Just like the title says. It seems like we have a tendency to throw it at people who just simply need grace from us.
I wish there was a "duck under a chair" icon, cuz I would have put it at the end of this post.
I wish there was a "duck under a chair" icon, cuz I would have put it at the end of this post.
But in all seriousness... yes, we sometimes do this. It's like if someone asks you, "Why did God let my baby die?" You don't try to give them some sort of intellectual response to the problem of evil and suffering in the world as a result of sin or quote Bible verses at them. They need love and compassion. Maybe they just need a shoulder to cry on. We do need to learn to discern when someone is hurting and just needs compassion and when they need biblical instruction/advice. People won't even be willing to receive anything from you if you are stone cold. In fact, you may push them further away.
I think this is a quality that all Christians must work on daily...discerning how to react to a situation that is...and how to be a light in that person's life.
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