But if they don't scream loud enough, or no one hears, they should both be killed:
23 If a man happens to meet in a town a virgin pledged to be married and he sleeps with her,24 you shall take both of them to the gate of that town and stone them to death—the young woman because she was in a town and did not scream for help, and the man because he violated another man’s wife. You must purge the evil from among you."
Deuteronomy 22:23-24 (KJV)
[SUP]23 [/SUP]If a damsel that is a virgin be betrothed unto an husband, and a man find her in the city, and lie with her;
[SUP]24 [/SUP]Then ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbour's wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you.
It is clear that the woman wanted sex with the wrong man. He has defiled another mans promise of marriage, and that is not loving your brother as yourself as the law says.
And if a woman isn't a virgin when she's married, she should also be killed. . .preferably in front of her parents:
20 If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found,21 she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death.
Deuteronomy 22:20-21 (KJV)
[SUP]20 [/SUP]But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:
[SUP]21 [/SUP]Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
This was dishonoring her parents because she lied saying she was a virgin when she had lost her virginity previously. This is breaking another law that says to honor your father and mother.
Also, if the woman isn't engaged she has to marry her rapist:
28 If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered,29 he shall pay her father fifty shekels[c] of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29 (KJV)
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28 [/SUP]If a man find a damsel
that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
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29 [/SUP]Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty
shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
This is to hold the man accountable. He will either hold true to his wife, or if he keeps the attitude of being a rapist, he will rape another woman sooner or later, and when found out, he would then be killed. The law was made to stop these types of people from continuing in sin. That is the love of God in action.
You're right tho. That's why it says to get the plank out if your own eye.
Yet it doesn't say not to use discernment. I never would have come back to Christ had someone not used judgement and told me I needed Him. That I obviously wasn't doing too well without him.
responding to Elizabeth619 That’s good to hear. Absolutely…. That sexually immoral man in that scripture that Paul told them to cast out was later restored. He was restored because he repented after they reproved him because of his conduct. If they had sustained the attitude that they had and felt it was not their place to judge him he would have continued in his sin which would have led to his destruction. So it is clear that within the assembly believers are to judge on serious matters (sexual immorality is a serious matter and not about food and drink) and only if they do not have a plank in their own eye. But a practicing sexually immoral believer who does not want to repent after being thoroughly reproved should no longer be judged because now he’s under God’s judgement on the heathen.
1 Peter 4:17 (KJV)
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17 [/SUP]For the time
is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if
it first
begin at us, what shall the end
be of them that obey not the gospel of God?
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Elizabeth619 and Rockbysea.. I commend you both for your insight! Good show!