Another thing on martyrdom and persecution...
Php 1:29 For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in him but also suffer for his sake,
Rev 2:10 Do not fear what you are about to suffer. Behold, the devil is about to throw some of you into prison, that you may be tested, and for ten days you will have tribulation. Be faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life.
Martyrdom is not random. God himself appoints his martyrs, and allows them through his grace to die for him. However, those not living by grace through faith, how shall they have the courage to withstand if they don't have anything? I agree with both you guys.