I've noticed one thing in this conversation that the "anti-Calvinist" keep doing that I think is dead wrong, and something I don't see the "Calvinist" ever defend either, is that if God is sovereign in the way the word it defined, that this completely eliminates human choice in the time/space world we live in. Like if I believe in predestination *(that the bible CLEARLY teaches BTW) that means I never make a decision and God just puppets us all and throws some in the toy box and others in the fire. I don't know about you, but I know my God and I KNOW He's good, I have no clue why some are created for destruction, I even believe we can choose, but what I don't believe is that God cast anyone away that want Him, what the reality is behind how that works behind the scenes is above my pay grade, but I do know who gives me every breath.
So what's with this false idea the if God is sovereign that ='s we make no choices? I just don't think that follows in any real solid way.