I have always considered myself to be an extrovert because I'm great with people, outgoing and friendly, and am completely comfortable making conversation with just about anyone. I recently came to understand that introverts can be great with people... it's just that being with people USES their energy, leaving them feeling tired, while extroverts FEED off of other peoples' energy.
I admit that I covet my "alone" time, and while I LOVE being around people, I do usually end a long visit feeling exhausted. I can't concentrate on anything when someone else is around. (Like in my office, trying to talk to me while I'm working.) Having company over is not a casual "come on over" sort of thing. I have to "prepare" for it, and then I focus on them the entire time, and don't relax until they are gone again. I've always felt very guilty about my need (selfishness) for quiet time to rest, but I'm slowly realizing that it's part of my personality. I tend to have bursts of social interaction and energy, followed by stretches of down-time.
Knowing that I'm introverted is actually my number one concern when thinking about getting remarried one day. Fear that I'll marry someone and then spend a lot of time feeling drained, wishing I had more time alone. I'm convinced I'll need to find another introvert, so we can both have our time alone as needed. LOL.
Are you an introvert, and how does that effect your view of marrying one day?
I admit that I covet my "alone" time, and while I LOVE being around people, I do usually end a long visit feeling exhausted. I can't concentrate on anything when someone else is around. (Like in my office, trying to talk to me while I'm working.) Having company over is not a casual "come on over" sort of thing. I have to "prepare" for it, and then I focus on them the entire time, and don't relax until they are gone again. I've always felt very guilty about my need (selfishness) for quiet time to rest, but I'm slowly realizing that it's part of my personality. I tend to have bursts of social interaction and energy, followed by stretches of down-time.
Knowing that I'm introverted is actually my number one concern when thinking about getting remarried one day. Fear that I'll marry someone and then spend a lot of time feeling drained, wishing I had more time alone. I'm convinced I'll need to find another introvert, so we can both have our time alone as needed. LOL.
Are you an introvert, and how does that effect your view of marrying one day?