On-Again/Off-Again in my relationship with God, why is this happening?

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It is a daily walk, and we all go through valleys between the mountain tops, I would suggest you set up a time each day to talk with God even when you are in dark times, God is aware of you at all times and loves you deeply, seek him daily not allowing satan to distract you.

Christ be with you always.
 

Hepzibah

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skinski

You are quite correct, there has been an error, and thank you for pointing that out.

I meant to say to the OP that he should not let anyone think that he is not a believer.

The problem with your theology is that you say that a man is perfect at his first coming to Christ and this is evidently not true as the OP says he has come to Christ and is trying to walk the walk but failing and this is the reality of most.

You are correct that this is second blessing theology but I am neither a Wesleyan nor an Arminian. I find both of those theologies faullty and inconsistent. I do not call a sinner a Christian as they do.

The experience of most is that they do come to Christ but although they do not sin deliberately (but some do admit to this but they are in the minority) and their problems is that they still find something within that fights against their wills to obey Christ in all things and they still find their minds wandering etc.

What you are preaching along with Jason is that a man who comes to Christ does not have this battle within and is perfectly capable of living the life that Jesus lived. I can only assume that your definition of sin is not the same as mine and Jason has displayed this by recommending a man who obviously is a sinnrer still.

An unbeliever or a Jew or whatever you like, will not have this battle within according to your interpretation of Roamns 7. This is the battle of a man who is trying to obey Christ but then is brought to a crisis point where his sense of sin is opened up and he sees just how badly he is failing.

You have no message of hope for those believers who struggle where you just say to them - get saved without even telling them how to go about it when they already know that they did come for forgivenenss previously.

Paul does give them hope though in Romans 7.

So we have a failing believer who must come once again to the cross to see that his sin nature has been dealt with already and is entirely put out of action, but only if he consents to that crucifixion. It is in the 'knowing this' that a man is delivered and that is by revelation and then by faith.

Are you really crucified with Christ skin? Is your heart and therefore your thoughts pure?
 
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A lot of the foods commonly available in developed countries are not the best for our health and not everyone understands that nor does everyone have a vegetable garden. I think it is best to stay away from making blanket accusatory remarks.
A man who is led by the Spirit is taught what food to eat and what to drink for optimal function of his body. If a man is preaching perfection and does not look the part he is a liar and the truth is not in him.
 
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I don't understand what causes me to withdraw from God periodically.
When I say withdraw, I don't just mean that I begin to doubt his existence. I mean that I stop praying, stop feeling conviction for sin, cease contact with christian connections, and cease reading the bible. The strange part is, is that I've never during these periods doubted God's existence or soverignty. So when I do begin to feel a sense of conviction again, I pray, I come back to God and I feel terrible for what I've done, for essentially abusing God's grace.


You know, I know God is our father and he loves us more than we can comprehend, but I also know that God won't be mocked. He is sovereign.I'm almost resigned to the fear that I will someday die while in one of these "off" times of my life. I don't want to keep doing this, and I ask God to please give me the grace to stay faithful.

Yet it happens...

I know that it is sin that separates us from God, but I can't understand what sin it is that's causing this sense of separation. I am not saying that I expect to never sin. I'm not saying that at all. I know the blood of Christ continually washes us from sin, and that he is faithful. So it's not like this post is about me lying, feeling some guilt, and then apologizing. But there's a difference between unintentional sin and continued, outright disobedience, right--- am I making any sense here? (Someone save me from rambling!)

I know God will never forsake us, but I also know that we can, by our own will, separate ourselves from God by sinning and rejecting Christ. However, I don't desire separation from God. I love Him, (even though I'm terrible at showing it)-- I don't want to upset Him, and hell scares the crap out of me, but I don't want to be separated from God forever when I die.
I also believe that part of what allows us to remain faithful is the grace of the Holy Spirit. Therefore, it's only by God's grace that I'm able to desire to come to Him at all. How then can I fall so far away when I don't desire to and God does not forsake us?

