I am assured of what the Word says, the character of God, and that He will keep His promises. God will not go outside of His Word. He is not like a capricious Greek god of myth that does whatever He pleases. He is bound to his Word. That is what I am assured.
You're new in the faith. Maybe several years down the road we could have a different conversation. You do not know what I have endured in my life, you know nothing about what I believe, you jump to conclusions and judgement if someone has a different view than your dogma. You have no grace or empathy for the lost. I think you need to begin looking inward and let God correct everyone else.And I'm trying to be gentle in what I am saying.
I have good news for you !! You can KNOW you are saved! You can be 110% sure!
Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.
Matthew says " But the one who endures to the end will be saved."
And this is the testimony, that God gave us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life.
Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
“If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus!!!!
For “everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”
The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God,
That is a small handful of verses that say we CAN know , we can be assured of our salvation. The old saints would say " you can know that you know" you are saved. And then you share that assurance with someone who is lost. The Holy Spirit does his work, drawing people to Christ. That person hears the Good News, the seed is planted and that is how a person becomes born again!
My friend you seem to be lacking love, joy, forgiveness and empathy. You have fallen into a false doctrine and you need to be set free. I hope as you go deeper into the Word that you will come out of the fog and understand how deep the Fathers mercy, love and grave actually is. I wish you the best. But grow in the Lord.