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my mom is a super-sweet lady, but has o.c.d. , which makes simple things and tasks frustrating by the attention to non-important details, and sometimes I speak sharply to her. I pray and ask the Lord to forgive my non- loving and caring response, and to have the Sprit give me the extra patience I need.

we all love ( hopefully) love our moms, but we are all also human.
It helps if you can know and remember that it is caused by great fear. You cannot help but pity someone who so fears that they have no control over anything bad that may happen, that they must continually find whatever little things they can control to alleviate their great fear.
 
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None of those who preach loss of salvation have ever proven their teaching via properly exegeted Scripture, nor can they back up said teachings with any other known and orthodox authorities. When all that fails, just use an flippant illustration of an unsealed package of lasagna in the fridge, and compare that, sacrilegiously, with the sealing of the Spirit while allegedly taunting others belief in His ministry of sealing them eternally, until the day of redemption.

I'm sorry to have to say this this way, but this is a bold-faced lie, because I've done it several times out of the book of Hebrews.

As far as orthodox authorities, such as commentaries, I've also done several times.

But do you know what pt4 & others do when you post proof till you're blue in the face? They comdemn the commentaries, saying it's the words of men, & twist the plain scripture you use to deny the truth, and then, if that's not bad enuff, they will go on a rant attack of how you don't know what you're talking about.

I think we should take the truths of Scripture more seriously, with gravity and solemnity, not with the flippancy and cynicism witnessed on this forum.
The one being cynical is YOU.
 
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Yeah, I noticed that with a few women from the moment I joined this site. They seem to be genuinely wanting to learn and just innocently asking questions and then either them or one of their gal pals will pounce on you. I've also seen how they try and pretend they are such good Christian ladies who are concerned about others arguing.... all the while they play both sides and sow discord among others then set back and enjoy the drama and for some reason they like to attack mostly men....

A lot of women on here are really good at manipulation and seem to enjoy it...They funny thing is they think their so sly that nobody see's what their doing.

I'm a woman so I guess they gonna pull my woman card now...Oh well, I'm just calling it like I see it...It is what it is, I guess.:)

But people really do need to be careful who they are taking up for and watch what others are doing because I've seen 'em pull many a people down into their little traps!
***You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to 1ofthem again.***
 
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The whole point to me is not to ignore her or never speak to her again because of her demands for some sort of perfection I can never attain to in her eyes. The whole point to me is to love her and to do away with the pride that demands to be treated better.

I cannot have such blessings come to me through her abuses and not love her! It is like the one man said - Josephs brothers did more good for him through their hatred and contempt than they ever would have if they had treated him well.

When I receive such a blessing as I did this morning, it's like He blessed me through her. And I find myself thanking Him for her because He used her to grow my own faith! It's quite bizarre that He will bring us to thank Him for someone who is demanding that we be perfect and always telling us we cannot do anything right! How strange...!

I have not ignored my mother

I was the only family member left standing despite her best efforts to annihilate me. I have been her 'special' target forever and half

I have agonized over her and what she has done, not just to me but to my dad and even my younger brother. I have prayed with and for her and she is a dangerous woman.

She has called the police on me, reported me to adult protection more than once (and by the way, they all showed up but to God's faithfulness, all concerned parties realized the fault was not with me and no abuse was being committed upon her)

she has falsely accused my husband of hitting her, screaming at me to 'help' her, while not knowing I had a perfect view of the actual goings on and it was she who was kicking, punching and slapping my husband while he tried to calm her and restrain her insanity.

I had to have her removed from the home at one point and we visited her in the assisted living facility where she had been placed...at that time she needed no assistance....and she wanted another 'start' and we gave it to her and allowed her back.

Ultimately, she has been placed in a proper assisted living facility...I made sure of that. I can no longer visit her as we are over 2000 miles apart. My brother relieved her of all her money at one point while he had care of her, suffered a divorce and gave the care of her over to me. I love my brother and have loved him deeply but I am afraid he is more like her than he would care to acknowledge.

so, he claimed all that money...not a small amount, and was given at least another 150K...as his own and his inheritance even though my mother asked for at least half the money from the sale of her condo back...that she had paid for...but he would not

they charged me falsely, lied about me, accused me of things that they actually did and it has taken years for me to stop hurting and even somehow blaming myself for what I never did

I write the above with no feelings. I am no longer hurt. I live with what they did because you cannot repair, you can only forgive. Neither have ever asked me for forgiveness and both blame the other.

