God hating you before you're born?

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Marano

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Yes,everyone who does not believe on the Lord will be lost. Yes,they will go to hell because of their CHOICE. Not because God denied them the choice. That is where you are wrong. And the Bible does not support reformed theology,at least not this part.
Reformed theology doesn't deny the responsability of the sinner, far from it, let every man be a liar and God truthful, and again all of the reformed position is based on scripture.
 
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Christ died for all of mankind if you believe in something otherwise you are not following the biblical scriptures.
Who Christ died for is who he redeems, right? (You might disagree with this, so I'll go the other direction, if you do. But, for now, I'm going with you agree with that for this post.)

Redeemed. We still redeem today. We usually think of coupons when we use that word, but they're only $.50 off. What Jesus gave us was 100% off.

Another thing we use that is a redemption note is bills/American paper money. If you look at the top of an American bill, it's a promissory note from the US government. Money is a redemption note.

Would you buy ten of (whatever you would buy ten of. I'm personally thinking chocolate bars, but I have a thing about chocolate) anything and then only get one? Because if you're buying ten, you expect to get ten, right?

In like kind, you say Jesus redeemed the whole world. In 2017, that's over 7.2 billion people. That's not counting every person born and died before 2017. That's just for right about now. There's a whole lot more "the world," when we consider the number of people ever conceived.

And yet, if Jesus did that, why doesn't he collect on what he bought/redeemed? Why is he only taking a portion, (which at times was just a remnant), if he truly died for the whole world?

AND, if you don't think he redeemed the whole world, then how do you reconcile that he truly isn't saving every single person ever conceived?
 
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Peace to you sister. I know in your OP you honestly are seeking an answer to the Predestination vs. freewill choice question.

I have struggled with this many times, and the answer from the Lord is always the same "My Grace is sufficient for you".

God's ways are not our ways, and our mortal minds cannot grasp His ways. Scripture is conveying to us concepts that we must just trust God with.

Proverbs 3:5-6New King James Version (NKJV)

5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct[a] your paths.

This question has caused much strife in the body not only on this site, but throughout history.
Preaching His Gospel, showing His Son shine out with love to others through us, and prayer is what we are called to do.

Dear Holy Father, let Your Peace reign in our hearts and minds. Let us remember that we are brothers and sisters in You, and that for all eternity we will be with each other and you. Use us for Your Glory and our good. In Jesus sweet Name I pray.


Thank you... Amen and Amen and may we always remember we are all brothers and sisters and if there are truly baddies out there are the atheists and new agers!!!! :D :D :D (just a little joke here lol)

These open theists too, though. They look like baddies too. Brrrr!! :S
 

ForthAngel

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People, you have to ask yourselves, which theology glorifies God, and which theology elevates man. It's pretty obvious which one gives the most trust and glory to God.
 

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People, you have to ask yourselves, which theology glorifies God, and which theology elevates man. It's pretty obvious which one gives the most trust and glory to God.
Absolutely, it's all for His glory, by His grace, and we are only the vessels of His mercy.
 
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People have a choice. Just because Christ died for all doesn't mean everyone is saved. God wont force people to accept him. The father provided us a way to be saved through his son. What you are basically saying is some people are predestined to Hell which contradicts scripture when God said "Whosoever" calls on the name of the lord shall be saved. God desires for "No One" to perish but "All" should reach repentance.
I completely agree with you on people have a choice. Jesus told what our choice is. He even tells us that right after "shosoever will believe."
John 3:[FONT=&quot]19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil.[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][FONT=&quot]20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.[/FONT][FONT=&quot] [/FONT]

Now what? We chose darkness. End of choice, because that's all we ever chose?

Nope, that's covered too, in the very next verse, which God "carried out":
John 3:21 [FONT=&quot]But whoever [/FONT][FONT=&quot][/FONT][FONT=&quot]does what is true [/FONT][FONT=&quot][/FONT][FONT=&quot]comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”[/FONT]

 
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if you are seeking the Lord, be assured it's because He sought you first.

if you have love for God, it's because He loved you first.

the rest you can come to learn in time, but to allay fear and worry, please know God is a rewarder of those who seek Him.

Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
Thank you :) And I am sure He lead me to this place absolutely no doubt about it. I am learning so much in a single day it's crazy :) Many many many Blessings and Love
 
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People, you have to ask yourselves, which theology glorifies God, and which theology elevates man. It's pretty obvious which one gives the most trust and glory to God.
Humm, do nothing because we are already selected, and "they" aren't.... or declare God before all men, telling them the kingdom is also for them. That's a no-brainer of a choice.
 

ForthAngel

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Humm, do nothing because we are already selected, and "they" aren't.... or declare God before all men, telling them the kingdom is also for them. That's a no-brainer of a choice.
Blatant misrepresentation of reformed theology. Expected nothing less from you though.
 

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Humm, do nothing because we are already selected, and "they" aren't.... or declare God before all men, telling them the kingdom is also for them. That's a no-brainer of a choice.
Once again we don't know who the elect are, we are to present the gospel to all people, God knows His elect and will save them, not us.
 