I'm not trying to insinuate that God is a liar, of course, I'm just not sure what to do...
I know what you're feeling. It happens to all of us, even the best of us. It is simply Satan trying to turn you. Make you walk away with God. But you must tell Satan that you refuse to do this without God. God has a plan and that's why Satan is fighting you so hard, his problem isn't you achieveing what God has set for you, his problem is you walking with God to do so.
 
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It would depend as to why you turn away time to time again. Questioning about certain things and yet having the lack of answers (at least ones that would make sense) can do this. This is not to say that you should question less in order to have faith. That method has stood its ground for too long throughout history and even in present day with various of faiths. Look where it's led/leading us.

Nobody other than you can really know for certain as to why you are doing this. Being completely honest with yourself might help as a step to evaluate your motives and belief.
 
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A man who is led by the Spirit is taught what food to eat and what to drink for optimal function of his body. If a man is preaching perfection and does not look the part he is a liar and the truth is not in him.
1 John 5:16-18 says there are sins that lead unto death and sins that do not lead unto death. Where does Paul list having a pot belly as not inheriting the Kingdom of God? Also, I am trying to understand your beliefs. Do you believe a saint can abide in unrepentant sin like lusting after a woman and then die immediately after that sin and still be saved? I get the impression that you believe that such thing is possible. Where is the dividing line at what type of evil God will allow His saints to partake in? Do you realize Adam and Eve just ate of a wrong tree and it caused sin and death to be spread upon the whole human race? Do you think it is impossible to stop sinning? Besides Romans 7, what verses do you think suggests this?
 
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A man who is led by the Spirit is taught what food to eat and what to drink for optimal function of his body. If a man is preaching perfection and does not look the part he is a liar and the truth is not in him.
Slight of hand magic trick. You are pulling away the attention from the real discussion. What does the Bible say on these matters?
 

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Where does Paul list having a pot belly as not inheriting the Kingdom of God?
Well obviously Paul cannot list all sins when he says that those who sin will not inherit the kingdom. Is gluttony a sin?

Do you believe a saint can abide in unrepentant sin like lusting after a woman and then die immediately after that sin and still be saved?
Firstly, a saint is a saved person who does not sin. If he does fall from that and dies in that position, I don't know. He may be given a chance on his death bed to be restored. A believer who dies, is carnal and has an undealt with old man, though he will have been given many chances to repent. His fate is better than that of a non believer I think but I do not have a scripture to back it up other than that God is just.

Where is the dividing line at what type of evil God will allow His saints to partake in?
Saints do not sin. Period.

Do you think it is impossible to stop sinning?
It is not just possible it is commanded of us.

What does the Bible say on these matters?
I thought I had already made it clear that scripture says that if we sin we are of the devil. It is one or the other sinner or saint. Many think they are saints when they are still sinning.

You did not answer my question what is sin?
 
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The problem with your theology is that you say that a man is perfect at his first coming to Christ
Where did I say that? Where on earth did you come up with that "problem with my theology"?

Like I said previously, all your contentions are established within the framework and upon the foundations of a Second Blessing doctrine. You are speaking of "two comings" that an individual experiences, the first leaves one still carnal and sold under sin and whilst the second redeems one from that state. The Bible does not teach that. The Bible does teach a maturing but that is in the context of growing in grace and knowledge, not becoming less and less wicked.

The issue is not "perfection" but rather "obedience" and "heart purity."

The new birth is inclusive of a total transformation of the human heart and it does not leave an individual in a wretched state carnal and sold under sin.

Look at what Peter taught...

1Pe 1:22 Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently:
1Pe 1:23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.

Peter connects "being born again" with a the "soul that has been purified through obedience to the truth through the Spirit."

Who was Peter speaking to?

