I have suffered every day for the last 33 years; I want to suffer for the Gospel even more.
If we suffer for the Gospel of Christ,and endure it that is good,but we should not want to intentionally suffer for the Gospel,and we do not have anything to prove but we will suffer for the Gospel if that is the case.
God may allow us to suffer for the sake of the Gospel,which would be coming from the world in persecution,but I am sure God would also want us to have a break from the persecution and have some peace and quiet.
If we have the attitude that if we suffer for the Gospel whatever people thinks that entails,we will endure it and move forward like a good soldier of Christ,then if we do not suffer but things are going great in our life we should count our self blessed for we are not trying to duck the suffering for the Gospel in the sense we will back off from our responsibility,so it is obvious that God wants things to go smooth in our life at the point in time.
You should count yourself blessed if you do not suffer,for you are not trying to avoid it by not living like you should,so obviously God wants you to have things smooth in your life,so do not go against God.
Act 28:30 And Paul dwelt two whole years in his own hired house, and received all that came in unto him,
Act 28:31 Preaching the kingdom of God, and teaching those things which concern the Lord Jesus Christ, with all confidence, no man forbidding him.
Paul suffered many things for the Gospel,which even Paul would of had plenty of time of peace and quiet without suffering,and for 2 years he dwelled in a house and preached the kingdom of God,and Jesus Christ,with all confidence,and no person forbid him,which appears to mean that he did not suffer any persecution,or suffering for those 2 years.
God might allow us to suffer for the Gospel,but He will also give us a break from it so we have peace and quiet for a time,and some more than others,and if you labor for the kingdom of God nothing wavering,and preach the Gospel of Christ with boldness,and do not back down from being how a Christian should be,then if you do not suffer it is obvious that God does not want you to suffer for He is not allowing it to happen.
If a person lives like they should nothing wavering,and they do not suffer,be happy,and we should not want to intentionally suffer,but we should have the attitude I will suffer if so be it.