Leadership or Manipulation?

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3angels

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I do not know of anyone in this forum that has been manipulated into anything that I know of( maybe it happened but I have not seen it), like all forums I have found a lot of manipulation of scripture. It would be pretty hard to manipulate someone here because we just message each other. I have seen a lot of manipulation in churches and TV ministries. This one is probably not that serious, but the Pastor of the church I use to go to at offering time would tell people to disregard the amount of money they had planned to give and ask God what He wanted them to give. I felt like telling him that I intended to give one hundred dollars but God told me to give fifty.
Amen. I totally agree. I was caught in the word of faith movement (prosperity gospel)

I was giving a monthly offering to them, but when you are sincere and you thinking you doing God's will, God will expose the enemy. God truely is faith, he leadeth me as the hymn says.

God bless
 
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Pastor was a nice guy, I am sure he meant it. However God rarely speaks and tells us how much to give, we can find that in the bible. And of course most folks might start to feel as if they were not giving enough and add some to their offering, so I think there was a little manipulation there also.
Of course there probably was some hopeful manipulation that he might finally find enough to live on in the plate.. So what?

Did you read anything I posted about that?

A friend of mine often says, about almost anything and everything............
"Some do... some don't.... so what?" "Some will... some won't... so what?"
 
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Amen. I totally agree. I was caught in the word of faith movement (prosperity gospel)

I was giving a monthly offering to them, but when you are sincere and you thinking you doing God's will, God will expose the enemy. God truely is faith, he leadeth me as the hymn says.

God bless
Yes. He sometimes hands us a mirror.
 

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Romans 15:1 ¶ We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.
2 Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.
3 For even Christ pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell on me.
4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
5 ¶ Now the God of patience and consolation grant you to be likeminded one toward another according to Christ Jesus:
6 That ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
7 ¶ Wherefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 
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3angels

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I cannot praise and honor our heavenly Father.
Many times had people manipulated me, be it family, friends, colleagues or fellow church members.

God was always given me scripture to encourage me. When people abuse or misuse our goodness God will repay us double for the trouble. We need not to be so concern when people manipulate us. God will fight on our behalf.
 
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People that try to "lord it over your faith" are performing spiritual witchcraft on others which is really just a work of the flesh. Those that try to insult you and call others names and de-mean them because they have a different belief in a subject - are also classic manipulators.

I agree about manipulation. It is called a work of the flesh. It is spiritual witchcraft and it is a work of the flesh.

The family of words from which we get our English word [FONT="Gentium" !important]pharmacy[/FONT] is derived from the Greek word [FONT="Gentium" !important]pharmakeuō[/FONT] which means “to mix potions or poison.” The term also refers to the practice of magic. Thus [FONT="Gentium" !important]pharmakeia[/FONT] (also spelled [FONT="Gentium" !important]pharmakia[/FONT]) refers to the practice of the arts associated with magic, which in the time of the New Testament involved the use of potions or drugs

Complete Biblical Library Greek-English Dictionary, The - The Complete Biblical Library Greek-English Dictionary – Sigma-Omega.

In it's essence "it is the mixing of things together to get a desired result". This is where we get the word for pharmaceuticals which is the mixing of substances to effect a desired change in the body.
 
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3angels

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Romans 15:1 ¶ We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.
2 Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.
3 For even Christ pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell on me.
4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
5 ¶ Now the God of patience and consolation grant you to be likeminded one toward another according to Christ Jesus:
6 That ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
7 ¶ Wherefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
Amen. I love that passage. God gave me that scripture few times in the year. I would to love have more of the character of Christ in my life.
 
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I think the lesson for us is not to be manipulative just because others are.

We are told most often, to keep an eye on ourselves. That is not a command to constantly judge, instead, how others act.
Sure, be aware...... but that's it. Don't judge them, just be wary around them.

We don't gain points with Jesus by saying, "Ah-Ha!!!! Caught you! You're not acting right! I'm gonna run and tell everyone about you!" concerning others, and pointing fingers at them.
Exposing manipulation is scriptural.

Ephesians 5:11

New International Version
Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.
New Living Translation
Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, expose them.
English Standard Version
Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.

Berean Study Bible
Have no fellowship with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.

Berean Literal Bible
And do not have fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even expose
them.

New American Standard Bible
Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;

Imagine how bad it would be if false teachers weren't exposed..... It's known today as the Falling Away.

All thru the OT, there were prophets that exposed sin & the leaders that were doing it.