1Pe 2:1 Wherefore laying aside all malice, and all guile, and hypocrisies, and envies, and all evil speakings,
1Pe 2:2 As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
1Pe 2:3 If so be ye have tasted that the Lord is gracious.
1Pe 2:4 To whom coming, as unto a living stone, disallowed indeed of men, but chosen of God, and precious,
1Pe 2:5 Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house, an holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices, acceptable to God by Jesus Christ.
1Pe 2:6 Wherefore also it is contained in the scripture, Behold, I lay in Sion a chief corner stone, elect, precious: and he that believeth on him shall not be confounded.
1Pe 2:7 Unto you therefore which believe he is precious: but unto them which be disobedient, the stone which the builders disallowed, the same is made the head of the corner,
1Pe 2:8 And a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offence, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient: whereunto also they were appointed.

Peter is addressing newborn babes, not Romans wretches.

Furthermore Peter taught this...

2Pe 1:3 According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:
2Pe 1:4 Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.

The people Peter is speaking to HAVE escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust. He then tells them to add to their faith.

2Pe 1:5 And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge;
2Pe 1:6 And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness;
2Pe 1:7 And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.
2Pe 1:8 For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.

This has nothing to do with some Second Blessing in which a First Blessing leaves a Christian carnal and sold under sin. Such a contention is obvious nonsense.

A Christian has been set free from sin, they are not saved and left in bondage.

An unbeliever or a Jew or whatever you like, will not have this battle within according to your interpretation of Roamns 7. This is the battle of a man who is trying to obey Christ but then is brought to a crisis point where his sense of sin is opened up and he sees just how badly he is failing.
Stop forcing your theological position into the text and instead read it plainly in its proper context.

Paul is speaking to those who know the law.

Rom 7:1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?

The "know ye not" is a statement made right after...

Rom 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

...thus Paul is elaborating on why the "through Jesus Christ" is necessary.

Paul explains how it is the law that gives men direction on the right way to go...

Rom 7:7 What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet.

Israel was bound to the law...

Rom 7:2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

In other words those whom heard the law were responsible for adhering to the righteous standard the law proclaimed. Yet due to people violating that standard knowingly they wrought condemnation on themselves for they had to repress light...

Rom 7:9 For I was alive without the law once: but when the commandment came, sin revived, and I died.
Rom 7:10 And the commandment, which was ordained to life, I found to be unto death.
Rom 7:11 For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it slew me.

This is the same thing Jesus taught...

Joh 3:19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.

Paul contends, that even though the law brought death, that the law was a good thing.

Rom 7:7 What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet.
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Rom 7:10 And the commandment, which was ordained to life, I found to be unto death.
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Rom 7:12 Wherefore the law is holy, and the commandment holy, and just, and good.
Rom 7:13 Was then that which is good made death unto me? God forbid. But sin, that it might appear sin, working death in me by that which is good; that sin by the commandment might become exceeding sinful.

Then after defending the law from any perceived charge that it was a bad thing Paul then gives the example of the Romans wretch...

Rom 7:14 For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.

Paul gives emphasis to what he is teaching by employing the use of the grammatical device of Historical Present.

The law is actually sourced in the spiritual, it is but an external manifestation of the law of love. The law is spiritual but the wretch is carnal and sold under sin. Mere adherence to the law cannot effect a loosing of the bondage of sin.

Rom 7:15 For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I.

The word ALLOW in the Greek is "ginōskō" and it means an experiential knowledge. The Romans wretch is in darkness, hence he "knows not." The Romans wretch is caught in a cycle of wrong doing of which he is continually convicted of. His conscience is not clean before God and therefore it is obvious that he has not touched the blood of Jesus Christ (Heb 9:14, 1Joh 1:7).

Rom 7:16 If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good.
Rom 7:17 Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.

Paul is personifying sin to make it vivid to the reader. Sin is likened to a tyrannical taskmaster whom indwells the wretched man ruling over him. The wretched man is in a crisis over his bonded state and is seeking the means by which he may be extricated from such a dire situation.

Read it carefully...

