I dont disagree with you, but was it really that easy for you to be that clean instantly?....If you say it was then I will hold a altar call for liars to come down and get right with God....
There is no question that confession must take place and so must the realization that why they engage in is wrong and SIN, even that can take time and repentance[actual change] takes even more time.
Most of the homosexuals we have ministered to were ready to change and the Holy Ghost had been working on them longer than we ever had.
Christians seem to get selective amnesia with what they perceive confession and repentance really is all about.
We live in a culture today, that was never taught anything about SIN, and that is really the work of the Holy Ghost and not us. Once a person has been convicted[reproved, convinced] by the Holy Ghost, they are ready for the next step of confessing with their Mouth and believing in their Heart....