This is not who I want to be. They are forgiven but they would not even know of what as they do not acknowledge what they have done to myself and quite a few others.

This, has taken place over 10 years and only with God's help have I been set free of the snare of this false woman who says Jesus out one side of her mouth, while spitting venom out the other.

It just doesn't matter anymore. Who knows...there may come a time when you will no longer have to deal with your mother.

God has released me from mine. Prayer is effective at any distance and my trying to 'help' her has never effected any sort of benefit. Only God can help this woman see what she has done and show her that she destroyed what she said she loved.

learn from it all? well of course. I did my best to keep the family together. But individuals are responsible and you cannot force another even for their own good.

I cannot express the turmoil I have been through because of my mother. I still love her. But it's over.
 

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The point you are missing here, is the one which puts you in the light.
We are talking about the heart, our emotions, our souls and walking in the light before God.

It centres on loving God with everything we have and loving our neighbour.

Now if you follow G7's logic this is impossible.

Now this is the compromise the pharisees had also. They were fine appearing to be religious
while not actually knowing God or following Him.

Now hidden in the words spoken, and the arguments and attacks put forward the same position
is being put forward. It is ok to be a sinner because we can be nothing else till Christ returns.

Now the slander you are putting forward is to suggest those who believe in real righteous walking
are just fake pharisees appearing to be righteous while actually being hypocrites.

With your belief system, there is no other way you could see it.
But I would ask you to suspend your own position and wonder, if Jesus can make you walk righteously,
cleansed, purified, whole for 5 minutes, would this not be the fulfillment of the cross?

The problem with your position dc. is you never answer this question.
Because you do not have an answer because you are scared of its consequences. We are not.

And we see, like light dawning on a dark day, Christ intends us to know this walk, to be like Him,
to have His heart, not as an idealistic dream in never never land, but today, here and now.

It is the world who denies this is possible, which is why I side with God and the cross, Amen.

If the Messiah teaches us to be perfect... and we hear and believe we doubt Him not but set our heart to it..

Coming up with the oh that is impossible what He really meant is unbelief.


Thanks for sharing my dear.
 
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To keep the malice and slander down to a minimum - I have never said that a works-based salvationists is as bad as being a blatent homosexual.

That is a complete lie and it is a great example of why not to interact with those that continue to speak deceitfully to "twist" what is said to make it "appear" to be something else. Rom. 16:17

I always have said that malice and the slandering of others in the body of Christ is no different than living the homosexual lifestyle as they are all in the same lists and are works of the flesh.
Again, you lie.

First, anyone that calls you on the carpet for your false teaching you accuse of malice & slandering, then state something similar to the above.

Purposely posting such garbage makes you a deceiver & a liar.
Here's one of those posts:


This should help to know the difference between"sin" - the noun used in Romans 6:14 "sin shall not have dominion over you" and "sinning" the verb which is the action of sinning.

In order to understand Romans 6-7 ( and then finally chapter 8 where the Spirit comes in ) we need to understand the difference between "sin" and "sinning".

Not knowing this leads to all kinds of doctrines like this "sinless perfection in the flesh" one that some try to promote. This doctrine will upset the faith of the young Christian and really in the end promote turmoil in their minds and ship-wreck their faith.

This will also create a works-righteousness mindset instead of a faith-righteousness one that is completely fixed on Christ's completed work for the believer.

We will always have the flesh with us and anyone that says they never are "sinning" have a very low opinion of the holiness of God and are only thinking of the "biggie sins" which they don't do and not including things like outbursts of anger, malice, slandering others in the body of Christ, causing strife and divisions..etc.

Malice and slander and things like these ( Gal. 5:21 ) are just as destructive as living a homosexual lifestyle.
You say people that believe in living faith have a works-righteousness mindset & then proceed with your own malice & slander.