Rom 7:18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
Rom 7:19 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
Rom 7:20 Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
Rom 7:21 I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
Rom 7:22 For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
Rom 7:23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
Rom 7:24 O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?

This man is WRETCHED.

This man is CARNAL.

This man is SOLD UNDER SIN.

This man perceives the LAW (the shadow) and upholds the law as being a good thing.

This man recognises that he is in a state of bondage.

Rom 7:25 I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin.

Here Paul thanks God and also elaborates on what he has just taught. The flesh will ALWAYS serve the law of sin because the flesh is a reference to the base passions. If it feels good do it. Carnal man is driven by the flesh even though in the mind they might acknowledge right and wrong. There are many drunks, porn addicts, gambling addicts, gluttons, etc. who acknowledge the wrongness of their behaviour (uphold the law in the mind) and yet serve sin in the flesh.

Paul is making the point that the law in and of itself cannot save anyone. The law is but a shadow of love. The law is but a shadow of the Spirit of life. The Romans wretch has to die to the shadow in order to partake of the Spirit. We are not to serve shadows, we are to utilise the SOURCE.

Therefore there is no condemnation upon those whom...

Rom 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Rom 8:2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.
Rom 8:3 For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:
Rom 8:4 That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.

Salvation is through the Spirit.

Rom 7:6 But now we are delivered from the law, that being dead wherein we were held; that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter.

What I have stated is the truth regarding the Romans 7 wretch. This is what Paul was teaching. There is no uncertainty as to what Paul meant because the passage has a context which makes it clear.

Romans is not a letter consisting of proof texts and proof passages. Romans is a letter expressing truths as a harmonious whole, not only within itself but also in accordance with the rest of scripture.

There is no such thing as a wretched Christian whom is carnal and sold under sin. Those who teach that there is are giving people an excuse to keep sinning and they are also undermining the real meaning of repentance.
 
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Firstly, a saint is a saved person who does not sin. If he does fall from that and dies in that position, I don't know. He may be given a chance on his death bed to be restored. A believer who dies, is carnal and has an undealt with old man, though he will have been given many chances to repent. His fate is better than that of a non believer I think but I do not have a scripture to back it up other than that God is just.
You are very confused.

On the one hand you say things like...
You are in Romans 7 but please ignore those who say that the chapter is about the unsaved man. It is not...
Then you say things like...

a saint is a saved person who does not sin
Is that not a contradiction? Or is someone being "carnal and sold under sin" whom is in "captivity to the law of sin" somehow not actually sinning?

The Bible teaches that there is no condemnation for those whom...

1. Abide in Jesus Christ whom are walking after the Spirit.
2. Have been set free from the law of sin and death through the Spirit of life in Jesus Christ.

Therefore you must believe that salvation has NOTHING to do with not being under condemnation right? The wretched man is "saved" yet still in "captivity to the law of sin" ? How does that work? The Bible teaches that those whom have been "set free from the law of sin and death" are not under condemnation.

So if the wretch is saved then what is he actually saved from? What you promoting does not make any actual sense at all. It is a contradictory mess.

a saint is a saved person who does not sin. If he does fall from that and dies in that position, I don't know.
You don't know?

Jas 5:7 Be patient therefore, brethren, unto the coming of the Lord. Behold, the husbandman waiteth for the precious fruit of the earth, and hath long patience for it, until he receive the early and latter rain.
Jas 5:8 Be ye also patient; stablish your hearts: for the coming of the Lord draweth nigh.
Jas 5:9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door.
Jas 5:10 Take, my brethren, the prophets, who have spoken in the name of the Lord, for an example of suffering affliction, and of patience.
Jas 5:11 Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of tender mercy.
Jas 5:12 But above all things, my brethren, swear not, neither by heaven, neither by the earth, neither by any other oath: but let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay; lest ye fall into condemnation.

2Pe 3:11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness,
2Pe 3:12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat?
2Pe 3:13 Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness.
2Pe 3:14 Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of him in peace, without spot, and blameless.

