With the
right woman -- absolutely nothing!
The only concern - "which scares me the most" - is or would be, "Do I have the right woman?"...
If I can get past that, then I am O.K.
LOL .
Commitment and lots or married women i know have dealt with spouse abuse that really scares me also having a bunch of hot guys wanting me after finding out that i am taken i will then be tempted
whether to not to remain faithful to my mate and that scares and depresses me because i don't like cheaters and i don't want to be come one eighter.
Good thoughts, light'sdarkangel, there will much darkness you will see in your teen years, and, IF you inside yourself, having talked to God, said you are going to do things a certain way, like I told God at 14 about age I was going to wait until marriage for intimatest relations a man and woman can have, you will do it because God HEARS your thoughts and prayers and wants to be loyal and committed to ONE guy when other 'hot' guys, as you said, are after you, and, you can bet, they will be. A RING (engagement or otherwise does NOT turn off some guys, in fact, it turns them on
So, pray to God and hmm, what was I saying before, did I complete my thought?
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Hmmm, my green brains, I'm telling ya, Christ peeps, you don't want 'em, you JUST don't want 'em
Awww, girl you're 14! You've got plenty of time to learn about yourself and God before you have to worry about marriage.
Yes, get an education, milady, let the Lord teach you much things, you never know, maybe you are the type of girl that gets married at 16 and just a wife raising a whole bunch of kids popped out of you. The Lord leads. But, I say get a 2-year community college degree, for sure, and, ,so you can fall back on a something IF guy ditches you AFTER you are hitched.
So, yes, take your thoughts to God of how you want to be AFTER you are engaged, tell God that you want to STAY pure until marriage, and, you will be surprised how effective that conviction you've made to yourself along with the Holy Spirit's Loving correction as you go along in life is for you
Be accountable with others, but, above all else, be accountable with God, keep Him on the drawstrings of your heart