Now nobody wants to get involved.


 
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Of course there probably was some hopeful manipulation that he might finally find enough to live on in the plate.. So what?

Did you read anything I posted about that?

A friend of mine often says, about almost anything and everything............
"Some do... some don't.... so what?" "Some will... some won't... so what?"
It's been my personal experience in my own denomination I was in(I left), those that did this in offerings didn't need it, or was taking an offering for a guest speaker, & didn't want to be embarrassed. Either way it was manipulation, and for wrong reasons.
 
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People that try to "lord it over your faith" are performing spiritual witchcraft on others which is really just a work of the flesh. Those that try to insult you and call others names and de-mean them because they have a different belief in a subject - are also classic manipulators.
I totally agree. I hear so much blaming others about being malicious, hating, calling other folks "legalists", & telling others such folks aren't going to heaven & doing antichrist work.

Being an "always right" answer man to the folks on CC & saying such things above is manipulation at its finest.
 
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I totally agree. I hear so much blaming others about being malicious, hating, calling other folks "legalists", & telling others such folks aren't going to heaven & doing antichrist work.

Being an "always right" answer man to the folks on CC & saying such things above is manipulation at its finest.
It is a manipulative trick to say people are slandering and insulting others, and how sinful
this behaviour is, aiming this invictive at innocents who are just expressing their faith,
then saying they are evil worse than the most heinous sin possible, which is a 100%
a slander and a curse all wrapped up in one post.

It is agression claiming a defense against someone who does not see one as an enemy,
making them a sinful enemy with a false accusations and then condemning them to judgement
and damnation. And to top it off declare you refuse to talk with people such as these because
they are not worthy of being regarded as in the body of Christ, and contaminate or what is the
word, defile, with their postings.

The venom such postings have buried within them, if taken seriously is probably the worst
I have come across. If this was someone of real standing or spiritual insight I might take it
to heart, but this is so corrosive, it comes from someone who seriously wants attention,
and feels justified to condemn innocents to hell.

I pray for people like this, and wonder at how such a tactic sees the light of day if
love truly dwelt in their hearts. What is so odd is the slander and insults are never specified,
so they cannot be put right, but then again if they never existed, that would be impossible :(

It is a sin to bear false witness against anyone, but this passes these people by, as sin is
not a problem, so one more sin to chalk up that Jesus has already forgiven before it was
commited, so why not get a whole bunch in, while you are about it.
 
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Exposing manipulation is scriptural.

Ephesians 5:11

New International Version
Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.
New Living Translation
Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, expose them.
English Standard Version
Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.

Berean Study Bible
Have no fellowship with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.

Berean Literal Bible
And do not have fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even expose
them.

New American Standard Bible
Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;

Imagine how bad it would be if false teachers weren't exposed..... It's known today as the Falling Away.

All thru the OT, there were prophets that exposed sin & the leaders that were doing it.

Now nobody wants to get involved.


Everything you quoted said to expose "deeds." (works) To whom? I would say to the one doing them. Such as explaining to Catholics why some of their rituals are bogus.

But you have substituted the word, "people" for the word that was consistently used, "deeds" (works). So, this would not be helping worshipers see that acts they are performing are wrong, but instead, it is going after specific people, trying to discredit them because they also thought the things they are doing and teaching are correct.
 
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sevenseas

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well I'll leave you to it then

enjoy your infighting
 
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sevenseas

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The sky is still blue....:)
seems some would like it to rain down lighting

maybe the Bible forum should be renamed The Holy Wars forum with certain nights set aside for those who like to get down and dirty

it could be like an event on TV that you have to pay extra for. might help to fund the site.
 
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sevenseas

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I totally agree. I hear so much blaming others about being malicious, hating, calling other folks "legalists", & telling others such folks aren't going to heaven & doing antichrist work.