Do you want me to quote some more?
 

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Paul teaches something here:

1 Corinthians 7

17But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches. 18Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised. 19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God. 20Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.
21Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather. 22For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant. 23Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men. 24Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.



Does anyone read Paul stating that what is important is Keeping GOD's Commandments?

And wether you were a servant by circumcision in the past you are now a free man in Christ and where you were free(not circumcised)
you a now Christ's servant paid for by Christ to be at liberty.

Is this what most receive?


 
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First, anyone that calls you on the carpet for your false teaching you accuse of malice & slandering, then state something similar to the above.
Yes, I have to totally agree with you here, it is absolutely true. Nothing against him personally, it is just that it is a huge fault of his to defend known heretics and attack those who expose them through the Word, then falsely accuse them of slander and malice...
 

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Again, you lie.

First, anyone that calls you on the carpet for your false teaching you accuse of malice & slandering, then state something similar to the above.

Purposely posting such garbage makes you a deceiver & a liar.
Here's one of those posts:




You say people that believe in living faith have a works-righteousness mindset & then proceed with your own malice & slander.

Do you want me to quote some more?
their is nothing wrong with what grace said in what you quoted. nothing. he did not dismiss sin, he pointed out that saying one does not sinis false teaching and that one that begins to depend on works is headed in the wrong direction.

now, I am speaking of what you quoted here. don't drag up something else, I am referring only to these quotes. nothing wrong.

it seems you are assuming that because one does not constantly decry sin and shout about righteous living, that they condone sin, and do not care about righteous living. this is called guilt by association, jumping to conclusions.
 
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"I you could lose your salvation, you would." John MacArthur.

None of us are smart or strong enough to keep ourselves saved. Our salvation is based upon the works of the Christ, not ours.
 
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Some people will say, you have to follow the commandments, but neglect to say which ones they mean. Someone apparently listed fifty of them recently. Others say the ten, and still others, the 613 mitzvot, which were never given to us in the first place, and cannot be followed anyways, since there is no Temple. To break the law in part is to break it in full, but they conveniently overlook that. Jesus said all the law and all the prophets were fulfilled in the great commandment.
Given you say this about the "commandments" here and have always said this about the commandments here ,could you then explain for people here what you meant when you posted about the Commandments he gave us for a reason in the Polygamy thread, post #84?

Your words are below and I would like to really know what you meant by the bolded below....

You come here and state there is only 1 command, but preach law in other threads....could you reconcile your beliefs for us?...I for one get very confused by all your contradictions...


Where are these verses of God stating His approval of polygamy? I have given multiple verses showing otherwise, but seen none that contradict. By the way, it is God who likens idolatry to adultery. Do you accuse Him also of doing so for the same reasons you ascribe to others? Do you think He gave us commandments just because He felt like it, or was it because the breaking of them hurt others as well as the person committing the sin? Yes, even hurt them emotionally. Do you think God cares not for how people feel? He draws near to the brokenhearted. Infidelity causes a lot of broken hearts :(
 
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the last three paragraphs- I agree with you. now, let's stay there, and not go into sinless perfectionism fairy tail land.
gb9 - Let me say this simply. I put no limits on how God works or who He works with.

I can only talk about where I am and how I understand things.
It is important to understand that walking in love and openness is the way of Christ.

My conversations were always about what is possible, not about saying who has or has
not arrived. Once you understand a sinner who is saved is a saint washed clean, and has
the ability to walk in Jesus's ways.

What I have found illuminating is how for some to even say these words is something wrong,
or to suggest walking righteously is possible is works salvation.

It is plain that until people can understand they are taken into deception by rejecting these
promises in Christ and discourage a lot of good people by this continual antagonism.
 
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here is something I think about- God brought Israel out of slavery- they rebelled, complained , dis-believed ,all the way from Egypt to canaan. but, as He promised, God took them to the promised land. when Israel got there, they refused to go in.

so, the failure was on the people, not with God. He kept every promise He made. He will not fail someone who truly believes in the One He sent.
This is either an outright lie or your are the victim of someone teaching you an outright lie and you have never studied to show yourself approved.....The first generation died in the wilderness and of the first generation only Joshua and Caleb entered in. The rest of the first generation died and did not enter into rest because of their unbelief....