1Co 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
1Co 6:10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

A believer who dies, is carnal and has an undealt with old man, though he will have been given many chances to repent. His fate is better than that of a non believer I think but I do not have a scripture to back it up other than that God is just.
The Bible teaches the opposite of what you claim.

2Pe 2:20 For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning.
2Pe 2:21 For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them.

Can you see what a foundation laid upon error leads to? It promotes further errors and the more you post the more errors you reveal.

I am not trying to be critical for the sake of being critical. I am trying to reason with you as to why we need to avoid the theologians and simply read the Bible for ourselves. Once grounded in what the Bible actually teaches THEN we can look at what some of the theologians say because we will be well equipped to discern deception.
 
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Just to chime in here, would some of you get over debating your theologies just for one moment and see that,there is a brother in need here. Its bloody disgraceful.

OP, its been mentioned previously here but I know how you feel. That inconsistent walk, I find I have the same myself. I get doubt that I even love God because of it but that's a trick. Showing concern over where you are at is a good sign and I always find He is always there even when I'm not. Also need to unlearn unhealthy comparison, doesn't help me one bit but I trust the One who started a,perfect work in me (us) will bring it to completion.
 
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Well obviously Paul cannot list all sins when he says that those who sin will not inherit the kingdom. Is gluttony a sin?



Firstly, a saint is a saved person who does not sin. If he does fall from that and dies in that position, I don't know. He may be given a chance on his death bed to be restored. A believer who dies, is carnal and has an undealt with old man, though he will have been given many chances to repent. His fate is better than that of a non believer I think but I do not have a scripture to back it up other than that God is just.



Saints do not sin. Period.



It is not just possible it is commanded of us.



I thought I had already made it clear that scripture says that if we sin we are of the devil. It is one or the other sinner or saint. Many think they are saints when they are still sinning.

You did not answer my question what is sin?
So you are not for once saved always saved or a sin and still be saved doctrine? Good. So you believe a saint is supposed to stop in their sinning? Very good. Not sure why you are fighting me on on this point. If you are against those doctrines, then you are in agreement with me. Whatever issue you have with Alan Balou is between you and him. We are talking doctrine here and not somebody's personal life and your judgment of them. For I do not believe being slightly overweight is grounds for God to send someone to Torments and then Gehenna (after the Judgment) to be destroyed. If you do, then you are going to have to show Scripture verse that this is so.
 
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So you are not for once saved always saved or a sin and still be saved doctrine? Good. So you believe a saint is supposed to stop in their sinning? Very good. Not sure why you are fighting me on on this point. If you are against those doctrines, then you are in agreement with me. Whatever issue you have with Alan Balou is between you and him. We are talking doctrine here and not somebody's personal life and your judgment of them. For I do not believe being slightly overweight is grounds for God to send someone to Torments and then Gehenna (after the Judgment) to be destroyed. If you do, then you are going to have to show Scripture verse that this is so.
Meant to say if you agree with me on those points.... then we are in agreement. Meaning.... you are against a sin and still be saved doctrine. Meaning you believe a saint is supposed to repent and stop sinning.
 

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Just to chime in here, would some of you get over debating your theologies just for one moment and see that,there is a brother in need here. Its bloody disgraceful.

OP, its been mentioned previously here but I know how you feel. That inconsistent walk, I find I have the same myself. I get doubt that I even love God because of it but that's a trick. Showing concern over where you are at is a good sign and I always find He is always there even when I'm not. Also need to unlearn unhealthy comparison, doesn't help me one bit but I trust the One who started a,perfect work in me (us) will bring it to completion.

But there is debate to be had and I can prove him wrong. Isn't that more important? I agree with you, it's disgusting.
 
