Ben, I think that when I confide a particular struggle with a brother I gain A: insight on how they deal with it. B: accountability, I know I'm not alone in this battle, and C: I gain extra prayer warriors for blessings of strength, healing and wisdom. I don't think we should list all of our sins like the sinners of the OT but I do believe we should be open and transparent with each other. If we are struggling with the same things we should talk about it and search the scripture for answers, if I am struggling with something you used to but don't anymore maybe there is a revelation or scripture you have that could help shed light on my plight.