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Honestly? You remember John 3:16, just find, yet totally ignore what goes before it AND after it. The after it is where God says he "wrought" (if you're into KJV, "carried out" if you're into ESV.) And that is after Jesus tells what "the world" does to his love. THAT you deny!


Lynn,please slow down.Im not your enemy and Im not denying anything. Im pointing out what Scripture says.And throughout Scripture it shows that God has given us a choice.The Bible says "CHOOSE you this day who you will serve" and "I set before you life and death,CHOOSE life"


John 3


There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews:
2 The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him.
3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit.
9 Nicodemus answered and said unto him, How can these things be?
10 Jesus answered and said unto him, Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things?
11 Verily, verily, I say unto thee, We speak that we do know, and testify that we have seen; and ye receive not our witness.
12 If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you of heavenly things?
13 And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, even the Son of man which is in heaven.
14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up:
15 That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life.
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
22 After these things came Jesus and his disciples into the land of Judaea; and there he tarried with them, and baptized.
23 And John also was baptizing in Aenon near to Salim, because there was much water there: and they came, and were baptized.
24 For John was not yet cast into prison.
25 Then there arose a question between some of John's disciples and the Jews about purifying.
26 And they came unto John, and said unto him, Rabbi, he that was with thee beyond Jordan, to whom thou barest witness, behold, the same baptizeth, and all men come to him.
27 John answered and said, A man can receive nothing, except it be given him from heaven.
28 Ye yourselves bear me witness, that I said, I am not the Christ, but that I am sent before him.
29 He that hath the bride is the bridegroom: but the friend of the bridegroom, which standeth and heareth him, rejoiceth greatly because of the bridegroom's voice: this my joy therefore is fulfilled.
30 He must increase, but I must decrease.
31 He that cometh from above is above all: he that is of the earth is earthly, and speaketh of the earth: he that cometh from heaven is above all.
32 And what he hath seen and heard, that he testifieth; and no man receiveth his testimony.
33 He that hath received his testimony hath set to his seal that God is true.
34 For he whom God hath sent speaketh the words of God: for God giveth not the Spirit by measure unto him.
35 The Father loveth the Son, and hath given all things into his hand.
36He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him.




Nothing denied or lied about.The whole chapter is there.
 

Magenta

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Blatant misrepresentation of reformed theology. Expected nothing less from you though.
There are those who say it is all of God and none of us, as if we do not have a choice nor a role to play in choosing Him and repenting; they will say everything that man does is God's will. In fact, their stance makes God a monster who orchestrates every evil ever perpetrated by one upon another, so...
 
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child ♥

if you are seeking the Lord, be assured it's because He sought you first.

if you have love for God, it's because He loved you first.

the rest you can come to learn in time, but to allay fear and worry, please know God is a rewarder of those who seek Him.Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
Wait a minute. We are to seek Him? So, anyone who seeks Him will be saved? I thought you said there were those other poor slobs (not us, of course) who were born to burn?

So, they just THINK God is calling them?
 

ForthAngel

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There are those who say it is all of God and none of us, as if we do not have a choice nor a role to play in choosing Him and repenting; they will say everything that man does is God's will. In fact, their stance makes God a monster who orchestrates every evil ever perpetrated by one upon another, so...
Again, let me ask you the same question. God knew all things from eternity past correct? He knew billions would reject him (freely) and some would choose him (freely according to some), but he created everything anyway. How is this view any more superior to reformed theology that teaches God is the focus of the glory and does not elevate man?
 

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There are those who say it is all of God and none of us, as if we do not have a choice nor a role to play in choosing Him and repenting; they will say everything that man does is God's will. In fact, their stance makes God a monster who orchestrates every evil ever perpetrated by one upon another, so...

Never mind. I get you. I misunderstood. Yeah that is fatalism. If people would read my original post on the thread though, I rejected this view from the beginning. I've been misrepresented this entire time.
 

Magenta

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Again, let me ask you the same question. God knew all things from eternity past correct? He knew billions would reject him (freely) and some would choose him (freely according to some), but he created everything anyway. How is this view any more superior to reformed theology that teaches God is the focus of the glory and does not elevate man?
That God is omniscient, does not affect the fact that we have a choice, does it? I just don't see the relevance. There are those who claim we do not have a choice, that is all. They claim to be reformed.
 
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Reformed theology doesn't deny the responsability of the sinner, far from it, let every man be a liar and God truthful, and again all of the reformed position is based on scripture.

You can base any theology on Scripture and make it say anything you want.You must take the whole of Scripture. And the Bible makes clear we have a choice. If not there was not reason for Christ,there is no reason for any of us being here.Keep the elect in heaven and leave it at that. Why would create people just to destroy,giving them no hope or chance of being saved.No,that makes God a monster.We have the choice. Some accept and some reject.
 
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Once again we don't know who the elect are, we are to present the gospel to all people, God knows His elect and will save them, not us.
So your one of those people who believe only the elect will be saved.
 

Magenta

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Never mind. I get you. I misunderstood. Yeah that is fatalism. If people would read my original post on the thread though, I rejected this view from the beginning. I've been misrepresented this entire time.
Thank you :) I have not read the whole thread :D I just jumped in :) Please excuse me for doing so, I just love you so much I wanted to say hello :D