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1 John 5:16-18 says there are sins that lead unto death and sins that do not lead unto death. Where does Paul list having a pot belly as not inheriting the Kingdom of God? Also, I am trying to understand your beliefs. Do you believe a saint can abide in unrepentant sin like lusting after a woman and then die immediately after that sin and still be saved? I get the impression that you believe that such thing is possible. Where is the dividing line at what type of evil God will allow His saints to partake in? Do you realize Adam and Eve just ate of a wrong tree and it caused sin and death to be spread upon the whole human race? Do you think it is impossible to stop sinning? Besides Romans 7, what verses do you think suggests this?

There is a sin unto death, I do not say he shall pray for it... indeed. some HAVE already met this requirement. Sealed their fate... indeed... Holy Ghost Blasphemy.. indeed..
 
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Just to chime in here, would some of you get over debating your theologies just for one moment and see that,there is a brother in need here. Its bloody disgraceful.

OP, its been mentioned previously here but I know how you feel. That inconsistent walk, I find I have the same myself. I get doubt that I even love God because of it but that's a trick. Showing concern over where you are at is a good sign and I always find He is always there even when I'm not. Also need to unlearn unhealthy comparison, doesn't help me one bit but I trust the One who started a,perfect work in me (us) will bring it to completion.
No, I have shown that they can take comfort in the promise of 1 John 1:9. I also have shared videos that refer to Scripture in helping him to stop sinning. If you are against a person in stop sinning then are you an enemy of righteousness? I have been arguing with someone who appears to be for the goodness of God but they appear to be more interested in trying to say that slightly overweight people may not have their hearts right with God because of their weight. Which to me is utter non sense.
 

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You all have managed to derail this girls post with three pages of the same thing you argue about in every other cc thread you clog up. I pray to God this girl gets something Holy and edifying out of it although with so many pages of infighting I hardly see how she is going to.
 
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There is a sin unto death, I do not say he shall pray for it... indeed. some HAVE already met this requirement. Sealed their fate... indeed... Holy Ghost Blasphemy.. indeed..
You believe that a person can sin and still be saved. I have later confirmed that this is what you indeed believe. For you are of the belief that no righteous deeds need to be present within a believer's life in order for them to be saved. Do you not believe all future sin is forgiven or that all your sin debt was paid? Not sure me telling you what you believe makes your false accusation true. In fact, I would tread carefully in your false accusation here because you may have just forever condemned yourself by your hateful words involving the Spirit here, dear sir.
 
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You all have managed to derail this girls post with three pages of the same thing you argue about in every other cc thread you clog up. I pray to God this girl gets something Holy and edifying out of it although with so many pages of infighting I hardly see how she is going to.
I provide Scripture verses and I strive to get people to discuss the Scriptures. That is why we are on this forum. To discuss the Bible. Your complaining is not adding any helpful insight. I have provided 1 John 1:9 as a promise to help and a link to videos in helping to stop in their sinning. What have you provided?
 

Angela53510

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To the OP:

Do not listen to these unscriptural naysayers! Jesus came to save you, you do not save yourself by your actions. I know I struggled a lot in my walk with God when I thought I could lose my salvation - through my thoughts, actions and deeds.

It was a HEAVY BURDEN! But Jesus showed me that I needed to give that burden to him!

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Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matt 11:28-30

That is when I started really seeking God, studying his Word. The Holy Spirit helped discipline me, to pray, to meditate on God's Word, and really changed my heart and soul. This really was the beginning of transforming my mind, which didn't happen till I had been a Christian for 25 years!

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Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." Romans 12:2

The word "transformed" in the above verse in Greek is metamorpheo. It is the same process by which a caterpillar changes into a butterfly in the cocoon. It is a process which comes naturally, as we seek to walk with Christ.

So my thought is to start memorizing Scripture and meditating on it. Give your burden to Jesus. And please do not listen to those bound in legalism who posted on this thread. They are not preaching the true gospel, that Jesus not only justifies us by his grace (Romans 5:1) but he sancitifies us and he will keep it till that wonderful day when we are glorified.

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And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified." Romans 8:30

And finally, trust in the promise in the following verse.

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And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ." Phil. 1:6