Well, the act on my part of walking down that aisle certainly got me saved. My point is that, of course, God does the actual saving of a person, however we have a part to play in salvation also. If we had no part to play in our salvation then all the world would have been saved immediately after Jesus resurrection. Those who are saved did something of their own free will, they accepted Jesus as Savior and committed their self to live for God. Those who do not accept Jesus as Savior and commit to God are not saved, even though Jesus died to save then also. So we have a part in our salvation...but not in the actual saving part.