Being an "always right" answer man to the folks on CC & saying such things above is manipulation at its finest.

has someone here really hurt you or something?

you sound so angry whenever I see one of your posts

it's ok. no one here can send you to hell so no need to be that way
 
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I have been in and out of forums for years, I have yet to see anyone manipulated into believing anything. Most folks have their minds made up and would not change even if the Lord Himself incognito pointed out to them the error of their belief. I have been proclaiming the false pre-trib gathering since 1985 and I could count on the fingers of one hand the people who honestly checked the scriptures to see if what I had said was true. Now if this is about manipulation in churches and TV Ministries, I have seen plenty of it. I was invited to an Oral Roberts meeting one time, I realized later that I was invited because I had sent him a lot of money(a lot to me anyway), they obviously thought I was wealthy so I was invited in order to get some more money out of me. At the time I thought all Christian ministries were totally good, so it was not until later that I realized the truth. Anyway, we are in this meeting of several thousand and Richard stands up and says, the Lord just told me that there is someone here who needs to give 24,000$(that would be like 100,000 today). A long silence and then a lady stood up and gave the money. At the time I felt so embarrassed, I had taken out all of my savings and given it to them because I thought I was doing God's will, and I realized I was not their for spiritual reasons but to get more money out of me, by then I was almost broke...at least it was a learning experience.
 
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I have been in and out of forums for years, I have yet to see anyone manipulated into believing anything. Most folks have their minds made up and would not change even if the Lord Himself incognito pointed out to them the error of their belief. I have been proclaiming the false pre-trib gathering since 1985 and I could count on the fingers of one hand the people who honestly checked the scriptures to see if what I had said was true. Now if this is about manipulation in churches and TV Ministries, I have seen plenty of it. I was invited to an Oral Roberts meeting one time, I realized later that I was invited because I had sent him a lot of money(a lot to me anyway), they obviously thought I was wealthy so I was invited in order to get some more money out of me. At the time I thought all Christian ministries were totally good, so it was not until later that I realized the truth. Anyway, we are in this meeting of several thousand and Richard stands up and says, the Lord just told me that there is someone here who needs to give 24,000$(that would be like 100,000 today). A long silence and then a lady stood up and gave the money. At the time I felt so embarrassed, I had taken out all of my savings and given it to them because I thought I was doing God's will, and I realized I was not their for spiritual reasons but to get more money out of me, by then I was almost broke...at least it was a learning experience.
The sad thing is the groups who are best at getting money out of their people,
are the ones who create the TV networks and slick operations to continue the money train.
Rather than the money going to the poor it buys these guys massive life styles tax free,
which is unusual for most pastors find it hard to keep thing together.

From the enemies perspective by making these guys superstars they curse the church with
the false advertising it is about influence and power, not love and service.
And you know who loves influence and power, because no one would buy his story without it?
 
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sevenseas

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I have been in and out of forums for years, I have yet to see anyone manipulated into believing anything. Most folks have their minds made up and would not change even if the Lord Himself incognito pointed out to them the error of their belief. I have been proclaiming the false pre-trib gathering since 1985 and I could count on the fingers of one hand the people who honestly checked the scriptures to see if what I had said was true. Now if this is about manipulation in churches and TV Ministries, I have seen plenty of it. I was invited to an Oral Roberts meeting one time, I realized later that I was invited because I had sent him a lot of money(a lot to me anyway), they obviously thought I was wealthy so I was invited in order to get some more money out of me. At the time I thought all Christian ministries were totally good, so it was not until later that I realized the truth. Anyway, we are in this meeting of several thousand and Richard stands up and says, the Lord just told me that there is someone here who needs to give 24,000$(that would be like 100,000 today). A long silence and then a lady stood up and gave the money. At the time I felt so embarrassed, I had taken out all of my savings and given it to them because I thought I was doing God's will, and I realized I was not their for spiritual reasons but to get more money out of me, by then I was almost broke...at least it was a learning experience.


oh come on Samuel

do you actually think I started this thread for these forums?

sure I have come across examples of attempts at manipulation through anger, twisting the Bible, even threats

but I did not start it to specifically talk about forum behavior

do you live outside the forums?

you keep going back to the forums. let's move on if there is any hope for this discussion which I am doubtful there is

far more serious than the deflection to money matters, which seem to be occupying the majority of what you consider to be manipulation, is the use of the Bible as the hand of God through a manipulative human
 
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sevenseas

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The sad thing is the groups who are best at getting money out of their people,
are the ones who create the TV networks and slick operations to continue the money train.
Rather than the money going to the poor it buys these guys massive life styles tax free,
which is unusual for most pastors find it hard to keep thing together.

From the enemies perspective by making these guys superstars they curse the church with
the false advertising it is about influence and power, not love and service.
And you know who loves influence and power, because no one would buy his story without it?
Peter ~ every forum I have ever been on has threads on tv evangelists and there give me money schemes so God will bless you

I would really be more interested in discussing the less obvious

if not well, it was a waste of a thread in my opinion. just going in circles is not much of a discussion