I did beloved, and He has answered. The ONLY way to understand this is with the mind of Christ, who came not to destroy mens lives but to SAVE them. WE ALL KNOW SOMEONE IN OUR LIVES WHO DIED THAT IN OUR MINDS, "DIDN'T MAKE THE CUT"!. To say anything otherwise would only make you a liar. And for those still under this form of delusion, and holding firm that many will die forever is a hypocrite.
God chose and loved Jacob over and hated Esau BEFORE the children were born, SUBJECTED to vanity AGAINST THEIR WILLS as GOD Chose again BOTH BEFORE THEY WERE BORN, HAVING DONE NEITHER GOOD NOR EVIL so that the PURPOSE of ELECTION may stand!
As surely as Jacob has done evil in the sight of the Lord, Esau has done good.
Genesis 33:1-11
33 And Jacob lifted up his eyes, and looked, and, behold, Esau came, and with him four hundred men. And he divided the children unto Leah, and unto Rachel, and unto the two handmaids.
2 And he put the handmaids and their children foremost, and Leah and her children after, and Rachel and Joseph hindermost.
3 And he passed over before them, and bowed himself to the ground seven times, until he came near to his brother.
4 And Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck, and kissed him: and they wept.
5 And he lifted up his eyes, and saw the women and the children; and said, Who are those with thee? And he said, The children which God hath graciously given thy servant.
6 Then the handmaidens came near, they and their children, and they bowed themselves.
7 And Leah also with her children came near, and bowed themselves: and after came Joseph near and Rachel, and they bowed themselves.
8 And he said, What meanest thou by all this drove which I met? And he said, These are to find grace in the sight of my lord.
9 And Esau said, I have enough, my brother; keep that thou hast unto thyself.
10 And Jacob said, Nay, I pray thee, if now I have found grace in thy sight, then receive my present at my hand: for therefore I have seen thy face, as though I had seen the face of God, and thou wast pleased with me.
11 Take, I pray thee, my blessing that is brought to thee; because God hath dealt graciously with me, and because I have enough. And he urged him, and he took it.