Numbers 32.10-13

[SUP]10 [/SUP]So the Lord’s anger burned in that day, and He swore, saying, [SUP]11 [/SUP]‘None of the men who came up from Egypt, from twenty years old and upward, shall see the land which I swore to Abraham, to Isaac and to Jacob; for they did not follow Me fully, [SUP]12 [/SUP]except Caleb the son of Jephunneh the Kenizzite and Joshua the son of Nun, for they have followed the Lord fully.’ [SUP]13 [/SUP]So the Lord’s anger burned against Israel, and He made them wander in the wilderness forty years, until the entire generation of those who had done evil in the sight of the Lord was destroyed.



Hebrews 3.12-16

[SUP]12 [/SUP]Take care, brethren, that there not be in any one of you an evil, unbelieving heart that falls away from the living God. [SUP]13 [/SUP]But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still called “Today,” so that none of you will be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. [SUP]14 [/SUP]For we have become partakers of Christ, if we hold fast the beginning of our assurance firm until the end, [SUP]15 [/SUP]while it is said,
“Today if you hear His voice,
Do not harden your hearts, as when they provoked Me.”

[SUP]16 [/SUP]For who provoked Him when they had heard? Indeed, did not all those who came out of Egypt led by Moses? [SUP]17 [/SUP]And with whom was He angry for forty years? Was it not with those who sinned, whose bodies fell in the wilderness? [SUP]18 [/SUP]And to whom did He swear that they would not enter His rest, but to those who were disobedient? [SUP]19 [/SUP]So we see that they were not able to enter because of unbelief.

You sir, need to stop posting fiction....


Dear reader, now watch them try to explain the truth of God 's word all away....and that what God did above and the write of Hebrews says is not really what God did or says....

Dear reader, I urge you to read the story of the deliverance of Moses for yourself and also Hebrews 3 & 4.....and be warned that there are deceivers who have turned the grace of God into lasciviousness just as GB9 has either intentionally or unintentionally and we should pray his eyes are opened to truth...
 
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their is nothing wrong with what grace said in what you quoted. nothing. he did not dismiss sin, he pointed out that saying one does not sinis false teaching and that one that begins to depend on works is headed in the wrong direction.

now, I am speaking of what you quoted here. don't drag up something else, I am referring only to these quotes. nothing wrong.

it seems you are assuming that because one does not constantly decry sin and shout about righteous living, that they condone sin, and do not care about righteous living. this is called guilt by association, jumping to conclusions.
I noticed you didn't use the whole quote, with His post sandwiched in between.

Yeah..... throw the evidence away.....

 

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Nope this is not baiting. It is truth, he calls lots of people pal and mouthy.....when they upset him...
It was baiting and you know it. There wasn't any comment that you were addressing. Just trying to get on Dcon to make him respond that way. I could say you're a liar too, but I won't.
 
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can you show me where I was wrong in what I Said about pseudo salvation, conditional life, and saving yourself?

If you have to do something to maintain something, something which comes from the flesh, in order to recieve a wage or reward, it is a work, all you need is to understand what a work is.
No, I'm very certain that the believing I had to do to be saved was not a work that came from my flesh in order to receive a wage or reward of salvation (I'm amazed that there are those in the church that think 'believing' is among the works that count as earning one's salvation--utterly amazed). The very same exact believing I started continues to this day, therefore, Paul says I am presently saved:

"1Now I make known to you, brethren, the gospel which I preached to you, which also you received, in which also you stand, 2by which also you are saved, if you hold fast the word which I preached to you, unless you believed in vain." (1 Corinthians 15:1-2 NASB)

If I stop believing, the above can in no way be true anymore--it says I am presently saved IF I am presently holding fast to the word of the gospel. Now if you want to argue that true believers can never stop believing that's fine with me. Because where the rubber hits the road and you yourself ever struggle with doubts and the temptation to depart the faith and begin to question whether or not you can stop believing it will be an entirely personal matter, one that you alone have to sort out. If you rely on the Lord to keep believing you'll be fine. If you find a return to the world to be more enticing and you truly do stop believing, you will certainly not have the eternal life you had while you believed. You will lose it. You will be lost and God will offer no chance for you to come back. He doesn't allow that.
 

