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Gardina

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Hi..
This is Divya... I'm so depressed.. Dunno what to do.. I'm in love with a guy... We both in love.. his ex girlfriend sent with other guy by buying him a lot with a lie reason on him.. i made him to come out of depression and from do sad. Suddenly his ex girlfriend came to him and she states that she'll die if he didn't accept her love... He couldn't accept her. But she's not leaving him.. he couldn't neither accept me nor his ex girlfriend now... he's scared.. he's feeling sorry to me ...i Dunno what to do..i Need him... I can't live without him coz he's the one who fully cared and understood me well... But still having faith that he ll come back to me and didn't want him to go back to his ex girlfriend... I'm praying hard
 

tourist

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My advice is to dump the guy as he is obviously not that interested in you and is not emotionally stable enough to be in a long-term relationship. You need closure so that you can move forward with your life. Only then may, with the help of God will the depression lift. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 
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SweetmorningDew78

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Give him space to think about the situation he is in...and just relax :) Pray harder but this time ask the Lord to reveal to you if this relationship is His will for you and trust God even if the answer is not the one you want...


I'll pray for you sis...


God bless you and welcome to CC Divya ❤
 
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heartofdavid

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Get involved with singles at different churches.

Put about a million miles between you and him.

In a few weeks your smile and heart will return. The guy is messed up. Look for loyalty. Hard to find,but not impossible.
 
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heartofdavid

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Actually you are blessed. What if she "poped up" 3 years into your marriage?

Yyyooooooooo
 

Gardina

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I will .. I'm still waiting for him... Hoping that he'll come fully to me without bothering about her... Coz he's a careable guy... He'll never leave anyone who has affection on him or if he shows towards on someone. He doesn't want her to die. If she does not come back nor is she doesn't threatened him after coming back to him that she ll die he ll b with me completely. He couldn't b with me if she dies coz it will kill himself life long
 

Hizikyah

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Seek Yah and His will for you. No matter if it is painful or whatever, Yah lives forever, humans wilt like the grass.

But seek first the reign of Yah, and His righteousness, and all these shall be added to you.

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of Yah lives forever.

 

loveme1

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I feel your pain my dear.. give it time and see what he decides. Though my advice would be to give your Love to GOD first and foremost and you will love others as yourself. Your heart will be guarded by Heavenly Father through Faith in His Son. To have un dying love for this or any man will lead to heart break. Be Faithful to GOD and that void you had will be filled and you will be content and at peace.

i know it may seem hard but GOD through my life taught me this Truth.. and it is a Blessing.
 

mcubed

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Love should never be that hard. He either wants you and you only or not. If not he is worthless as a mate. You are a child of the King and every princess deserves to be treated like one. If he has to choose he is a piece of dog crap!!!! And the same for a man; he is his Daddy's (G-d) son Any woman that treat him that way is a piece of dog crap too and should be left, shaking the dust off their feet. We are women and men of the Most High G-d not people of sloppy seconds!!!