This topic really hits home for me. On September 4th 2013 I lost my 17 year old cousin Nick to suicide. Why? Because he was gay and nobody could accept him for who he was. He was ridiculed at every family function and treated like an out cast which is funny to me because we have a gay aunt who frequents said functions with her girl friend.
I know the bible says it's wrong but the bible also says to love one another. My take on this massively relates to the experience with my cousin. Simply put - To each his own. I do not think it's right to shun someone to make them an outcast simply because we believe it's wrong to be gay. It's their decision. Which would you rather?- This person being gay... but happy (no pun intended) and healthy and alive.. perhaps a productive member of society? OR would you rather them feeling like my cousin did like an outcast and there was no way out so he decided to take his own life?
Because of this if someone tells me they are gay I will never tell them it's wrong or treat them awkwardly because of it. If they asked me what the bible says that's another matter. A personal promise to myself is never hurt anyone- emotionally, physically, what ever it may be. If someone could be hurt by my actions I never do it and the same policy applies to this topic.
I'd much rather have my cousin here right now with me than him lying 6 ft under. He was just a child and he was treated unfairly. I know the bible says it's wrong I am not saying it's right who am I to argue with God's word? At the end of the day as a Christian we are supposed to love everyone and that's what I intend to do.
Hmm!
If I were homosexual or sodomite, will I be accepted as one of those?
If I have a couple of those experiences AM I a homosexual?
Sex is a decision, as LOVE, as it self. I´m quite sure I always wanted to love a woman. My dreams were about ONE woman, I always love a woman (or several) and I´m sure I regret I had some homosexual approach to sex watching other who had a wrong drive to the nature GOD had planned for human kind.
Pitifully I saw perverted people who needed help, medical and spiritually help, they never got, and children were "induced" to explore for themselves.
Besides, the perverse world I have lived, allowed me to see private issues I regret having seen and, by these, I´m not saying I´m innocent. I´m quite quilty for ALL MY FAULTS. I grew without the Bible and its teachings and, all these ARE FOR MY BENEFIT AND FOR PEOPLE BENEFITS. Societe always needed the BIble, but we are blind to see it well.
DO I have to commit suicide for being poor, socially rejected or for being seen as unachieving person, they way any person could think of?
So, if I reject MYSELF, no wonder I would do a thing like that, because I lack "love" for myself. I lacked selfacceptance and those things linked to rejection, regret and hate.
I have had some friends who were gays but, when I knew who they were, I cut that relationship:
I cannot change them (but they tried to change me). The more we try to "tolerate" any fault, the more we see it but everybody HAS THE RIGHT TO DO WHAT THEY DO. Their limit is me, my likes or preferences.
How could I feel if my children were kissing same sex people?
I dislike they´re not behaving. I have told them to behave, but I cannot control their likes and "social" preferences. The day I see them with same sex people, I will leave them totally alone (because I will not risk MY LIFE for another I don´t love).
I´m happy those I know who have AIDS told me (to be on guard) but how do I know who are sick from other diseases?
Anyone could tell me: "
This is a flu..." but there are many sick people endangering other´s people life (and that´s what I told my children). They said: I use "shield"... But I said: "Do you use a shield for kissing some one you love? How do you protect from those diseases spread as a punishment?"
I just think about the pandemics and the social consequences, at the long run.