Ok, just back all that up with scripture please.
Indwelling is what occurs when the Spirit places one into the body of Christ...
1 Corinthians 12:13. It is a judicial placement and is nonexperiential.
The baptism with the Spirit is what
Matthew 3:11 says Jesus will do. It is referred to as the promise of the Father in
Luke 24:49 and
Acts 1:4-5. This is also what was prophesied in Joel 2 and confirmed by Peter in Acts 2. It is very experiential and noticeable to all but misidentified by some the day of Pentecost. Its purpose is not judicial, but to seal and endue with power, and you find this occurring throughout the book of Acts.
Being filled with the Spirit is something all believers are commanded to do...Ephesians 5:18. It is contrasted with being filled with wine or being under the influence of it. Hence, being filled with the Spirit is to be under His control.