Speaking of sighs...
I'm just going to say one thing here, and I'm saying it just in case anybody who might have lost an infant or young child has the misfortune of reading certain portions of this thread some day.
Infants or young children who die without any knowledge of good and evil are NOT condemned by God as sinners or as "children of wrath".
I'll just throw out a few verses here to make my point, and then the rest of you can go back to arguing with each other while the harvest perishes in the field.
Deuteronomy 1
39Moreover
your little ones, which ye said should be a prey,
and your children, which in that day had no knowledge between good and evil, they shall go in thither, and unto them will I give it, and they shall possess it.
Here, God didn't bring judgment upon the Israelites' little ones and children, as he did with their fathers, because they had no knowledge between good and evil, and, therefore, they were not held accountable for the sins of their fathers.
James 4
17Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth
it not, to him it is sin.
It's the same exact principle as what was written in Deuteronomy 1:39.
Psalm 106
34They did not destroy the nations, concerning whom the LORD commanded them:
35But were mingled among the heathen, and learned their works.
36And they served their idols: which were a snare unto them.
37Yea, they sacrificed their sons and their daughters unto devils,
38And shed innocent blood, even the blood of their sons and of their daughters, whom they sacrificed unto the idols of Canaan: and the land was polluted with blood.
When the Israelites sacrificed their sons and daughters unto devils and the idols of Canaan, they shed INNOCENT BLOOD, and not guilty blood, and the land was polluted therewith.
I could easily go on, but, again, I'm writing this solely for the potential benefits of any parents who might have lost an infant or a young child, and who might come away with the wrong impression, based upon certain things that have been stated in this thread, that their infant or child is somehow in hell.