I agree with that. Outside changes, but those who don't change the heart are vert difficult to approach and befriend. Some people think about things that occured 20 years ago, bringing condemnation in the place where Jesus sits at the foot of the bed in prayer for many years. Religious guys, I will pass on, they are more corrupt than those who need Jesus, as they are very proud, and arrogant, which is not in align with the word of God. A story of a guy who didn't want to go into this christian girls home and her family because of her past, and told her get rid of all your furniture, bed, and carpets, etc. she said, your not of a right mind in Christ. all these years I have prayed , to my savior, the guy was found out to have serious mental issues, and was homosexual, and was only a church goer and not born again believe. True story, it happened in a church. The girl was on disability due to her back, and he wanted her to throw the bed away, and sleep on a hard floor, this guy has no love, no respect, and no Jesus.