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This is either an outright lie or your are the victim of someone teaching you an outright lie and you have never studied to show yourself approved.....The first generation died in the wilderness and of the first generation only Joshua and Caleb entered in. The rest of the first generation died and did not enter into rest because of their unbelief....

Numbers 32.10-13

[SUP]10 [/SUP]So the Lord’s anger burned in that day, and He swore, saying, [SUP]11 [/SUP]‘None of the men who came up from Egypt, from twenty years old and upward, shall see the land which I swore to Abraham, to Isaac and to Jacob; for they did not follow Me fully, [SUP]12 [/SUP]except Caleb the son of Jephunneh the Kenizzite and Joshua the son of Nun, for they have followed the Lord fully.’ [SUP]13 [/SUP]So the Lord’s anger burned against Israel, and He made them wander in the wilderness forty years, until the entire generation of those who had done evil in the sight of the Lord was destroyed.



Hebrews 3.12-16

[SUP]12 [/SUP]Take care, brethren, that there not be in any one of you an evil, unbelieving heart that falls away from the living God. [SUP]13 [/SUP]But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still called “Today,” so that none of you will be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. [SUP]14 [/SUP]For we have become partakers of Christ, if we hold fast the beginning of our assurance firm until the end, [SUP]15 [/SUP]while it is said,
“Today if you hear His voice,
Do not harden your hearts, as when they provoked Me.”

[SUP]16 [/SUP]For who provoked Him when they had heard? Indeed, did not all those who came out of Egypt led by Moses? [SUP]17 [/SUP]And with whom was He angry for forty years? Was it not with those who sinned, whose bodies fell in the wilderness? [SUP]18 [/SUP]And to whom did He swear that they would not enter His rest, but to those who were disobedient? [SUP]19 [/SUP]So we see that they were not able to enter because of unbelief.

You sir, need to stop posting fiction....


Dear reader, now watch them try to explain the truth of God 's word all away....and that what God did above and the write of Hebrews says is not really what God did or says....

Dear reader, I urge you to read the story of the deliverance of Moses for yourself and also Hebrews 3 & 4.....and be warned that there are deceivers who have turned the grace of God into lasciviousness just as GB9 has either intentionally or unintentionally and we should pray his eyes are opened to truth...
Well, you have an obvious problem here with this interpretation.

The case can be made that Moses had a lapse of unbelief, and CERTAINLY, disobedience! So much so, that HE was not allowed to enter into the PHYSICAL Promise Land of Rest.

You are not suggesting Moses is lost are you? It could be that they and others, are the dry bones spoken about in Ezekiel.

Then again, it is also possible that you are right and they are lost. But I think we need to be consistent, and I don't see Moses as lost.
 
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their is nothing wrong with what grace said in what you quoted. nothing. he did not dismiss sin, he pointed out that saying one does not sinis false teaching and that one that begins to depend on works is headed in the wrong direction.

now, I am speaking of what you quoted here. don't drag up something else, I am referring only to these quotes. nothing wrong.

it seems you are assuming that because one does not constantly decry sin and shout about righteous living, that they condone sin, and do not care about righteous living. this is called guilt by association, jumping to conclusions.
he has a habit of doing that while at the same time crying we do that to him,

no no credibility at all.
 
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I can only say this, from all that I have seen of heretic hunting on the internet, is that every person becomes a heretic to someone else.

But, I feel like Satan is having a great laugh, having been played by all of his cunning devices

Somewhere in this mess the call to love has been lost.




Yes, I have to totally agree with you here, it is absolutely true. Nothing against him personally, it is just that it is a huge fault of his to defend known heretics and attack those who expose them through the Word, then falsely accuse them of slander and malice...