the humor in it are the ones who just spectate at the mud-fighting that goes on here at CC. I know, i know...iron sharpens iron (which it really doesn't, remind me to teach you about the Moh's Hardness Scale sometime).
The BDF I avoid like poison lol....
 

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1. I don't have hate for any group. In order to hate something, you first have to love it. I don't love anything. Therefore, I don't hate anything. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

2. I won't throw the Catholic Church in the trash. Sorry if that upsets you. Deal with it. I also won't condemn the Eastern Orthodox Church, the Mormon Church, the Jehovah's Witnesses, 7th-day Adventists or any other group many of you like to bag on.

3. I don't think less of homosexuals, drug-addicts, adulterers, or any other group you think I should look down my nose at. Sorry if it upsets you. Deal with it.

4. I don't throw Bible verses around. Never have, never will. If I want to know what the Bible says, I will read it. If I can make my own point without needing to resort to shoving Scripture in your face, then I will make my own point. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

5. I don't have an opinion about doctrines. Many of them, I have no opinion because I have never looked into them. Many of them, I have no opinion because I think they are silly things to bicker about and don't serve any useful purpose. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

6. I have no interest in playing the whole 'I am holier than thou art" game that goes on. Those kinds of games stopped being entertaining in 3rd grade back when farts and boogers were still funny. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

7. I'm not here to make friends. I don't do friendships. I'm here to learn, to read, and to occasionally interact with people on my terms. On the flip side, I am not here to make enemies. You are free to dislike me all you want, and it won't make any impact on me. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

8. I get no joy or thrill out of having to explain myself because people can't bother to read carefully and comprehend what they are reading. It's a battle I don't care to fight. I've fought enough in my life. School bullies, combat in the military, two ex-wives, bosses, clients, and now strangers on the Internet. No thanks. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

9. I feel no need to advertise my views just to invite criticism from people I don't know nor respect. My views are mine, and I am under no obligation to defend them to you or anyone else. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

10. My reasons for becoming a Christian are my own. What kind of Christian I am is no doubt vastly different than yours, and no doubt you are sure I am "doing it wrong". You are entitled to your opinion. Sorry if this upsets you. Deal with it.

I dont entirely know what it is that your upset about in this post here, but one of the most annoying and frustrating things in this world for me is having a strong stance for something = extreme hatred. As someone who deals with homosexuality, I dont believe any actual regularly active member on this site hates homosexuals. If someone believes that saying homosexuality is wrong is hateful towards those who actively live that life, then they must also share that view towards those who struggle with things like pornography.

I also dont believe its wrong to speak out against unbiblical teachings, for example, if a catholic is praying to Mary the mother of Jesus, I believe it is the right thing to point out that this is wrong, and share what the bible says. Once again, that is not hate.

And not using bible verses in a debate, thats a terrible thing to refuse to do : p If you are talking about the bible, you absolutely need to back it up with the bible. Personal feelings are not a valid argument : p

And you say you dont share your thoughts in order to invite criticism, well you just did that here, this entire post is just that : p

Also, for someone whos making the claim to be more loving, more accepting and all that, you have an incredibly judgmental tone in this post, as if you look down everyone here on CC and are rubbing it in their faces, putting others to shame because they want to do right by God. I do not see you as the kind and loving person youve made yourself out to be here.
 
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The BDF I avoid like poison lol....
Wise man. Penicillin can't kill the BDF and they don't make water hot enough to wash it off. It's a necessity though to have it, but boy do you ever have to be careful what you say and who you talk to there. I'm hopeful I can occasionally learn something there, but I have to make sure to don my Nomex fire suit before I go in there.
 
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I dont entirely know what it is that your upset about in this post here, but one of the most annoying and frustrating things in this world for me is having a strong stance for something = extreme hatred. As someone who deals with homosexuality, I dont believe any actual regularly active member on this site hates homosexuals. If someone believes that saying homosexuality is wrong is hateful towards those who actively live that life, then they must also share that view towards those who struggle with things like pornography.

I also dont believe its wrong to speak out against unbiblical teachings, for example, if a catholic is praying to Mary the mother of Jesus, I believe it is the right thing to point out that this is wrong, and share what the bible says. Once again, that is not hate.

And not using bible verses in a debate, thats a terrible thing to refuse to do : p If you are talking about the bible, you absolutely need to back it up with the bible. Personal feelings are not a valid argument : p

And you say you dont share your thoughts in order to invite criticism, well you just did that here, this entire post is just that : p

Also, for someone whos making the claim to be more loving, more accepting and all that, you have an incredibly judgmental tone in this post, as if you look down everyone here on CC and are rubbing it in their faces, putting others to shame because they want to do right by God. I do not see you as the kind and loving person youve made yourself out to be here.
I never made the claim to be more loving or kind. You inferred that. That's one of the big issues - people don't take words at face value and they read into them what they want to see. Yes, I rail against some of the membership here, but that does not mean I am saying I am not that. If I want to say something, I say it plainly. There's no need to infer something. Are people so afraid of speaking plainly that we all just go around trying to decipher each other's words instead of looking at them as they stand?

Me kind and loving? Not by a long shot.
 

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This thread is too stressful for me. Nothing is being accomplished in helping one side understand the other.

Each side is carping about the other side not understanding their own side and nobody is understanding what "I think" the point of the OP was, "If you don't like what I say, or who you think I am, deal with it. Don't make a big deal about it."

For the last 11 pages both sides have been making a big deal about not making a big deal about what they think the other side is saying.

I am just going to deal with it by unsubscribing to this thread. Deal with it. Don't tell me how un-CHristian I am because I don't agree with you. Isn't that what the OP was about?

If you disagree with me, deal with it. I don't care because I am going to deal with it by not reading or responding to what you say.